Tour de France: A hero by my side.

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TODAY the Tour de France is going to race through my village. Right down the middle! Right down main street. As I am in California, French husband is going to have a banner waving that says, "Wish you were here!" I hope I see him on TV, when the Tour de France rides through. Maybe you will see him too?

Ever since my brother Mathew told me about Lance Armstrong, how he survived cancer, and was (is) a champion beyond the bike he rode, I have considered him my hero. (I know he isn’t racing in the Tour de France anymore,) but when he did, he rode with the wind and stole my heart (sorry French husband but it is true.)

A few years ago we followed the Tour de France, by driving to obscure places and waiting for hours for the cyclists to zip by, as we cheered: ALLEZ-ALLEZ!! On one of those trips we hiked 16 miles to Mont Ventoux to watch the yellow jersey. But when we arrived the roads were blocked, and begging and bartering would not change the guards orders to open them for anyone to pass. So we drove to the opposite side of Mont Ventoux and hiked up. We felt like, "Maria and The Sound of Music gang."

As we hiked to the top, many people along the way discouraged us because it was too far, and at the top it was freezing cold. I told them I had to see Lance. That Lance had survived cancer, that he dedicated his first Tour de France victory for those who had survived cancer saying: "Winning the Tour de France is nothing compared to the battle of cancer, this is for you, this is your victory!" (Not the exact words but close enough.) I had to see him.

When we arrived to the top of Mont Ventoux, we saw snowmen. The Mistral was blowing, and the weather was unbelievably cold! Considering it was summer and southern France, we were in shorts. After waiting three hours and nearly turning into a snowmen ourselves we left. I told my children (Chelsea 10 and Sacha 8,) that we had made it to the top of Ventoux, even though many told us we wouldn’t, and that was all that really mattered.

After a long hike back to the car, we drove home. By chance on the way home we saw the American UPS team’s caravan. I stopped the car, walked over, and started talking to a team member who happened to be the head mechanic for Lance Armstrong. He told me that Lance would arrive any minute.

I mentioned to him that my brother Mathew had told me about Lance, and his battle with cancer, and that I too had survived (ovarian) cancer. That I wanted to see Lance since he dedicated his victory to people like me. That I gained courage in his victories.

The head mechanic said that every night after a race, Lance asked for stories of the day. He asked his team members to collect stories to share about the race. The mechanic said he would share my story that night.

We waited and Lance Armstrong did arrive. As he talked to the interviewer, my shoulder near inches away from his, I started to cry. It was as if I knew then that my cancer was over.

I bent down and picked up a rock that his bicycle tire had rolled over. It remains one of my prized possessions. A hero by my side.

Livestrong!



Comments

66 responses to “Tour de France: A hero by my side.”

  1. Oh Corey, you bring tears to my eyes. What a beautiful story! What a courageous fight, for both of you! I hope you see French Husband and that you’re having a wonderful time with family…xxoo, Dawn

  2. I miss cheering for Lance Armstrong as he wizzes by on his bike. He certainly has inspired alot of people. I’m glad you got to see him. Two winners.

  3. Oh, my,
    What a powerful story. Corey, I love you to pieces
    xoxo
    Gail

  4. Corey:
    I shall look for your French Husband holding his banner. How cool.
    That rock is the bomb!!!
    carole

  5. Britt-Arnhild

    A wonderful story of survival, corage (coreyage), love and stubbornness ๐Ÿ™‚
    We watch Tour de France every day, mostly to see our own Thor Hushovd I must confess, but also to watch the amazing landscape of France and the amazing tour all in all. We eat dinner early in Norway, around 4.30, and though television is never allowed when we are gathered around the table, this rule is broken during TdF. Today my brother who lives in Iceland will be with us (with his family), so there will be an international gang watching. Our oldest son is in Australia, and I know he watches during long nights, sleeping in the days ๐Ÿ™‚
    We will look for French Husband and his banner.

  6. colourmecrazy

    That brought tears to my eyes too. Beautiful story and lovely photo as well!

  7. What a lovely story. I’m so glad you saw him and that a little piece of your story made it to him via his mechanics. A great experience for your kids to remember too.

  8. Marie-Noรซlle

    “Lance stole your heart”…
    I fear that FrenchHusband changes his message on his banner when discovering this…!!!
    Le Tour de France raced through a nearby village here 2 years ago. The last day. Our son wanted to go only to see Lance Armstrong (as he had announced it was his last Tour).
    “I ‘d like to see Armstrong, dad, it’s my last chance before he retires! He’s such a great champion”
    My husband hates it but finally took us to that village…to please our son…
    The cyclists had started the day from a close town and when they came riding by us they were all together smiling and talking to each other, riding easy, knowing it was the last day, knowing Lance was the winner 7th time.
    This allowed us to see them for more than half a second.
    My son was pleased : he had seen HIM !!!
    For weeks and months he looked for Armstong’s yellow rubber wrist band to help people ill with cancer… Nothing in France !?!
    We found it on the net, at Armstrong’s association but they were sold by 10s or more… or the shipping was 10 times the price of the band …can’t remember…so we gave up.
    My son still talks about that day when he saw HIM.
    Nice and moving post !!!

