Homecoming

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After twenty-four hours of traveling we arrived at the airport in France. Chelsea, Sacha and I gathered our overstuffed suitcases, and over sized cardboard boxes. The over sized card board boxes encourage starring, the curious onlookers look quizzically at us. Like we are illegal aliens…who travels with boxes these days?

We collected card board boxes from the grocery store dumpster, recycled, they have large bold lettering that read: "Toilet Paper," or "Dish Soap," or "Dog Food." This year the boxes said, "Candles in a Jar." Card board boxes hold more, are sturdier and after having far too many suitcases thrashed from travelling, they cost nothing. I can stuff them full of walnuts, tortillas and chocolate chips.

As we were about to walk through the last custom’s gate… we saw French Husband standing on the other side with his arms ready to scoop us up, our hearts were ready to jump up and down…when a loud voice growled from behind us:

"Stop! What are in those boxes?"

The custom officer did not smile. We stopped in our tracks. The exit door nearly hit us. We turned our carts around and wheeled them back into the dungeon (which was not an easy task considering how full they were, exhausted we felt, and having seen French husband within arm’s reach!) The custom officer barreled down on us, asking us a million rapid questions, having our answers look-like tangled lies.

He asked if we were moving to France? He asked us why we had so many boxes, and why boxes and not suitcases? He asked if we had gifts inside? But his tone seemed to suggest that I was smuggling drugs or a human being. His eyes screamed that I was a smuggler of the worse kind. He was grueling on my frayed nerves and I wanted to bark back at him.

I started praying. Actually it was more a monologue with God… "Dear Lord, I’ll never pack dirty laundry again. Jeez please, do not have him open our bags." Knowing that if he opened our boxes we would be there for half a century and it wasn’t going to be pretty.

I also knew if I told him that the boxes were full of hand picked, shelled, vacuum sealed walnuts, a gift to us from my Aunt Louie; he might confiscate them and certainly keep them for himself. Those walnuts are gold to me. The walnuts are legal, and they were mine. All thirty pounds of them. And don’t get me started about the box full of tortillas and chocolate chips.

In the end after saying over and over again: I am an American, I was on vacation for several weeks in California, my family lives in California, my French husband is waiting for us behind that exit door, and these are my Franco/American children. I have some gifts and bought some things, but nothing highly valuable. He let us pass through…dirty laundry, and all.

photo: A vintage mix media art belonging to my Godmother. Boy meets girl, "Do you have the goods?" He asks. She replies, "Yes I do want to search me?" ………………………….Did I write that? I am jet lagged excuse me.



Comments

77 responses to “Homecoming”

  1. I hate that .I can understand your feelings . Once It hapened me the same in Mexico , it was horrible . Before when I wan traveling , I have never seen customs in Marignane but it seems this time is over …
    Next time (year) think about it .
    Glad you are here

  2. If I had my bags (or boxes) searched I would be thinking – “HA – It serves you right, you officious little man (or woman) – now look in my suitcases at my dirty underpants and suffer… HAHAHA”.
    However, I think the airports pick “special”, “pre-verty” people who take pleasure in handling dirty undies!
    I reckon you got lucky and must have got one of the normal ones!

  3. Last year when we left France I was taken to a little room at Bergerac airport to explain waht was in my luggage.My heart was racing imagining someone had planted some contraband in there! It turned out to be my girls portable DVD player!

  4. Love and hugs and I am glad you are safe and sound and at home in France once again.
    I am sure your handsome husband is smiling and happy too.
    It all begins and ends with family.
    Love Jeanne

  5. Corey, glad to hear that you and the kids are home safe and sound…sorry about the dreaded customs police. They make my heart pound.

  6. Traveling is so difficult now; it seems these people in charge must be very put-upon by their superiors, because they love to weild their power over us poor ticket holders.

  7. Wow, you were lucky they didn’t open them… Australian customs is very strict because it is an island.

  8. Hysterical about the dirty laundry. Yes, you were indeed harboring a bomb, LOL. You should’ve let him open it and got blasted by the smell, hehe.
    I’m sure it’s a relief to be back with Yann….to say the least.

  9. Ahhh…international travel! Don’t you just love it! Glad you are home….safe and sound! Get some rest..you need it after those saucy comments ๐Ÿ˜‰

  10. welcome home corey. i’ve just returned myself. i was able to from stockholm, (not austria) visit your blog. i loved all that you had to share especially the shelly posts. i’m glad you had a fantastic time and that your boxes were able to enter the country!

