In Memory of Michael Jackson and my Niece Juliette

French Husband's niece was eleven years old when I first met her, twenty three years ago. It was the first time I was to meet his family, we were going to have lunch at his sister's home.

The white, monogrammed tablecloth was set with antique, wine glasses, the silverware was lined-up a mile long next to the Limoges plates, and a large, soup tureen transformed into a vase was filled full of flowers and sat in the center of the dining room table. The tabletop carried a conversation with my attention, as French husband's family chattered away in French, leaving me in silence, soaking up the details with clueless wonder. We were waiting for Juliette to come downstairs, she was late… though later I would understand being late was set up for her stage of entrance.

I remembered that day crystal clear, not because of the beautiful home of French Husband's sister, nor his family that fearsomely loved their son-brother-uncle named Yann, so much so, that they couldn't help looking at me with trepidation… No, what I remember best is Juliette coming downstairs, wearing a colorful, silk headband wrapped around her forehead, holding  her long, dark hair in place. She was captivating, original, and a breath of fresh air to the stuffiness I felt in that room.

Juliette spoke perfect english, better than French Husband's. I stared at her in disbelief, her voice was music to my ears, and she was only eleven years old! I looked at French Husband as to say what gives? I asked her where she had learned to speak english. Juliette told me that she was in love with Michael Jackson, his style, his dance and his music. Juliette went on to say that whenever she had some money she would buy a single of his, then listen to it over and over again, while following along with the lyrics written on the back. Then she would look up the words in the dictionary, memorize them, and then recreate other sentences with them. Michael Jackson was her hero, and my new found hero that day.

Michael Jackson's music taught my niece how to speak english, and with that gave me my first "friend" in France.

Juliette is sad today. Though today I smile on that sweet memory of her love affair with his music, and thank him for it.



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31 responses to “In Memory of Michael Jackson and my Niece Juliette”

  1. I wasn’t a big Michael Jackson fan but am still saddened for his three children and his fans. What a lovely story and memory for you.

  2. So many icons come to an early demise. It is so sad and such a loss. Michael’s music was a part of my life… still is. I hardly pass a day without hearing a song. His life was just too much of a load to bear I suppose and sometimes people like him find a temporary solace in drugs.
    And then they are gone.

  3. It is so nice to read a story like this concerning MJ when in the news all they seem to talk about is his troubled life. It’s good to know that despite his troubled life, he has inspired good in others. 🙂
    A big virtual hug to Juliette and her darling aunt (that would be you, by the way) and to MJ himself. 🙂

  4. Loved your story. I called my eldest son when after they confirmed his death and shared with him a memory of him when he was a raving MJ fan. He touched a lot of lives in his short one.

  5. I’m sad too today. I grew up with his music, videos and movies. My baby daughter used to dance at his music, she was so much fun to watch. His private life belongs to him and his family, what he left behind as an artist will be never lost.

  6. one never knows who will inspire us.
    have a wonderful day.

  7. Hopefully people can look past the “Wacko Jacko” periods in his life and see that he really was a musical icon and a terrific performer. It is sad that he had so much to offer to the world and somehow it all went wrong.

  8. What a wonderful tribute to Michael Jackson.

  9. That’s a really sweet memory and very kind words for Michael. He was profoundly talented!

  10. Patricia

    What a shock to have both Michael Jackson and Farrah Fawcett die in the same day! They were both such big icons from my youth. I also feel so sad for Michael’s children and how tragic is it that Farrah’s son was not with her at the time of her death but in jail. I hope they both rest in peace.

  11. Diogenes

    This is the most moving tribute I have heard yet on Michael.

  12. I have memories of the Michael Jackson that was in the 80s and your tribute brings that back to me. Thank you~
    xo

  13. Thanks for a nice story in memory of M.J.
    His talent will be missed…but his legacy lives on.

  14. What a different tribute to Michael Jackson – and to your niece – Corey. I find it so poignant to hear of the way a pop icon taught an French girls to speak English through his lyrics and what an enterprising young lady Juliette was to look up the words and teach herself a foreign language. I hope she will see your post.

  15. Bonjour, Corey..I have been of of the loop! It is good to be back and read your blog! I love your post today…stories like that are what Michael is really all about.

  16. What a wonderful tribute. I grew up listening to his music in Junior high and high school. I was so shocked to hear of his death. He may have been very weird and a strange person but there is one thing that can not be denied and that is that he could sing. His music was so good. He will be missed by his fans. So sad that he died so young, it is erie that he died young just like another music icon Elvis Presley. May he rest in peace.

  17. What a sweet, sweet post, Corey. A loss for all of us, who grew up loving his music. And a huge loss for his kids, his family, and friends, as well as the world at large. I’m hoping he is getting to be the child he never could be in down here.

  18. What a great story! And another cooincidence. I’ve been asked to sing the solo in Claude Debussy’s “Trois Chansons – Quant j’ai ouy le tabourin” and I just thought yesterday that I need to look up every word, do all the conjugations, use the words in other contexts, etc etc. Now I know I’m on the right track! Thanks for sharing! Now if we can just find that shrimp! 🙂 Cy

  19. christine allen

    I’ve listened to a million Michael Jackson comments today and this is the most beautiful.
    I love your wonderful way of bringing your readers into the moment.
    You are a gift, Cori.

  20. Thank you for this wonderful tribute. In a way I grew up with Michael … first with the Jackson Five and then with his solo carrier.
    I have very fond memories of this wonderful performer.
    One of them is my sweet mom, going to work 2 hours earlier just so that she could wait on line and buy her daughters tickets to his Montréal concert. This was a long time ago, back in the days when tickets were affordable and one didn’t have to camp 3 nights on the sidewalk in order to buy some tickets.
    I will deeply miss him but right now I still can’t believe he’s gone.

  21. Yes I was shocked that both Michael Jackson and Farrah Fawcett passed away. Regardless of what you thought of him personally…he made some great music and had a great voice.
    And this is the second time I heard that Michael Jackson directly/indirectky taught someone english… 🙂

  22. What a bittersweet memory. I too am saddened by such a loss to the music industry.

  23. What a sweet tribute to Michael Jackson. I have wonderful memories with my older two children of dancing and singing to his wonderful music. His music brought joy and hours of fun!!! Rest in peace Michael.

  24. jend’isère

    The two violin bows I clutched suddenly felt heavy. The French radio on the 31 bus was playing a Michael Jackson song. My sadness ended with the song… My teenager, who recently danced to his music in a pantomine, must chose a bow to make her own music today.

  25. I know someone who speaks very good English who said he learned it by listening to the Beatles. What’s a good French pop singer to use for learning French?

  26. Elaine L.

    That was a wonderful tribute. You are a class act.
    ~elaine~

  27. What a wonderful story of how Michael J touched lives around the world. For myself a Jackson 5 single was the first record I owned – a Christmas gift that changed my little world 🙂

  28. Oh no…you’ve done it again. I have a lump in my throat the size of a small baguette.

  29. What a sweet memory, Corey. The Jackson family would love it if they ever had a chance to see it and read it.

  30. Such a beautiful story and tribute, Corey.

  31. What a lovely story — thanks so much for sharing it. Like Juliette, I was mad for Michael as an adolescent and still love his music today. Rest in peace, MJ.

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