An Old French Bastide’s Welcoming

French country bastide

There is an old *bastide that I pass by when I go to the grocery store. A bastide, that takes my imagination for a ride, and has me dreaming of opening its closed shutters, and peeking inside. Often when I pass by the bastide it tempts me to stop, and knock on its door, and become friends with it.
Yesterday, I finally caved to the temptation, and pulled into the drive way.

French country house

As I opened my car door to get out, the dialog started to run in my head:
"Your nuts!"
"No, I am not, I am curious."
"Curious? Curious! What the hell, get back into your car! Corey, Corey, Corey, you just can't pull up uninvited, unknown to someone's home, just because you are curious!! "
"Stop fretting, I am just going to… I do not know….  introduce myself to this house."
"Someone crazy could live here, and come out and scream at you."

Fortunately, that reasoning did not bother me, nor make me get back into my car and go.

Though the nervousness kept chatting away in my mind, while the curiosity in me walked up to the locked door and knocked. I didn't know what I was going to say or do… but I knocked anyway.

French country facade

Nobody answered. Though strangely enough one of the shutters was open, none of the shutters are ever opened, or at least I have never noticed any of them opened before… I took that as a sign and tapped on it, tack tack, tack.
As I tapped, I imagined if someone I didn't know tapping on my window… I probably would jump out of my skin with fright. I felt sort of bad after that thought crossed my mind.

French laundry

Nobody answered. I turned around and looked out across the garden. Behind the enormous *Plane trees a clothesline stretched across, drying some men's work clothes. In the near distance I noticed a wood pile and an ax. Firewood was being cut.
The inner voice whispered, "Ax, (with an exclamation at the end.)"

French country door bell

I walked around to the side of the house and noticed a brass bell, green with age, I pulled the porcelain handle, ringing it.
As if it were a magic wand, the sound seem to wake up the house.

French country green house

A very frail, elderly woman opened the window, and asked, "Who is there?"
I noticed her before she noticed me. I hoped I would not scare her. I walked up to her window, her frail hand reached out.
"Bonjour Madame," I said.
She looked at me, though she seemed blind. She asked, "I don't know you, do I?"
I told her that she did not know me. That I often drove by her house and found it so lovely. That today I had to stop and introduce myself to it. I had to repeat myself several times because- my accent, her hard-of-hearing, and mainly, the oddity of introduction confused her. I felt awkward. Because she was so old and frail, my inner voice of reason pounded, "Okay, now look, you have got to give her a sense of your kindness! You are crazy to be here… this poor, dear, little lady you have probably frightened her."

French country yard

I told her that her garden was enchanting. That her glass house was full of pretty blossoms. Her tired eyes twinkled, and with that she said, "My name is Lucienne. I am 96 years old."
I gave her my name and age too. She added, "I live alone. I have never been married and I don't have any children."

I wanted to ask her to adopt me, but my better judgment covered my mouth, and kicked me in the behind. So I didn't say anything. She added, "I have lived her all my life. My home is enchanting isn't it?" I wanted to hug her, a million times, instead I said, "Yes it is."

French country well

Lucienne talked some more, and I asked her if I could take a photo of her home. "As you like, but not of me." I nodded, then asked if she needed anything? She smiled and said no.
As I walked by to my car I felt a warm, tenderness swell inside of me. What a welcoming, gentle soul I had encountered.
I noticed the well, the zinc bucket, the white blossoms and Saint Baume mountain in the distant.
What a gift to live in such a place. I am glad I dared to greet it.

Bastide

Plane Trees



Comments

67 responses to “An Old French Bastide’s Welcoming”

  1. Sometime in life you’re surprised with such great pleasures. Maybe this is the start to a new friendship?

  2. Imagine the stories this dear lady
    could tell…would your friend Annie
    know her maybe?
    Jann

  3. Oh I love these stories the best.
    You were introduced to an Angel.
    They have God’s wisdom…..listen carefully when they speak.
    This story deeply touched my heart.
    I love you
    I love your pictures and the stories you tell.
    I love you~
    I will keep this special woman in my prayers.
    Love Jeanne

  4. What treasures I find on my computer this morning: your photo story, that sweet lady and her home. Thank you.

  5. what a beautiful garden! and the house and the story! do you think you can visit her again?

  6. Jend’isère

    Thank you for stopping and contacting her. I made such a contact and am now hesitant but fear waiting too long. Now, for the next step, without seeming too pushy?