  11. i also loved the “perfect just the way you are” story. precious indeed!

  12. Not a very good welcome home — BUT I’m sure French husband made up for it, once you were through the customs gates!

  13. Marie-Noรซlle

    Well well well…
    I was about to write nasty things about that custom officer WHEN I realized this incident inspired you and was soon turned into a funny post !
    WELCOME home, Corey !

  14. Glad you are home safe and sound!
    Long story short… hubby was detained at a foreign airport on our honeymoon – I panicked, never having been outside the U.S. before and thinking I was about to take a solo honeymoon (I had already passed through customs). =) heehee
    Enjoy those walnuts!!!

  15. A very funny post!!! I can immagine how hard it must have been to see French Husband and not to be able to jump into his arms right away.
    I can relate to this story…I am famous for over packing…after all they need what we have here in the States and I need what they have in Denmark and Iceland…something about the grass being greener ๐Ÿ™‚

  16. welcome back corey after a long voyage and absorbing moments at home! hope you are able to adjust again to the french way of life… la douce provence se sentait si seule et abdonnรฉe!

  17. Ah…home….
    May you have the most restful of days with your lovely French husband.
    The laundry….it can wait.

  18. Glad to hear that you are safely back in French husbands arms!
    Enjoy those waluts and chocolate chips…destined to be cookies?
    I’m sure you will be speaking French as well as before! Rest a bit!

  19. Home sweet other home! I know you have wonderful mixed emotions.

  20. Home sweet other home! I know you have wonderful mixed emotions.

  21. Funny, I would never have imagined someone would covet tortillas !!!!
    It is good to arrive back home safely. As Dorothy said “there’s no place like home” ~ where your love lives.
    Like the new look.

  22. Yay Corey!!
    You had me worried for a second.
    Glad you made it back, boxes and all.
    Rosemary

  23. Once my parents’ suitcases were waylaid between Europe and the U.S. When the cases were delivered there was a rather potent smell eminating from them. My uncle had asked that Dad bring back a bottle of his favorite after shave-available only in tourist shops. British Stinker. The bottle had broken in the suitcase during transit. Imagine how quickly that case moved through customs and the airport when the scent came through.

  24. Glad your prayers were answered, that that you are home safe with you husband, your children and your walnuts.

  25. i remember once packing ranch style beans…and duncan hines butter recipe cake mixes all the way from texas to oregon! funny what we take back to remind of us of our momma’s homes…not to mention yummy food, and besides all the wonder-filled memories! glad your in the arms of that handsome fh…xo

  26. Us west coast girls need our tortillas! You cannot find this just anywhere!
    I visited Eastern Europe with some Romanian friends a few years ago…their Romanian mothers sent us home with Palinka (homemade plum vodka) in plastic water bottles wrapped in newspaper….and home dried basil…that looked like something different than basil…I was sure I would be spending the rest of my life in foreign prison… but no one even asked! I had a nervous breakdown over nothing. I’m good at that.

  27. Yes ma’am I do!!! Glad your home safe and sound.

  28. I’m glad you’re home in the arms of French Husband safe and sound and complete with walnuts.
    Well done for keeping your head and praying, I’m sure that’s what allayed his over-suspicious nature.

  29. Welcome home Corey! Man you must have been a wreck. You are sooooo lucky he didn’t search through your stuff. Glad to hear that he let you go.
    Lorene

  30. Marie-Noรซlle

    PS – Forgot to ask:
    Have your luggage spent all their US time by that flow blue candy bowl too ???

  31. I’m glad you’re back and safe and in French husband’s easy reach. Sorry, however, for the last-minute turmoil.
    I see you’ve taken back a new blog template and look. I like ๐Ÿ™‚

  32. Brother Mathew

    Glad to hear you guys are safe and sound. I like the new look of the blog. Nice timing.

  33. What a story, Corey. I can imagine it all like i was there experiencing it with you. Thank goodness the customs guy was just ranting. Must have been a slow day. Hugs, Annie

  34. Oh sweetie, how is it that customs know when we are the most tired??? Thank goodness Jann was there to do the real search! Hugs and kisses dear friend

  35. Air travel is a nightmare no matter where you go. It used to be so elegant and fun, but now it’s just needless hassle. Sorry you had to go through such nonsense.

