Jump off a Cliff: Would you do it?

Jumping off a cliff

Jumping off a cliff is not my idea of fun, nor is it why I go to beach, nor why I pack a picnic. Jumping off a cliff is for crazy people…. well actually most people who know me think I am crazy, so I guess I shouldn't say that jumping off a cliff is for crazy people because I would never do it, not even for a million dollars. (Okay, I would for a million dollars. I probably would for a thousand dollars, probably even for five hundred dollars… but that is the bottom line, really it is.)

Cassis cliffs

Though the rest of my family goes to the beach to jump off the cliffs for the fun of it. They could care less about my nerves, they could care less if I threaten to eat the entire picnic by myself if they continue to jump.

Therefore,

We go to the beach. They jump. I sit and eat the picnic.

Everyone is happy, even if someone has indigestion.

Jumping off cliff cassis

French Husband jumping off the cliff backwards

Note: His toes are on the edge.

I ate the brownies watching this.

Jumping into the sea


Jumping off a cliff is one thing. Standing on one's tiptoes on the edge of an uneven cliff to do a back flip is another.

Really crazy.

I cannot do a back flip off my bed, let alone off a cliff, not for a million dollars, not even to save my soul.

Standing on a cliff 

Me, with orange sandals, red toe polish, standing at the edge of the sea, watching the cliff jumpers, while eating and taking a few photos.

I asked French Husband why he felt compelled to do a back flip. He said, "Well Sacha jumped off a higher cliff, so I had to show him something tricky, you know to look good."

"Oh I see, I guess you could call it a male-bonding-guy-thing, right?" I said with brownie breath.

"No, not really," he said. He went on to surprise me when he added, "Sacha inspires me to do more than I think I can do. I want to inspire him too."

I looked at the empty picnic basket, and swallowed hard.

Jumping off rocks


Sacha jumping off a higher cliff.

Lovely… inspiration.

Backflip


French Husband doing a back flip off the cliff.

Lovely.

The brownies I ate were thinking to do the same thing.

Cliff jumping

Lovely, father and son doing the cliff thing. 

Cliff diving 

A few weeks ago my cousin Mary and a few of her friends came to visit. We went to the beach. Sacha asked them if they wanted to jump off the cliffs and they said yes.

I did not eat. Instead I counted heads.

Blew the last lingering thoughts I had about that male bonding thing out of the water….

On their way up the cliff 

Sacha lead them to the cliff, along the back side, up, up, up they went…

Climbing down the cliff 

Then they climbed down to the four meter (Thirteen feet) cliff. At this point I wondered if I was crazy for taking four teenage girls and four teen age boys to the beach. Maybe I should have stayed home and made brownies or crepes or something…

But before I could finish that thought…

Jumping joy

They jumped in one by one.

Go girls!

Cliff side 

The photo is out of focus, I zoomed in as much as I could given as far away as I was, to see closer the look on Sacha's face, he was impressed with the gallant effort of the girls.

I am glad we didn't make brownies, or crepes or something.

Footsie 

Sacha went to stay with my family in California for the summer.

French Husband and I are off to the beach this evening…

Who is going to jump off the cliffs now?

Not for a million dollars-

Not to save my soul-

Not for the picnic-

Maybe in honor of Sacha and those inspiring California girls-

Or simply for the fun of it-

I will jump!

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Who has inspired you to do something you never thought you would do?



Comments

47 responses to “Jump off a Cliff: Would you do it?”

  1. i loved the post and specially the conclusion. wud do anything for love 🙂

  2. Beautiful cliffs, beautiful waters, but I’m with you. Brownies sound much more fun and less scary. When I was a kid and went swimming at a local river with my brothers and friends I was always the worry wort screeching “Don’t! Be Careful! Not so high!” hahah I think that for every brave soul out there it is balanced by those of us with a little too much fear just to keep things even. They jump off rocks and we say “Have fun but don’t get hurt.” They see exhilaration and we see potential dangers. Balance. 🙂

  3. My friend Marty inspired me to not give up on real love…I wrote about it here…
    http://giftsofthejourney.wordpress.com/2009/04/24/a-ladybug-love-story/
    Sorry to be abrupt, bit I’m off to do at least a 9 mile run…that’s an inspiration story for another day.
    I’m dying to see your jumping pictures…

  4. Please hand me a brownie,
    hold the jump!
    Are you going to paint your toes in a color fitting the event, like Chanel *Rouge Noir* or *Black Satin Dior*? 😉
    Enjoy the beach!