  9. Such a wonderful story…I think we all need a hero by our side.

  10. This is one of the most beautiful stories
    I have ever read.
    You are a wonderful
    person Corey!

  11. Pauline Clarke

    and now look, you are special to so many, the way you share you life and your stories here – the way you live your life, daring to open your arms and heart

  12. Ooooh La La I have been looking forever for a PINk bicycle……..I love love love pink…………….
    YOu have your own tour de France every day my gorgeous and loving friend.
    You are truly blessed.
    Love you
    Hugs
    Treasure every breathe you take.
    Love Jeanne

  13. reading this brought tears to my eyes too corey. i feel your victory.

  14. My Melange

    What a wonderful story….with a very very happy ending!!! I hope those mechanics shared your story!!!

  15. pam aries

    What a wonderful heart touching story! THings like this are so meaningful! I am so glad you got to see your hero! ..BTW: I love the photo of the bike..now that is my kind of bicycle!

  16. Lovely, touching story and we are SO blessed that you won your fight!
    Hope you get to see your cutie patootie hubby.
    I am sure Lance does not worry him…he has your heart. ๐Ÿ™‚
    Hope you are having a wonderful vacation and family visit!

  17. Beverly

    What an incredible story. I think we all miss watching Lance ride (even if it is just from the television!) and witnessing his incredible story. How very special that you were able to share your story.

  18. rochambeau

    There you go again, moving me to happy tears. Thank you for recounting your experience. Your life is a powerful force!
    A very special touchstone to cherish, for a very special person.

  19. Very moving story, Corey…so happy you are well…what would we do without you?
    Have a blessed day!

  20. Laura at Blame It on Paris

    Corey, you make me want to cry, too. What a beautiful story.

  21. Miz Booshay

    Corey,
    You are loveable and lovely and you make me cry.
    Bless you!

  22. This makes for teary eyes. Wow!

  23. Cre8Tiva

    tears of happiness for you and your survival…i know you had much more to do with your life…we are blessed that you stayed and survived and blossomed…your grace the earth with your joyful life…blessings, rebecca

  24. Oh Corey, such a beautiful post this morning! It brought tears to my eyes!

  25. Jeanette

    Will the banner be in english or french? What a wonderful story! I wonder if someday he will write a book about the stories he collected along the way. I am sure he has enough to fill one. Hope all is going well and you are drinking up all he families stories that have happened over the last year.

  26. big hug

  27. Rosemary

    Corey,
    You gave me the goose bumps.
    That is a great story.
    I’m sure I saw you on TV following the race that year.
    I hope you see your husband with the sign today.
    Rosemary

  28. angela marie

    Lance is also my hero, as my husband. They both had the same cancer. This sits very close to me…. the center of my soul to be exact.
    I am happy for you Corey! So very happy!
    Muah!

  29. ally bean

    I like that you kept a rock as a momento– such a simple and organic reminder of courage and success.

  30. The story gave me goosebumps. So amazing that you got to meet your hero after all. It was meant to be!
    Darla

  31. Oh Corey! This makes me cry! How wonderful, all of it.
    Can’t wait to see you…Check your email!
    ๐Ÿ™‚

  32. tommiea

    this brought tears to my eyes….where do you keep the rock??

  33. Corey,
    That story gave me goosebumps and brought a tear to my eye. Thanks for sharing.
    Lorene

  34. Precious memories x

  35. awareness

    Beautiful story. Lance Armstrong is truly inspiring.
    Terry Fox was my hero….attempting to run across Canada with one leg and a prosthesis….for all who faced cancer. He continues to inspire this country…..his spirit pulled Canadians together like no other person before or since.

  36. LisaOceandreamer

    Oh Corey what a beautiful story – it made me tear up. Some people just touch us to the very core…I hope Lance heard your story that night and that it made his heart swell. The stone you picked up is a powerful symbol to have in your possession now. Thank you for sharing this.
    XOXO

  37. My goodness, this brings me to tears, Corey. Isn’t it strange the things that bind us to one another? I’m sure your treasured rock will some day be a puzzlement to those who do not know its story, but for you, it is the comfort of having a kindred spirit.

