Al Dente Pasta with Asparagus, made by an American, who lives close to the Italian Border

Asparagus

Asparagus, that elegant vegetable.

The other night as I was preparing to make the first dinner in our new kitchen, I asked my family if they had a preference for the first meal. But before I could barely finish my sentence, they hammered in unison, "PASTA!" As if they were the entire population of Italy who hadn't had pasta for the last million years.

Honestly, my family is not French, they would easily give up their baguettes for pasta any day of the year. Sacha would have pasta for breakfast everyday if I let him.

Asparagus strainer

Pasta. Don't get me wrong I have a love affair for pasta too, but that wasn't my idea for the first meal. I was thinking something a bit more sophisticated, a bit more celebratory, a bit more… I don't know elaborate… special.. unique.

Then again, I remember having a dinner party, were it was the first time some guests were to come to our home. I made pasta with smoked salmon, in a tarragon cream sauce. As I was tossing the pasta in our old kitchen I overheard them say that their family was from Italy, and that their mother made their pasta daily from scratch. With that I nearly dropped the pasta bowl on the floor.

Asparagus

I should have chucked my pasta, right then and there, out the window. I would have if it hadn't been for the smoked salmon.

They talked on and on about how only Italians can cook pasta al dente. I figured we lived close enough to the Italian border, and since I cook pasta several times a week I needn't worry… I swallowed hard, I looked at my pretty pasta, tasted one, it had a chew to it. I carried it to the table and served it.

Unfortunately, it did not pass their "al dente perfection need" and they barely ate it. I was embarrassed, and kinda sad to boot. I looked at their untouched smoked salmon. I imagined how I could save that untouched, beautiful, smoked salmon from going into the garbage. I wished I had a cat.

Later, Sacha would reassure me that I was not a bad cook (I am over sensitive) and that my pasta was the best in the world. Then he said, "Well, at least we know who won't be coming to dinner again."

So you see pasta can be tricky. It is not as easy as throwing a bunch of hard noodles into a pan of boiling water. Not that I ever thought my pasta was a soggy slush… but maybe I shouldn't think of it as a simple fare either.

Tips of asparagus

We hadn't had pasta in over a month. That is almost like going without oxygen for ten minutes or something crucial as that. Silly to say, each time I made pasta I recall our al dente guests and get nervous. Last night I renewed my faith in my pasta making, and washed that crummy memory down the drain.

Pasta with elegant Asparagus very al dente.

Cook Pasta, a few minutes less than what is written on the box.
While the water is doing its best to boil prepare the sauce.
Saute a hearty handful of pine nuts, and put aside,
Saute strips of smoked salmon,
When the pasta water begins to boil add salt to the water.
Pour cream into a pan and heat,
Cut the steamed asparagus in bite-able sizes…al dente asparagus that is!!
Before the cream starts to roll and tumble wildly, add the asparagus, pine nuts, smoked salmon and a tad of tarragon to it, let it simmer and thicken.
Drain the pasta, add a touch of olive oil and Parmesan toss, then add the asparagus cream sauce.



Comments

35 responses to “Al Dente Pasta with Asparagus, made by an American, who lives close to the Italian Border”

  1. I would not invite those guest again. So rude! I think the whole thing of under cooked pasta is over rated. I mean no one wants soggy noodles, but so undercooked that it still seams raw is not good either. We went on a cruise leaving from Italy last year with an Italian cruise company. My only complaint was that the pasta was still raw. I am sure your dish was just yummy!

  2. Corey, your dinner sounds wonderful! We have some asparagus we need to cook today, and yesterday my daughter picked our first zucchini from our garden! I’m glad your family appreciates your cooking, your recipes always sound delicious.

  3. Oh my goodness that sounds delicious! (And it’s only breakfast time here!)
    Mary want to help me cook a Chinese meal tonight…but I think we may need to do pasta again!

  4. I agree with Ellen. Your guests were rude. Sure, their mother cooked fresh pasta, but did she teach them any manners? Your recipe sounds delicious. I must give it a try.

  5. One of my favourite dishes pasta and asp.
    I think your guests were extremely rude!

  6. While I appreciate the recipe (sounds GREAT!) I’m dying for pictures of the kitchen!!!!! Come ON! I don’t care if it’s not painted. Let us see!

  7. A very timely recipe. All the vegetable stands here in NJ have fresh Asparagus. I now know what is for dinner tonight 🙂
    I agree, that those guests were rude.

  8. Marilyn

    Corey,
    Your pasta with smoked salmon recipe sounds absolutely delicious. If I were your dinner guest, I would be begging for a second helping!
    I am shocked at the rudeness of your dinner guests. Refusing to eat a meal because it was not prepared to their personal vision of “al dente perfection”. Incredible!
    Marilyn (in Dallas)

  9. Oh how yummy that sounds. And here I am at 7:40am ~ oh that sounds so good!!!!
    Usually when I get out of bed each morning I go to my computer immediately just to see what Corey has posted for the day. This morning I was greeted with YESTERDAY’S post !!! I laughed to myself thinking, that Corey is off in her new kitchen whipping up something yummy !!!!!!

  10. Sounds good to me. Too bad your guests lacked manners. I had an experience similar to yours and needless to say I’ve never and never will invite them back into my home. One thing I hate to do is waste my hard earned money and have my effort go down the drain.

  11. That sounds absolutely delicious! I can’t believe how your guests could not eat it, must be a haughty bunch! Am I making a fool of myself when I admit I generally like my pasta fully cooked? 🙂

  12. I’m sure your pasta was delicious – and how could they let that smoked salmon languish on their plates?!
    Anyway the degree of al dente is a completely personal preference, nothing to be snobbish about – we always have to do ours longer than the packet says – I guess it depends on the make of pasta too.