  7. A beautiful story! And how I love that Sainte Baume. Did I tell you that my oldest daughter had her first communion there last year?
    Meredith

  8. I’m so glad your curiosity won over your fear!! What a gift – to you – to Lucienne and to us! 96 years old! My dad is 93 and he would absolutely love it if someone walked up to his house and introduced themselves randomly like this. I think I’ll pray someone will. A new friend. How amazingly cool. This is why I love you Corey. You’re wonderful.

  9. michellleb.

    How wonderful! I’m sure you made her day. You have made mine and I wan’t even there.

  10. Good for you, Corey! A new friend!!

  11. I’ll bet she spent all afternoon thinking about your meeting. If only she had a blog! 🙂
    Colette

  12. Julie Evins

    That is a spellbinding storey Corey and your impulse was for a reason. I predict that you will become friends with Lucienne. Certainly you will call again and take a gift. Perhaps one day you will buy that Bastide. It looks breathtaking, Jx

  13. Perhaps you have a new friend she sounds like a gentle, kind soul. A wonderful home!!

  14. Every day is a gift. Every moment a miracle.

  15. Corey! I am so glad that I am not the only one that does things like this. The stopping and knocking on someones door, the conversations with myself!, meeting someone and knowing it was meant to be.
    🙂
    Thank you for sharing and having the courage to knock on that door. I can see why you were drawn to the bastide (you will have to give us more details on what that is or I can google it ~ I hope it will tell me).
    😉
    Beautiful!

  16. A gift, indeed. Thank you for sharing this beautiful home and story with us. And what a view!!
    Do you know what the trees are in the first picture (with the house number) and in the picture with the clothesline? So interesting.

  17. Massilianana

    Oh Corey , you were so right to have listened to your inner voice and entered this house !!!
    Lonely houses always held a mysterious charm for me and like you , they always make me feel like something enchanting can happen . I always regret I haven’t won the lotery (yet) to buy most of the beautiful old mansions I fell in love with , either to save them from dereliction or for an imaginary new start in life .
    Lucienne seems a very sweet person and I am glad you two met . She certainly has lots of stories to tell , just like Annie . Please do give us news from her , when you next go to meet her … which I am sure you are planning to !

  18. corey darling you REALLY made my day!!! thank you so much for this post!
    i am over the moon!!! that you are curious and (i shall say it in spanish!) have the cojones to have knocked on the door of the bastide… ;)))
    last night i was speaking to a friend on the phone…and long story short…she essentially lectured me about something…and then i just stopped her, saying: but i want to experience life, all the good and all the bad… 😉
    nancyxx

  19. You’ve made a new friend, Corey! For her to be alone at 96 with no family, I’ll just bet this was a blessing for that sweet lady that you DID persist in knocking at the door and ringing the bell!

  20. What stories that house and old lady could tell, I’m sure. You are brave to go and introduce yourself in such a way as to bring some warmth into her day too. I wonder what her story is?

  21. What a wonderful story! I can sense her kindness in your writing.

  22. becky up the hill

    You did good Corey, you pulled us along and made us turn each page of your real fairy tale! Now you will have us all nagging you for the next chapter. Photo’s are lovely. So she was a young women during WW2. What do was going on in your villiage then?

  23. Marie-Noëlle

    Blessed Lucienne…
    Not scared, I should say, … surprised…
    She introduced herself to you just as very young children do: firstname and age… a very sweet lady indeed.
    I’ve hardly ventured to people’s doors like you did.
    Only abroad… (Isle of Lewis,Wales, Isle of Jersey, Scotland)… Maybe my being in a foreign country makes me less shy and braver.

  24. Good for you! So glad you finally got the courage to knock and persist until you were rewarded with an answer.
    What a nice surprise for both of you. I can’t imagine at 96 of living alone. I am sure you have re-lived those moments all thru the day.
    I am thinking, on a nice sunny day, maybe bring some pastries and invite her to come out and sit with you outside and may learn about her life.
    What a spectacular day that would be for
    the both of you. Oh, the history she could
    tell you. Pleae keep us up to date on your
    new friendship with Lucienne.

  25. Corey, I absolutely adore you! Your view of the world is a splendid thing! Don’t ever change! In a world, that seems to devalue the old (whether it be people or things), you remind us of their priceless worths.
    The colors of the french country side are amazing!