  5. Marie-Noëlle

    I think a back flip off the cliff is FAR LESS dangerous than one off your bed !!!!
    Hope you had FUN !!!
    Start your list of records :
    – a ride on the bike
    – a back flip off the cliff
    – …
    – …
    – a flight on FH’s plane
    – a Bungee jumping
    – …
    – …
    What else ??? (G. Clooney would say…!!!)

  6. Wow! Brave lady. I think I would stay with the picnic rug and the Brownies!

  7. Massilianana

    Wishing you a verrrry good and exciting jump ( and a strong topcoat varnish to protect the beautiful color on your toenails from the scratches due to all the climbing )!!!
    PS : your orange sandals are gogeous , I love the color !

  8. Once I jumped 7 meters to the sea (once you got there is was easier to do that than to come back down…it was very difficult and more dangerous I guess because it was sharp and stiff) You had to wait for the wave to come (because it was not so deep….I’m happy my mother wasn’t around…)
    Friends and family inspire me to try being a better person. Your friend Shelley and you as well, inspire me to see the joy of life and to have the strength to endure difficult times.
    I have a “treasure” chest where I store every day happy moments a to get out as memories in difficult times
    Love your sandals!!!!

  9. I love you
    Big hugs
    Jeanne♥

  10. Friends have inspired me to do things I didn’t think possible. I don’t think I could ever jump off a cliff though (don’t like heights)!! Watch your cute toes!!!

  11. michelleb

    One of my best friends, Lena, has inspired (&cajoled) me to do several things I never would have thought of: Kick-boxing, Irish Dance, Boogie Boarding, & Stunt Kite Flying. She is 7 years younger than I and much more coordinated, but geeze do we have fun!

  12. Great story – if you do it, you’re brave! I might have done it years ago but not now – I value the years I have left just to SIT on the cliff and eat your brownies!!!!
    Jasmin (12 y.o. granddaughter) inspired me to participate in Falconry last week while we were in New Hampshire. I was nervous but exhilerated when the huge, beautiful bird landed on my arm for a snack – go see pics on my recent post (‘Fantastic Falconry’)and tell me that’s not wonderful!
    Hugs to you Corey – and take care.
    Mary.

  13. Love the shoes, I don’t think I could jump either. Have fun at the beach.

  14. You know… it took all the nerve I could muster to climb back DOWN the high-dive ladder, with all the kids hanging on it in line at the VFW when I was a kid. Almost as courageous as jumping! :O

  15. I’ve been inspired by others to work with people who live in shacks or drug dens that I never ever thought that I would have the nerve to go into.
    I’ve been inspired by others to read books that I would have never even glanced at.
    I’ve been inspired by my daughter to take an intense aerobic class called Zumba that kicks my rear end every time I take it but that I love.

  16. You go girl! Phots, photos, photos.

  17. Maybe for a million dollars … or to actually save my soul. But otherwise? No. My stomach does backflips just thinking about it.
    Have fun at the beach. If you jump I want to see pictures.

  18. Jeanette M.

    Perhaps you. I cannot think of anything I’ve done that I did not think I would or could and now the questions…..do I push myself? Am I too safe? Oh Corey what have you done? Aflippindorable shoes by the way!

  19. Sounds more like a testosterone surge than male bonding – LOL. Kids and husbands are fearless where cliffs and water are combined.

  20. Diogenes

    “The brownies I ate were thinking to do the same thing.”
    That line made me burst out laughing..

  21. You have a family of risk takers… YIKES. Will you jump? Not me,never I am very proud to say that I am a chicken.
    My father inspired me. Everyday I am thankful to him for teaching me to be self sufficient and making me believe in myself.His mission seemed to be to make his daughters, and son, feel capable enough to take on the world. ( but I still wouldn’t jump off the cliff!)

