Family History

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My Grandmother left the Azores when she was fourteen. She traveled to America with her Aunt and Uncle, arriving at Ellis Island. Then she took a train to Wisconsin and worked as a servant in someone’s home. Months later, when she had enough money, she ventured towards California to meet her older brothers who were already living there.

When I was in the Azores I went to the small port where my Grandparent’s, one by one had left as young teenagers towards their big adventure.

I cannot imagine as a parent saying good bye to my fourteen year old daughter, nor son.  My Grandmother never saw her Mother again.

When I asked her what was that like, she said she had to do it, her future was calling her.

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The main reason I went to Terceria was to know more about my family’s history.  I went to the library, and by chance meet a man who was documenting Terceria’s ancestors. Meeting him was a miracle that still gives me goosebumps.

This is the library that held some of my families documents dating back to the 16th century.

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The man brought out this leather bound book, with its soft worn pages. He read to me the names of my family. I asked him if I could hold it, somehow just holding it I felt I was holding the hands of my past, that I was the link taking them to the future.

The path is long, the journey unending, the heart has no bounds if you let it go free.

Photos: Taken in the Azores 2003.



Comments

46 responses to “Family History”

  1. Of course it was a miracle, and not just by chance you met this man………
    Your grandmother must have been a very strong woman.

  2. Corey,
    For me it’s the knowing that someone came before me and I am a small part of a greater lineage. That they had lives and dreams and perhaps, I, a 6x great-grandchild, may infact be the fulfillment of one of those dreams.
    What we know combined with using our imaginations to fill in the blanks gives us a personnal history.
    rel

  3. Corey, you obviously share the same strength of character as your ancestors. They sound like a family to truly be proud of!
    Amanda (aka Cottage Contessa)

  4. Marie-Noëlle

    People living on islands are very strong and tough. Even when rooted deep in their homeland, they know too well they can leave any time. And they’re always ready for their soar…
    Long sagas everywhere…
    I’d like to know what “açores” means in Portuguese – do you know? (I’m fond of etymology)
    Do you speak Portuguese fluently?
    (A-soar-es)

  5. I have some fascinating stories like this in my family too. My great-grandmother, the daughter of German immigrants who lived in Arkansas, got married at 13 and had her first child at 14! She and her husband stayed married well over 60 years, until his death at 94.
    From today’s standpoint, this all seems strange and creepy — he was well into his twenties when they got married — but she said she just never gave it a thought and was very happy.

  6. Ellen Cassilly

    Lovely storey Corey,
    I wantb to know what Chelsea and Sasha thought of the exploration into their history? Ellen

  7. What a brave woman your grandmother was. Her granddaughter has a bit of that herself.

  8. Love your journeys through your words.
    Love you
    Jeanne

  9. Corey, I’m loving the family history. Even though the journey must have been arduous, it’s all very romantic. Cheryl

  10. What a remarkable chance that you met this gentleman and had the opportunity to read and hold the documents.
    It interesting how are families spread out across the world isn’t it?
    Darla

  11. Well you must know that I’m a sucker for genealogy stories…keep ’em coming 🙂

  12. How lucky! What a miracle it was to serendipitously bump into that gentleman!
    So many sacrifices were made to allow you and me to have the life we do today. Like the story of your grandma leaving her Mom and my Grandma also coming from Norway when she was only 13 yrs.
    On my fathers side we are Bohemian. One of my best friends is Bohemian. My father thought she looked just like his Aunt. My friend Deanna and I are close in a special way. We wonder if our relatives past each other in the street or even knew one another.

  13. Thanks for the sweet note on our post….and we LOVE your blog! Such vivid writing that makes the past come alive.
    blessings, kari and kijsa

  14. Corey, I have goosebumps reading of your experience. It is hard to fathom how those generations could do this. Helicopter parenting I think is the term I have heard used for our generation…but I think it’s more a sheer joy of living, watching and experiencing life with our kids.
    Of course they have opportunities our grandparents only dreamt of…thus leaving home at 14 to discover it.
    thank you once again for sharing!

