The Gift of Life

Vaseofroses While my father was in the hospital I stayed with my cousins Judy and Chris, since going home to Willows was too far away to be a daily option. Their back bedroom (or as nicknamed, "The Green Room at the Walnut Inn")became my home away from home.

Since I stayed at the hospital at night I slept during the day. Every morning I would come into Judy’s home to find my bed turned down, flowers at my bedside, a picture book on my pillow. Later when I would wake up their table would be set charmingly with a home made meal and a glass of red wine waiting for me.

I was spoiled beyond words. Treated like a Royal Princess. I soaked-up every bit of their kindness and was able to hold vigil by my father’s heart because I had their faithful foundation underneath me.

All this is to say… Happy Birthday Judy! Thank you for giving me a safe refuge everyday unconditionally.

When was the last time your love helped someone help another? I am amazed each day by the lessons of love I am receiving. Compassion comes from experiencing something first hand, and then being able to share from what you have gained, witnessed and learned to another.

Everyday there are ways to love one another. To give to another. What an extraordinary gift to receive someone’s compassionate heart and feel it breath into your own…



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39 responses to “The Gift of Life”

  1. Marie-Noëlle

    “The walnut Inn” sounds like a very special home, Corey.
    A secure and comfy nest…
    (I came to know your cousin as Queen Zinnia.
    Now I can get a glimpse of her home
    and she turns Queen Angelica.)
    A very happy birthday to her!

  2. judy seems to understand all the way, feeling the emotional need of support by her very own caring and loving way.
    a bouquet of flowers, a served dish and a glass of wine can just do wonders…
    happy birthday judy from the southern valley!

  3. Joyeux anniversaire, Judy, you are a wonderful woman.

  4. le petit cabinet de curiosites

    Joyeux Anniversaire to JUDY from the sunny Provence !
    Everyday , life and poeple give us lessons !

  5. Happy birthday,and I thank you so much for all you did, Chris and you, for Corey. On the phone, often Corey told me how so nice it was to be under your kindness.
    Happy Birthday, Judy.

  6. What wonderful cousins and friends! Happy birthday, Judy, from NE Tennessee!

  7. I like the way you look at things, Corey. You have a gift of putting it into words that make it as beautiful as it really is!

  8. Hi Corey:
    Kindesses are so awesome.
    Happy Birthday Judy!!!
    Caring & Sharing : )
    Peace & Love
    carole

  9. God bless you and your cousin Judy and all of you.
    God bless you all real good
    With much love and many blessings
    Jeanne ^j^
    Kindness is the special art of living with a loving heart.
    Love Jeanne
    Happy Mother’s Day~

  10. the farmers wife

    Happy Birthday Judy!
    You know Corey, we always offer help to others during their time of need but we don’t often taken someone up on the offer. It can be something simple. I think we need to ask for that help more often.
    You are very blessed. There have been many lessons proferred in the past three months and much healing.
    Thank you so much. – Suzanne, the Farmer’s WIfe

  11. Happy Birthday, Judy!! You are truly a special soul!

  12. tut-tut

    Happy Birthday, Judy. Thanks goodness for the kindness of others.

  13. deirdre

    That kindness will echo, as great kindness always does. Happy Birthday to Judy. I hope you all have a wonderful day celebrating.

  14. Happy Birthday, Judy! What a blessing you were, and surely continue to be, to Corey. You look like sisters…beautiful!!!!

  15. Marva Plummer-Bruno

    Oh how wonderful to have fresh flowers by your bed and a storybook. What a special cousin you have!!!! She sounds like an angel! Happy Birthday Judy! May you have a beautiful and gloriously bright day! 🙂 And thank you for taking such good care of our Corey…. Marva

  16. There is nothing like having a “home away from home” and special care when you need it.
    Judy is an angel…may you have the most blessed year ever, Judy!
    Thanks for taking care of our Corey!

  17. Happy Birthday, Judy. What a remarkable family this is.

  18. Rosemary

    What a wonderful cousin!! How lucky you are to have such nice people surrounding you.
    Happy Birthday to Judy!!
    Love,
    Rosemary

  19. Happy Birthday, Judy! May you receive many times over what you give….

  20. Happy Birthday to Judy!
    I’m sure she will miss having you there, Corey! You have shown us the grace in being able to accept help and to allow someone else the joy of serving us!
    Your photo inspires me to find beauty in my home and to serve my family joyfully!

  21. Happy birthday to Judy…she was God’s angel to you. Love comes in many ways and being able to share it is is blessing.
    Love and blessings

  22. Happy Birthday to your sweet Judy!
    And a blessed and joyful Mother’s Day to you and your dear mother, Corey! Give your mother a big hug from Beachy, and I am sending you a big hug, too! =)

  23. Happy Birthday to your Judy from here as well!

  24. Liz Ness

    Happy Birthday Judy…and HUGS to you. What an amazing and love-filled family you have. Such an honor to cross internet waves with you!

  25. martina

    Happy birthday Judy! Hope you get lots of love and attention. Thank you for taking care of Corey and being such a comfort to her.

  26. annieelf

    Joining the Happy Birthday chorus, Corey. My heart is filled by this knowledge of how well taken care of you were. Love, Annie

  27. Miss Sandy

    Corey,
    I am so glad you had such a soft place to land and the end of each days vigil. What a precious family you have! Happy Birthday to the hostess with the mostest, Judy!

  28. Happy Birthday from North Carolina angel girl Judy – thanks for taking such good care of our special friend!!
    Corey – hope you are still there with your mom, she will need you close tomorrow. Will be thinking of you both on Mother’s Day.

  29. Happy Birthday to Judy! Thank you, Judy, for creating a refuge for our dear Corey. As in all of Corey’s posts, I learn about life and love and how to enrich my own life through her words and wisdom, today is no different.

  30. MaryBEth

    What are Raphael’s Madonnas but the shadow of a mother’s love, fixed in permanent outline forever? ~Thomas Wentworth Higginson
    Happy Mothers Day
    To you, your mom
    xo

  31. Acts of service is my love language. It is my way of life to do what I can to make things easier and more comfortable for those around me.
    happy birthday Judy, I do hope your birthday wishes come true.

  32. Hi Corey,
    Happy mother’s day to you and your mom!
    Happy birthday also to Judy!
    Love

  33. m. read

    Happy mothers day dear Corey. I was going to write that you must miss the French traditions of Mothers day celebration, but you are so thoughtful that I see you are completely only thinking of your own mother. Peace beauty and love to both of you.

  34. phyllis

    Happy Mothers Day Corey…I see you are on the other side of the journey now. Prayers for you!

  35. JanePoe (aka Deborah)

    I’m glad you are surrounded by the love … Judy sounds like an amazing, thoughtful woman (happiest birthday wishes!).
    On this Mother’s Day, may you and your mother be held in gentle love and hold each other dear as you move through these changes of life.
    Much peace & love,
    JP/deb

  36. rochambeau

    Happy Mother’s Day Corey to you and your Mother.
    Happy Birthday to Judy too!
    xox
    Constnce

  37. Happy Birthday to your sweet cousin Judy – and wishing you and your ‘Rock Rose’ mom, a very sweet and loving, happy Mother’s Day!
    XOXO

  38. Suzanne

    It’s so nice to know that during these last months you have been so well cared and always so cherished.
    “A friend of my friend my friend is” – Happy Birthday Judy! May you always have that beautiful heart full of love.
    Love*

  39. frenchgardenhouse

    I am so glad that you are surrounded by so much love, sweet Corey. Happy Birthday, Judy! Thank you for being the best, loving woman that you obviously are.
    xo Lidy

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