  38. Brother Mathew

    My sister has told this story to me a few times as she is a great story teller and I enjoy anything regarding the Le Tour. I asked her a week ago to write something about Le Tour as it is much more than a sporting event and the very thing (varied subjects) of which her blog is all about. I have seen the pictures you took of that day on Ventoux and of Lance but I guess you do not have access to them as you are here in California and the pictures are in France. Thanks Sister for a cool post!

  39. What a beautiful and moving story. I’m sitting in my office with big tears in my eyes… Thank you for sharing.

  40. corine@hidden in france

    You go girl!

  41. I have tears while reading this sweet sweet post, Corey!! Beautiful story!
    Pat
    Back Porch Musings

  42. Di Overton

    Do you know, I never cry at films and don’t cry much in general but when you do posts like this it always brings a tear to my eye, in fact you make me laugh and cry at the same time. Which only goes to prove what a great writer you are.
    Hope you are enjoying being home.

  43. carolyn

    What a wonderful post, Lance Armstrong is also one of my heroes.

  44. Kristin Wight

    I wish I was watching the TDF live rather then on TV! I went last year and saw day 5 and 6. I want to go to every stage next year!!! ๐Ÿ™‚ I want Floyd Landis to win in 2008!

  45. What an amazing story Corey. I admire your own courage. I love the pink bicycle too!

  46. carlene

    oh Cory, what a beautiful story…you literally brought tears to my eyes…you are AWESOME!

  47. destinationmetz

    the tour de france is strange. every year something strange happens. like the horses joining the race. or yesterday i think it was a poor golden retriever somehow found itself in the middle of the cyclists and got hit!

  48. A Fanciful Twist

    Touched to the core!!!

  49. Marilyn

    We were gone for a bit, so I didn’t know you were here. It makes me smile to think of you just up the road. ๐Ÿ˜‰ This is such a poignant and beautiful post, Corey.

  50. I wasn’t able to find anything meaningful to say after I first read this story. Beautiful. I am happy about the ending.

  51. Reading this brought tears to my eyes. What a story – what a hero! What a lovely talisman that treasured rock must be!

  52. FrenchGardenHouse

    Corey, once again I feel that no words I can use can describe how your writing so openly touches my heart.
    Hooray for you, hooray for Lance…you have taken his torch for encouraging others and are carrying on that tradition!thank you.
    Lidy

  53. Ceylon Sapphire

    so it was your town I saw last night!

  54. liannallama

    oh, your story brings tears to my eyes! What a wonderful hero to have!

  55. Alison Whittington

    WOW.

  56. susanna

    That’s a good story, Corey. What an experience…and how great is it that your children went with you…

  57. cruststation

    What a beautiful story Corey, a powerful inspiration, just as you are to many.

  58. Awesome.

  59. Awesome.

  60. lauren Mumford

    …and now here you are becoming a hero and an inspiration to many, just as Lance is for you!
    Inspiring story Corey, I always love to know more about you.

  61. Liz Ness

    I’m not sure what it is about great photos of bicycles (like the one you took), but I love them. I want to be there, to see it near the wall, to accept the invitation, to ride along the dusty road to the picnic. It is the possibilities, maybe? The promise of adventure, calm and revealed slowly? Not sure. But, I LOVE your photo!

  62. Corey – I’m just now catching up on blog reads and this one did me in. You are a champion. You are a hero to many – just like Lance. I would keep a rock your bicycle rode over any day. It would be my prized possession. I hold you in my heart today.

  63. Corey, I found my way to your blog a while back — I can’t even remember how! But I’ve enjoyed reading it and am always inspired like so many others.
    I saw your post today about Lance Armstrong. Very moving indeed and beautifully written. My mother is a breast cancer survivor and I was in tears at the end of your post. I am also very happy for your recovery.
    Today, I was cleaning out a cabinet as we are preparing to move. I found some extra Livestrong bracelets that I ordered for my family about a year ago. I thought I’d just toss the extras since I was being ruthless in getting rid of things. Something made me keep one bracelet. Then I saw the comment from your friend Marie-Noelle about wanting one for her son but not being able to find one and I think that he was intended to have this last bracelet of mine.
    If you are able to contact her, would you ask her if she’d like this bracelet for her son? I don’t care what it costs to mail it. I lived in France for 3 years and I know how precious a package can be if it’s something you really want!
    Anyway I enjoy reading your blog and I’m glad you take the time to write.
    Best regards,
    Bonnie
    P.S. I love Lance too! I went to see him in 2004… of course he won the Tour!

  64. wow!
    this is quite a story
    holy stones abound
    LIVESTRONG!!!!!!!!!!
    xox – eb.

  65. i watched the tour but i was too late. saw the bikes in the streets of lunel. so did not see french husband’s sign ๐Ÿ™

  66. gayle 0lson

    I am a 12 yr. ovarian cancer survivor and a grandmother of 4 girls who love to dress up! Thanks for the happy tears today. Gayle

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