  15. Beautiful Corey! To hold onto that book must have been amazing!

  16. interesting story! do you speak portuguese? (ok if not??, then i hope you enjoy portuguese pastries;)
    and sorry maybe you mentioned this before but are we talking about your mother’s roots or your father’s roots?
    thanks again corey…always fun and interesting “mornings with you”
    xx delphine

  17. Corey,
    I so totally get that. The feeling that your ancestors once touched that book. Once signed that book. One stood in front of that book just like you were. I am catching up on your posts, loving all you share. What a wonderful thick family history you have.
    My whole family is lost in France somewhere (my maternal gradmother’s side). My great grandfather left France, at 14 too. Came through Mexico and on to L.A. He became a chef. He brought his sisters here ( I never got to meet any of them. I keep a photo of my great grandfather in a case with all my Catholic relics.
    Funny enough, when my grandmother’s sisters who live far away see me, they gasp. Saying from my eye glances to my mannerisms, I am identical to a French aunt who has long passed. My curiosity flutters about… One day…… xxooooo

  18. Chance or fate?
    Your Grandparents like my husbands were stubborn, brave and determined.
    My husbands grandparents left Madeira for Brazil, suffered death and hardship, his grandmother came back to Madeira aged 30 and widowed with small children. A few years later her sons came to Canada and her daughter returned to Brazil. Life here was not easy in the early years, but they never gave up. Their love for their homeland stayed deeply embedded in their hearts, and through them I have come to love it, and it’s history too. They did what they had to do to make their way in the world, and it was their stubborn determination, centuries ago that discovered so much of the world.

  19. PS: By ‘their stubborn determination centuries ago’, I mean the Portuguese explorers, not my In Laws..!

  20. I can imagine how wonderful it must have felt, to hold that precious book, in your own hands.
    Mari-Nanci

  21. Wonderful family’s story . I love this post. And your grand mother was a brave woman

  22. Corey, so lucky you are to know so much about your history. We know *some* things about our family history, but our story gets confusing and stops somewhere. The coolest thing I know is that when my Grandparents came from Germany to Ellis Island, there name was *Locher*, which is German, but they mistook the *H* for a *K*…and so is my current last name…*Locker*. Weird name, but when I put it in perspective…it makes perfect sense and makes a nice story.

  23. “the heart has no bounds if you let it go free” how true. I researched my paternal Grandma’s arrival to Ellis Island. She left Norway to get married. The Ellis Island site had a photo of the ship she came on, the ship manifest with her name on it, etc. It just made me shivery to see this and realize all of the adventures and challenges the tiny little old lady I called Grandma had been through. Her daughter aka Favorite Aunty was thrilled when I printed the info. out for her.

  24. How lucky you are to have that history & to actually have been there in person to see for yourself. I was also lucky. In doing my genealogy research I found family members online who already had done most of the research for me. All sides – adopoted & birth. My Portuguese ancestors were Soares & Silva. Most likely very common names.

  25. How wonderful to see where you come from. Imagine never seeing your mother again . . . but knowing she is living in your old world.

  26. How wonderful to trace back your family’s roots to such a beautiful place, even if it was so harsh that they had to leave to find a better future.
    My family all stayed put in the UK, but we can’t trace them back any further than my great great grandparents – I’m the first one to have skipped the country!

  27. How wonderful it is to trace one’s family as far as this! I don’t know, where my grandfather came from, and my husband doesn’t even know his grandfather!

  28. This is so fascinating, Corey. It must be wonderful to find out more about “where you come from.” You might find many keys to who you are. On the other hand, discovering our histories tend to pose more questions than we had before we started.
    Either way … it’s fascinating … and how very wonderful that you know so much about your grandmother’s life – what a courageous woman she must be. Have a great week!

  29. What a great story!
    I think everything happens for a reason Corey.
    Have a great day/night in France,
    Rosemary

  30. I couldn’t imagine a life so desperate that I had to leave my parents at such a young age. It’s incredible the character of people all those years ago.
    My grandmother left her mother in Lithuania to come to America with my grandfather as the Communists were taking over and she never got to see her again. My grandmother was in her late teens.