  13. Boy am I stunned. Your guests were rude indeed. No matter how ‘bad’ the food is, you never shame a hostess/cook in her home. You can joke about how gaggarific it was in the arms of your beloved in the quiet of your bedroom later that night, but you never refuse to eat a meal.
    As an aside, I must be the only person on the planet who doesnt like salmon – but I would still gag it down if I were a guest at your home! LOL

  14. Oh please, yes Italians make fresh pasta, but they eat factory-made dried pasta all the time! No one makes fresh pasta at home every time they want to have linguini. Who were these guests, anyway?

  15. Oh Corey, those guests had no manners, they don’t even deserve to be remembered by!
    Believe me, Italians use dry pasta all the time! Families do have their preferences – so do I – among the many brands available, but as long as the pasta is made with durum wheat, it will hold up well when cooked. It is true that some artisan pasta taste better, tagliatelle or papardelle when rolled and not pressed for example, so it is worth to invest a little more money for artisan products for a special dish, but generally even generic brands do well in taste comparisons.
    I like to cook my pasta too much al dente first, but then I simmer it in their sauce or cream until just right, serving immediately from the pot onto the plates. Pasta pronta, a tavola, presto! Bon appetito! 🙂

  16. They didn’t deserve your hospitality! How rude!

  17. I love anything Pasta and anything Asparagus!!! Sounds Devine & cant wait to try.

  18. Your recipe sounds delicious! I’ll have to try it. I love asparagus and smoked salmon. I think your guests were terribly rude. Don’t let them color your cooking of pasta.

  19. I’ll chime in on the too rude guests! (and they say Americans are rude) HA! I’m beginning to think everyone in France is ill mannered. (other than of course your family because you taught them better)

  20. Corey
    Personally one of my favorite combination’s I would have licked the plate clean had I been your guest,,,,I have to agree with the comments above — rude or just plain jealous of you being an American who can ‘COOK’
    My grandmother was Italian and my grandfather was French — and she made pasta homemade– it was very good, but my mother and aunts did so very rare not enough time and their cooking was divine, unfortunately that trait was not placed on to me –now if only I could cook as good as I eat..Um
    Joanny

  21. That really sounds very yummy! You are lucky I’m living so far away, otherwise I would perhaps ring at your dor right now 😉

  22. What boors!
    And I agree with Amanda May, I too like my pasta cooked the number of minutes on the box. Ah well, a chacun son gout.
    (And if that phrase is wrong, I apologize, I know my french is abysmal.)

  23. Sounds fabulous – when’s dinner? =)
    Your kitchen is looking good, Corey, and that party looks wildly fantastic! You look lovely!! I love the last 2 photos – the faces of you and French husband and then your feet. So sweet.
    xo isa

  24. what ungracious guests……the recipe sounds beautiful and i shall serve it with the love it deserves tomorrow…….by the way i thought you looked georgeous at the party x

  25. “Well, at least we know who won’t be coming to dinner again.”
    Sacha was absolutely right. How rude your guests were!
    I’m Italian, never made pasta myself and never did my mother….
    Not everyone’s job, you see!

  26. Your guests are SNOBS in any country/language. Shame on them.
    I have a similar recipe that adds white wine (one cup for me and one for the pot), sour cream and dijon mustard. Yours is easier and I will try it soon. Thank you for sharing your recipe, Corey – and I love your asparagus strainer.

  27. That sounds delicous to me. Yummm, pasta with smoked salmon. How could you go wrong? I would not invite the guests again either.

  28. Yum it sounds delicious. I make something similar and my husband is Italian, his family only make fresh pasta on special occasions [christmas, easter ] The thing is its not just the food that makes a great dinner its also the people you are sharing it with.

  29. I hope I am not being rude, but I have heard the French can be very rude, well that is what I was told, my friend visited there and said that she felt ignored and sometimes belittled in her travels to shops and what have you.
    We were always told to keep our tongues silent if we could not say anything nice. I guess I am breaking that rule now, I do not like people like that, and have not the time for them.
    I sure wish I had some asparagus and especially some salmon, as far as pasta goes, I love it. I can’t see much sense in making it, when it is just as good store bought.
    They were lucky you so graciously had them in your home.

  30. That asparagus looks fabulous, it’s always a treat when it is in season. As others have stated above, I wouldn’t worry too much about what your guests thought of your pasta. Their own behavior is probably what left a bad taste in their mouths.

  31. “Well, at least we know who won’t be coming to dinner again.”
    BTW, I really like your son, he is a wise boy. He will make a lucky girl very happy one day.

  32. jend’isère

    It’s your kitchen, you’ll do what you want to, do what you want to..like a known song. To be told you are not bad is a compliment from a teenager. Why start with something banal like pasta?
    And may your kitchen concoct many wonderful meals/memories for family, friends, guests and you!

  33. Karen C

    Hmmmm.. . . Mwah! (that’s me tasting your asparagus and smoked salmon pasta)
    Cooked perfectly dear Corey.
    Anyway, you don’t need to worry about al dente. You have S.T.Y.L.E.
    (So much that your Italian guests simply had to find something they MIGHT be able to do better)

  34. Well, I have to admit maybe we are a little snob over our ability to cook the real pasta “al dente”…….

  35. When Sheba and I were in Torino our host made pasta for dinner one night. While we were talking and drinking wine, Alexis forgot the boiling pasta. By the time he sampled a strand is was past perfection and he tossed the entire contents of the pot off his balcony and into the street. Tutti.
    On that same trip I tasted my first tiramisu … 22 years ago. I don’t know if it was the quality of the dessert or the quantity of wine consumed that night but it was squizizito. The “zizi” added for Yann’s amusement. Baci, Franca

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