  36. I am so happy to know you are back in French Husbands embrace…jet lagged, customs-harassed and all….you’re all home safe and that’s what counts. (Although I know you could have done without all that!)
    How strange it seems it was only yesterday you blogged you were leaving for California….and now you’re back in France.Memories of family and gatherings and dress up parties and fairy Godmother…all brought home in your hearts.
    XOXOXO

  37. Glad you made it back safe & sound & got to keep your box contents. Now, can’t wait to see what Paris flea market goodies you find next. Come back to CA as soon as you can for another visit!

  38. I am so happy for you to be back with french husband! That would have been hard to go through what you did to have him on the other side of the door…. torture.
    I have a question… it may seem silly of me, but I would really like to know.
    In France, are there no tortillas, walnuts, and chocolate chips? What are some things missing in France that you would get here in the U.S.?
    Are you going to make chocolate chip cookies?
    Big Hug to you Corey!
    ๐Ÿ™‚

  39. Happy to hear you and your children made it home safe and sound. Custom personnel do try your nerves! But, at last, home to hugs and kisses.

  40. What an adventure!! It’s so good you are back safe and sound!
    Pat

  41. Am I the only one? … I read the comments a couple of hours ago about your blog having a new style and scratched my old middle aged brain because it sure appeared the same on my screen as always. I had to go do something and now I’m back and there’s been a change. Hurray, I am in sync now. ๐Ÿ™‚
    Oh no, I’m sorry you all had to go through that! I’m so glad to hear they didn’t make you relinquish your walnuts or toss you all in the hoosegow and demand your tortillas! And I can’t even think about having one’s chocolate chips confiscated, cannot go there. ๐Ÿ™‚
    Rest up and enjoy your homecoming!

  42. Yikes! How stressful!
    I’m glad you made it home to French husband without any other worries after your lovely summer!

  43. So glad to hear that you are home safe and sound.
    Traveling is always wearing, even when destined for your loving home. And I always wonder how these people choose who will be questioned or searched. When we were flying home from England (Make a Wish!!), I was stopped for one of those “pat-down” sort of searches…much to the amusement of my children! I’m so innocent, it isn’t even funny!

  44. So glad you are home… really there. And your story is invaluable… instead of reacting, you went deep, said what was necessary, and focused on the French Husband, just around that door… Sounds also, like your French words awoke… very quickly… XO

  45. The boxes weren’t previously filled with *potpourri* candles-in-a-jar were they? If so, no wonder the custom officer pitched a fit.

  46. Massilianana

    OUF ! Well done, you saved the nuts and the tortillas and the chocolate chips … I myself smuggled two kilos of Haribo sweets when I came back to Brazil , this time …hee hee..A warm welcome back to France and French husband . I loved all your posts of your californian summer !

  47. Whew : )
    Welcome home Corey, as you return from home, lol…your home life is like a figrue eight. Not bad considering a figure eight is the sign for healing in Tibet : )
    Paix,
    Wendy

  48. So happy that you have arrived safely “home”. Sorry to have gotten sick and missed possibly seeing you again for that and other reasons. But, it’s never really goodbye when we have “The Neighborhood” here, is it?
    Give french husband oodles of french kisses!! (I’m quite sure I didn’t need to tell you to do that…)

  49. Dear, Pillsbury cook-off queen
    Oh my what are you about to conjure up with your cal special ingredients…. be there in say 24 little hours,miss you,glad you all made it home safe and sound.

  50. Glad to hear you made it home safely. Sounds like a trip through customs my family made when we returned to the US from Switzerland back in the 70s. The customs officer took the sausage and cheese we had brought back. My dad was so mad. He figured the customs officer probably took the sausage and cheese home with him. My dad said we should have stood there in customs and ate it in front of the guy. LOL

  51. Hi Corey, I’m happy you made it home safely! I’ve been following your blog for a while now, and have found your blog so inspiring, that I’ve just starting blogging myself. I really admire your style! I hope you can pop by and visit me sometime. Happy Homecoming!