  31. fascinating… going back to your roots is just such an enriched experience. imagine those days, saying farewell for ever, sailing across an ocean and travelling over land alone, towards the other end of the world, not knowing what will be.
    you’re back in europe again corey, near to the place of your ancestors! sailing as well, the circle of life…

  32. Wonderful,heart warming post.
    Serendipity!!
    Would you like to play the “waiting” game with me?
    Holly x

  33. this gave me gooseybumps! how lucky you are to have held that in your hands…ahhh ya know I live in wisconsin;) miss you hug hug hug!
    berryhead

  34. My husband went on line and found an extensive genealogy on his fathers family going back to the Norman consquest in 1066. Three brothers aged 17, 12 and 11 journeyed here and their ship, the Angel Gabriel, shipwrecked off the coast in Maine in 1635. They made it to shore. I can go back to a great, great grandfather but haven’t explored further. It is so fascinating. What courage the all had.

  35. Hello Corey,
    I loved reading your blog the last few days
    about the old country. This I can remember
    how my grandparents called it. I often think
    about your grandma coming here and how young
    she was. How her words speak, her future was
    calling her…………..so brave and strong,
    I just can’t imagine.We hope to visit the
    Terceira someday soon, it looks so beautiful
    and quaint just as I heard it described. Thanks for sharing these lovely memories of
    your trip. I have so enjoyed it Denise

  36. Corey, You use your words to paint such a beautiful image. I could see your whole story in my mind. I really love looking up my family’s history, genealogy is a hobby of mine. So neat that your Grandmother told you her future was calling her.It was a terrible sacrifice, but she knew she had a future. xoxo Nita

  37. Elaine L.

    It gives me goosebumps when I think about the hardships that our ancestors overcame, whether it be coming here on a ship or traveling across the plains in a covered wagon, for us to be who we are today.
    ~elaine~

  38. Thank you for your kind words on my blog, Corey. I have found your posts on the Azores really interesting. California is just full of folks who originally came from Portugal and Italy. I think it must be because of the climate…it is so similar. There were parts of Tuscany, at least, that reminded me so much of the foothills to the east of where I live.

  39. Chilling just reading this Corey as my parents
    came to Canada from Europe and life was NOT very good.Father died within a yr. mother was left to care for 2 babies…and all her family left behind.. I have always wondered about my families history who is still alive?..we have never had contact…I can just imagine how you felt listening to the man read out the names!!
    Family is so precious..hugs NG

  40. Another heart felt story Corey
    So many relatives I never got the chance to know…
    And some relatives today standing in my path…
    It’s nice to think of those unknown relatives rooting for me on my journey going forward 🙂

  41. Wow! Isn’t amazing how we all long to know where we came from? Do you think it helps us know where we should be heading?
    I loved all the comments you recieved. It was so neat to hear everyone’s story!

  42. and this post gives me goosebumps! it is so amazing how life works.

  43. You have curiousity, adventure and wanderlust in your blood, wonderful traits to have. Must have been amazing to hold your family documents and being able to make history tangible.

  44. Cousin Chris

    Sometimes I find myself wanting to just drop everything, cash out here in the US and move to the Azores. They have motorcycle shops there and I speak well enough to get by, I would be fine. But..to do as Avo e’ Ava Amaro e’ Souza did and come to the US back then,at that age,not knowing a lick of english and build the good fortune and a great family that they did….now that takes big ones. What people of fortitude they were. Thanks for posting this Corey, They are all Saints in my book.
    Couson Chris

  45. Chilling Corey. I would give the world to hold a book such as that. What a blessing to know so much about your ancestors.

  46. Oh, Corey, this post very nearly made me cry. Someday…some…day…I will get to the Azores. But you know what mystifies me still…and what I didn’t think to ask when they were all still alive…is WHY? Why Northern California? I mean, the Azore Islands to Crescent City…in the late 1800’s when there was almost nothing there…it baffles me. Why did your family come to Willows?

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