  26. Corey.. what a great story… sounds like something I would have done… and so happy that it was just a sweet little old lady… I hope you will stop by and visit her again. I’m sure she is lonely… no family, and I imagine, most of her friends have passed on… you probably made her day… her week… her spring!
    blessings. Dixie

  27. You are amazing!! You are really brave, I don’t think I would have had the guts.
    I bet you are so glad that you did it, as am I. I loved reading this story. The place is enchanting. I bet the little lady was so glad to have some company, and show off her beautiful garden.
    Yay!!!
    Rosemary

  28. I’m glad you got brave and met Lucienne. What a beautiful home. It seems quite large in the photos-is it? You have to wonder how she occupies her days. The greenhouse looks very well cared for. Thanks for meeting Lucienne and sharing Corey.

  29. Now I”m wondering what the INSIDE of her home looks like.
    I’m also wondering what language your Nervousness chats away at you inside your head: French or English?

  30. How special! I believe you made Lucienne’s day. The greenhouse and the house were beautiful. There have been times when I have wanted to knock on someone’s door, but didn’t. You give me courage to do so the next time I have the urge. Thanks so much for this precious story. I also would love to peek inside that beautiful house. Enchanting is a lovely word to describe the outside.

  31. Stories within stories, the endless possibilities for the imagination to go on a beautiful possibility filled journey. To journey back in time with one he has seen and experienced life that we could not comprehend. I love the house and wonder what secrets are hidden behind those shutters!
    Ana

  32. Jeanette M.

    “…but I knocked anyway”. Profound Corey. I have tears in my eyes this morning from the beauty of this story. You are who I want to be when I grow up (I’m 42). I think you find such tender and gentle people because as the Talmud says “We do not see the world as it is – we see the world as we are”. See you tomorrow.

  33. That is a house made for living. Perhaps she’ll want to pass it on to me. I will probably end up unmarried at age 96 without children so the tradition can continue. 😀

  34. Oh, I got goosebumps when I read this story! So very enchanting. Thank you for taking us on this magical trip! The pictures I will look at again and again! Jamie V in MT

  35. Jeanette in Texas

    Life is beautiful!

  36. Will you go see Lucienne again?

  37. Sometimes the things that seem crazy are the ones that bring the best gifts. Your courage to press on is inspiring.

  38. What an enchanting story! I have on occasion submitted to an urge to knock on a door, or start a conversation when the voice in my head was telling me not to. I am happy to say it usually works out beautifully. I love that you have met this incredible woman and her magical house. Thank you for bringing magic to my day.

  39. Oh, I’m so glad that you stopped by her house, Corey. A few little steps into unknown territory – in this case, Lucienne’s beautiful property – can lead us to discover jewels of people and wonderful new experiences.

  40. Corey, so lovely. I”m so glad we are able to meet Lucienne through your blog. I agree, she probably wondered about you after you left. I think she was happy to talk to you.
    I would love to hear her stories.
    Thanks for being daring, love it!!!!!

  41. What stories are living right under our noses. You have a possible friend there… Maybe you could take Annie over there for a chat. They probably have a lot in common.
    Like my fellow blog readers, I’m dying to see the inside of the bastide. It’s quite large, It’s a wonder how a little old lady can take care of all of that property…
    Good for you for listening to your heart. When we are grounded, our heart always directs us in the right path.
    Amitiés,
    Denise

  42. Corey and Lucienne. Chapter One.

  43. A wonderful story and beautiful photo’s. One never knows what greets them in the most unexpected places. Sometimes it pays to be daring …look what you would have missed if you had not gotten out of the car!
    Wonderful Ms. Corey …simple wonderful!

  44. Oh Corey, you have experienced my favorite fantasy. I dream of befriending an older woman whom I can adopt for my grandma. All of my grandmas passed away when I was very young or before I was born. We would become family to each other and I would read to her. We would learn from each other and find pleasure and enjoyment from each others company. I would glean so much wisdom from her, and she would have a friend who shares music, poetry, and love with her. I need some of your curiosity and courage, then perhaps like you, I might find her, and she me.

  45. Hmmm, this seems like the beginning of a story. How will it end? I am more curious than ever. At 96 Lucienne must have lots of stories.

  46. I remember, as a child, my parents telling me to NEVER pass on an opportunity to pay a compliment! How wonderful that you walked up and let Lucienne know how you felt.
    I have a feeling that you made her day, just as your blog entry today, has made mine.
    Merci beaucoup
    Marilyn (in Dallas)

  47. Oh Corey, please, please, please, visit her again. Become her friend. What a rich gift you will be giving her and she to you. What stories she must have and perhaps no one to share them with. Ninty-six!! Fantastic. Oh! And then you can introduce her your ANNIE! What a lovely mix that could be.

