Wear your Desire

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                    Photo: An oil painting in an antique shop in Venice, with a reflection of another painting behind it.

Some of us feel, at one time or another… a desire to fully express the inner tide of who we are. To be able to live abundantly our deepest longings, and yet during these moments the reality of our lives holds us back. The day-to-day life of commitments and expectations, time restraints and budget, the constant call of choice….

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                    Photo: Holy cards montage.

The tender ache of holding back, or worse the waiting to the point of forgetting that which is at the core of our desire. Maybe the inner desire can be expressed, lived and shared, wherever we are to some extent…instead of an all or nothing approach.

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                  Photo: A small detail of a colored engraving 1800 c.

Honor your desire by planting a seed of it somewhere. Let it take root in a small gesture, a simple act, by writing our desire on a stone and tossing it in a river… write a word a day to yourself and put it in a jar by your bedside…follow your heart by dancing at midnight under the moon… or give yourself permission to not be perfect… draw an ink tattoo on yourself of the image of your desire… create a collage on your bathroom mirror…make vegetable monsters to conquer your fear…put love letters to yourself under your pillow…every-time you see that which you long for, say your name out loud. If you long for it to be true then plant your longing in your heart’s garden and water it regularly with symbolic gesture.



Comments

35 responses to “Wear your Desire”

  1. for years i’ve been watering the seeds every day, desires and wishes, dreams of the past and future sealed and painted in a journal. the words are decorated in vivedly painted colors almost visible and real, bright yellow and warm terra, some turqoise and azure blue, soft purple and moss green. they come along with scents of jasmin and lavender accompanied by a soft sea breeze…

  2. Corey,
    Not always, but sometimes the longing is more rewarding than the having.
    rel
    P.S. I water it daily none the less!

  3. Thanks for sharing your wisdom. Everyday I’m amazed by your words and beautiful photo’s.

  4. This post speaks to my soul and my postition in life, thanks.

  5. I MUST TAKE TIME TO DO THIS! Corey, you seem to always say what I need to do in my life…keep this up, and I will have to compensate you for your services. ๐Ÿ˜‰ hugs

  6. It’s obvious this is the way you live your own life. And true to your generosity, you share it all with us. I love the thought of saying my name out loud every time I see what I long for. I’ll let you know how that works out ๐Ÿ™‚
    Thank you, TICA

  7. cruststation

    I love the idea of planting a seed, it’s a hope we have that one day our desire will blossom into something which expresses the ‘inner me’. Reading your entries always leave me smiling, walking away with a lesson well learned.

  8. Corey – your words and photos are just so beautiful! And what a great idea to plant a seed and write love letters to yourself, sometimes we need that in this hectic, turbulent world! Thank you so much for sharing yourself and your ideas, it is always a wonderful treat to visit your blog! Marva

  9. Paris Parfait

    Such lovely and wise words. Yes, the key is persistence and faith in ourselves – one day at a time.

  10. rochambeau

    A good reminder to be gentle with myself more. To honor my desires. Thank you Corey,
    have a fun Sunday. Are you fleaing?

  11. Mari-Nanci

    And Kas* has gone from blogland.
    -sigh-
    *http://nextdesigns.blogspot.com/
    Mari-Nanci

  12. Pinkie Denise

    Dear Corey,
    Last night I was asking myself some deep questions. So much like your post, I was listening for an answer. Oh when I read your post Viola! I will listen and hear. Oh how beautiful your words speak to my heart. Love to you and yours this beautiful Sunday! Pinkie
    Denise

  13. thanks corey for these words of inspiration. i have been stumbling this weekend…and needed the reminder. ๐Ÿ™‚
    delphine

  14. Smiling and being happy, always helps me reach my hearts desire! and reading posts like this… I love the colored print, will you be selling copies of it??? You always have the best links, when do you find time to NOT be on the computer? Have Leah give you a HUGE HUG for me when she arrives, wish I could be a little mouse in her pocket! Love you!

  15. This is exactly what I neede to hear today. Thank you Corey.

  16. Alison Whittington

    Corey, I am sure others have told you this before, but I think it’s time for you to write a book.
    Thank you, as always, for your wise words. I am sure I’m not the only one who looks up to you as a mentor on how to live life to the fullest.

  17. Corey,
    That is very wise. Everyone should try it.
    Have a lovely Sunday,
    Rosemary

  18. Pam Aries

    A truly motivating post! Your ideas inspire me!

  19. JanePoe (aka Deborah)

    I love the messages to acknowledge and nurture the desires within us … peace & love to you, Corey. xx, JP/deb

  20. Betty @ She’s Sew Pretty

    Beautiful post Corey. Your post reminded me of a quote I had hanging over my desk for years. “Flowers are the seeds in the garden of life”. Thank you for the reminder.

  21. Caffienated Cowgirl

    Inspiring post…thank you!

  22. freefalling

    “the constant call of choice” –
    that’s the one that always gets me!
    So much to choose from, so little time!

  23. designdna

    great words of encouragement. many thanks.

  24. Mountain Dweller

    Very eloquent. I have never thought of desire in those terms before – as usual you have found a way to describe it perfectly.

  25. Corey, With two small kids at home for the second week of the autumn holidays you couldn’t have expressed my sentiments better! Thank you so much for your clarity and tonight rather than just giving up and going to bed, I’ll make a point of doing a little something for myself. Thank you again.

  26. i will! i will honor my desire sweet corey! i welcome your encouragement with open arms. from my heart i thank you. i have a seed in the palm of my hand that i will plant today!!!

  27. “Maybe the inner desire can be expressed, lived and shared, wherever we are to some extent…instead of an all or nothing approach.” Love that! It is true also that dreaming takes back some of our energy to do things because is easier this way than actually move.
    Wonderful thoughts Corey! Thank you again! Just what I needed today! A big hug.

  28. Like most everyone here, I felt this post was written with me in mind. Wonderful ideas. I especially love choosing a word for yourself every day and putting it in a jar by your bed. I believe I will. How fun will it be to take them out and look at them when it’s full. Thank you Corey. I really love the way you think.

  29. How sweet of you Corey to link to a post on my little ‘ole blog ~ thank you for this and for your lovely ideas. Though I’m currently not blogging I’m still around and continue to enjoy reading all that you share with us.

  30. I was only talking to a very dear friend last night about my frustration with myself in my all or nothing approach to life. I find it so hard to sit in the in-between and experience the journey. It leaves me either flying high or flat as a pancake. Thank you for your very timely words of wisdom. So glad, once again, that I dropped by. Nel xo

  31. I wish I had the words today, to do honor to the beauty of your words here…though I’m sorry I missed reading in them in a timely fashion, they are just what I needed to read today – so perhaps I’m still reading them when I should. Thank you for writing them; thank you for sharing them with the world, with us, with me. ~xox

  32. Pat Paulk

    You never disappoint with the richness of your words and thoughts. Want to come water the seeds of my dreams??

  33. “To be able to live abundantly our deepest longings”
    But that’s what it scares me the most…I sometimes do fear of my own desires..I have to force myslef to stay put for now, and raise my tow boys and later ..Oh! later

  34. ah ah ah
    just beautiful
    will print it out and keep in my journal
    as a reminder to creativity ๐Ÿ™‚
    thanks Corey

  35. Tamara Giselle

    I read your words and think to myself how does she know these things? I haven’t told a soul these, the tenderist of feelings and desires. It is at these times I believe you have high security access to the deepest places of my heart, and yet we have never met. How is it so?

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