  52. Glad you made it back safe and sound. I enjoyed your vacation photos, but I look forward to more French adventures. ๐Ÿ™‚

  53. Forgot to say, I like your new format!

  54. Welcome home, Corey. x

  55. Welcome home, Corey. I’m glad you made it through customs. ๐Ÿ™‚

  56. Thank God you are now safe at home with the nuts !

  57. You’re home! How long will you stay in bed? err….sleeping, from the jet lag, of course! ::giggle::

  58. Welcome home! Or at least, welcome back to your home!
    Went a-traveling myself to Oregon and California just two weeks ago and had my bag searched on the way. (“They” left me a note and helped themselves to my pop-up laundry basket, fortunately empty). I attempted to file a report and was told I was 123rd in the phone line and my call would be answered in the order it was received. I hung up. Someone is storing their dirties in my hamper.

  59. I think I saw you………or is that me I am thinking of coming back from France-what’s with those guys..have they nothing better to do than pick on sweet-wonderful tourists?I wish I has been there to see the commotion, what a riot! Glad you are home and thanks for helping our economy!

  60. Customs has a way of making innocent people feel guilty.
    It’s the guilty ones that slide through customs without breaking a sweat.
    xo
    Blue
    (Glad you are home!)

  61. Welcome back to your home… walnuts and all! It must be great to see your hubby again after your vacation.

  62. Dear Corey! I am happy you made it home safe and sound…But so sad we missed one another this trip!! ๐Ÿ™
    Ahh, weelll. I guess I will have to go to Frace. *sigh*
    ๐Ÿ™‚

  63. Dear Corey! I am happy you made it home safe and sound…But so sad we missed one another this trip!! ๐Ÿ™
    Ahh, weelll. I guess I will have to go to France. *sigh*
    ๐Ÿ™‚

  64. Elaine LaMonk

    Customs Officers are scary. It feels like they hold your future in the palm of their hand. That door to the other side can be so close, yet so far away. LOL
    ~elaine~ from SoCA

  65. Elaine LaMonk

    Customs Officers are scary. It feels like they hold your future in the palm of their hand. That door to the other side can be so close, yet so far away. LOL
    ~elaine~ from SoCA

  66. What a scary encounter, perhaps you shouldn’t carry cardboard boxes in the future ๐Ÿ™ Must have been a bundle of mixed emotions as you approached the exit…glad everything worked out.

  67. WELCOME HOME Dear Corey!
    Can we order some shelled walnuts? ? ?
    I have a special “REAL” dice bracelet that always manages to divert the attention of the customs officer WHERE ever I am.
    One even asked me if I was a gambler!?
    And I bought the bracelet in a museum shop of all places…
    If I see it again I will get you one.
    You NEED it!

  68. sigh, don’t you just LOVE customs?
    glad you made your journey home safely!

  69. Oh my – how frustrating that must have been. I’m so glad you made it home safe and sound! xoxo

  70. So glad you are home safely. The image of you in the airport is charming, I always fret about the dirty laundry…although hubbys trick is to pack all of the dirty laundry on top then they do nto dig any deeper for fear what is at the bottom may be worse not sure about this but he believes it.
    What a treasure the boy and girl are so many words flood my brain when seeing such a delightful piece.
    Love the new look of the blog it is perfectly divine.
    XOX

  71. Welcome home! To be so close to French husband and yet so far away!!!

  72. Welcome home, Corey- I think God is a bit of a teaser- so close and yet so far!
    xo

  73. I read like a girl engulfed in a novel that noone can tear her from!!! Oh, thank goodness.. 30 lb.s of walnuts, safe and sound for you!!! xxxooo

  74. Tortillas and walnuts….I totally understand!

  75. Oh my goodness, I can’t even imagine… Love your response and your candor, because I’ve found myself in similar situations where I’m tempted to mirror the person’s intensity. I love how you handled this…
    Anyhoo, YAYYYYY you’re back in France! Looking forward to see some posts/pics of you in French Husband’s new “avion”. :0)

  76. The little item you brought back “Boy Meets Girl” is something called Ribbon Art. The one you have is quite unusual because it has 2 figures. Most have just one, a female with an elaborate gown, reminding one of a bridesmaid. A bride is also a valuable and rare find. Very nice piece.
    Welcome home.
    ___________________
    Hi Gigi
    Thank you for your information, the piece of art belongs to my Godmother. It has ribbon and paper in its design.

  77. You sent me into fits of giggles! From reading the woes about traveling and just wanting to return to the arms of your husband then the cheeky dialog between the characters in your grandmother’s art. Haha!

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