  48. Corey
    Thank you!
    I wonder how many people pass by that house day after day and admire it or maybe just give it a fleeting thought and continue on their journey, & others who no longer stop by and pay a visit. She may have out lived many who knew her and no longer have regular visitors…
    Seeing through your eye in the camera captures ones imagination and the house with its sense of style and view of the mountains and gardens have a “Sense of Place” In my long lifetime I have been fortunate to have experienced that sense of authentic human attachment and belonging or “warmth of feeling” in just three homes, only one in which I lived in. One can sense the love, the magic, the beauty of the soul of the home. a lovely prevailing patina cast over everything. It is those characteristics that make a place special or unique, “A sense of place.” Joanny

  49. Two tender wonderful souls… Thank you for extending yourself.

  50. what a feast you website is … both words and images!

  51. oh, what a wonderful story and I’m glad you shared the fabulous pictures!

  52. Vickie H.

    Such a GREAT story, Corey! I am sooo glad you stopped by to visit her! I know she is glad, as well! Truly, there is no one quite like YOU! Your life is pure adventure!
    Vickie

  53. Wonderful story! I envy you your courage.

  54. Corey, what a lovely story and you getting the courage to check the place out and who might live there, was meant to be.
    You have made yourself a friend and vice versa…I would love to hear more of her!

  55. Yes, I’d like to see you visit her again. She probably is lonely. What a beautiful home. I did have to look up the word “bastide” though.
    Wickipedia:
    Bastides are fortified[1] new towns built in medieval Languedoc, Gascony and Aquitaine during the thirteenth and fourteenth centuries, although some authorities count Mont-de-Marsan and Montauban, which was founded in 1144,[2] as the first bastides.[3] In an effort to colonize the wilderness especially of southwest France, almost seven hundred new towns were built between 1222 (Cordes-sur-Ciel, Tarn) and 1372 (La Bastide d’Anjou, Tarn).[4]

  56. p.s. Will you be coming home to Willows this summer? I will wave at you again as I pass by on my way to Lake Shasta for our month vacation.

  57. Corey… Your posts are all so inspiring. What a great story you shared today!… Donna @ An Enchanted Cottage

  58. Sometimes you have to do what you have to do-aren’t you glad you did?

  59. Corey, singing, laughing and crying.

  60. I’m with the braver you. Just think you would have never met that charming lady if you had listened to your inner voice. When I returned to the UK after 30 years absence I went back to the village I had been married in. My ex husbands parent’s house had gone through many changes. I knocked on the door and asked if I could have a look around. They were charming and showed me their house with pride. I’m glad I didn’t listen to my inner voice.
    Margare

  61. Ohh my gosh Corey what a heart warming story! Please if you see that sweet old lady Lucienne again please tell her that I want to be adopted by her too! Look at that glass house alone oh and the color of the house and the shutters, the old plane trees and all that at the foot of le Mont Sainte Baume!
    S O S O W O N D E R F U L L !!!!!!!!!!!

  62. Corey, this is wonderful. What a beautiful enchanting house. I’d love it if you returned and got to know this lady and shared some of her story with us. Maybe you could leave offerings at her doorstep. I wonder if she hangs the men’s workclothes to make it look like she’s not alone, for safety, or does she wear them sometimes to work in the garden? I love your bravery. I’ve done things like that at times and it’s always been rewarding.

  63. Well I have one thing to say Corey after your adventursome heartwarming tale from today and your vividly lovely recollection of your bonding with Annie: You, Corey are enchanting. Thank you, always, for sharing.

  64. Corey, what a lovely post..you are very brave and it paid off!! I remember something similar when I was delivering flowers to someone..knocking and no-one in..a lovely garden…trying the door, it was open and finding a lady calling from her bedroom….a house untouched from the fifties…an old lady woken by me from a nap…a bunch of flowers from family over seas…she chatted away to me like an old friend..I made her a cup of tea…she walked me to the door and I left regretfully ..I worried about her a lot though alone in bed in an unlocked house.
    Cant wait for the rose jammy thing!!

  65. …but to whom do the pants on the line belong…and who takes care of her garden…who is she keeping in her basement…or do they have basements in french houses…

  66. Lovely (true !) story ! You did well, indeed !

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