  22. Take the plunge, Corey! Imagine the feeling you will have after you have faced this fear… and then you may have extra brownies for being so brave!!

  23. Bravest thing I’ve done in the past decade? Enroll in Portuguese classes! Then, after the first two years of study, (at the encouragement of my professor) I traveled solo to the Azores for three weeks to practice my Portuguese, meet distant cousins I’d located via the Internet, make new friends and start exploring my paternal side’s heritage there. This trip literally changed my life! Oh, and mad props to (non-Portuguese) Farmboy Husband, for all his encouragement and support (moral and otherwise).

  24. martina

    I’ve always been a worrywort or as my Dad used to say be “chicken shit” about trying new things. Sort of a perfectionist problem. Luckily friends have encouraged me. One said “so who said you can’t do it?” Nothing like bungee jumping or cliff diving. The height would make me queasy! I’ll sit at the beach with you and eat brownies while others do the jumping.

  25. In terms of sheer acrophobia (fear of hieghts) my two biggest achievements thus far have been walking across — and, more importantly, back! — the suspension bridge over the Ohio River between Cincinnati, Ohio, and Covington, Kentucky, and across the Peace Bridge over the end of Lake Erie where it turns into the Niagara River between Buffalo, New York, USA, and Fort Erie, Ontario, Canada. Definitely no jumping involved!

  26. Oops, it’s “heights”! Good thing I don’t have a fear of spelling, I guess 🙂

  27. Marilyn

    Heights don’t bother me at all, it’s those rocks that are scaring me, and specifically, what if you don’t clear them! So be careful, and listen carefully to any instructions that FH gives you.
    Like you, my kids inspire me (particularly when I see them having fun!) Because of them, I took up roller blading at age 47. Why should they have all the fun! lol
    Marilyn (in Dallas)

  28. When I was younger I would have done things like that. Now that I’m older I have realized life is short so why tempt fate? LOL

  29. A patient of mine inspired me to hike Half Dome in Yosemite. We made a deal he would take better care of his teeth and I will take on the mountian. Hopefully I will be an inspiration to my husband to come with me.
    Take a Deep Breath and Plug Your Nose! You lucky girl!

  30. Michelle

    En mi familia, some of us take risks, some of us watch. Mostly, I watch. Have I missed some thrills? Probably. Do I regret giving up the high dive, skipping the bungee ride at the beach, or watching while they rode the backwards roller coaster? Nope. Not one bit. I love watching people be thrilled, and I get a thrill from their accomplishments. BUT, I decided a long time ago, to do only those terrifying things I felt I couldn’t live without. I safe my fear, I guess you could say, for when I think it really matters.

  31. My daughter inspires me to do more. She is always so proud of me when I do something more, that I want her to be proud of me always. When I do more, she also does more.
    Did you jump? It looks like fun, something I would have loved doing when I was younger.
    Marilyn in Oregon

  32. It’s kind of silly but my husband inspired me to eat oysters for the first time. We were at a neighborhood party where fresh oysters were served. Being an oyster “virgin” I was very tempted and seduced while watching my husband enjoy the flavor and just like that I wanted to enjoy an oyster too.
    Instead of being grossed out by the thought of raw oysters all these years I should have been more adventurous about trying new foods. Now everyone says I’m ready for sushi!

  33. I take inspirations from whoever does something for others, and I would go to some place where I could be of some help, maybe one day I really will do this.
    I want to see pics of you jumping, or I won’t believe you really did it!

  34. You, Corey. You inspired me to think I could actually come to France and have the adventure of a lifetime. Even though we had to return our tickets and cancel the trip because my dearly beloved was ill I still carry that trip and all the brave steps I made toward it in my heart. You Corey, you inspire me!

  35. Corey, this post made me chuckle. You are a funny lady!
    I still think people who risk life and limb for “fun” are crazy, but then I am a physical coward; I do not like pain, or to experience fear; I figure there’s enough of both in life without courting them, and I have never enjoyed the feeling of adrenalin surging through my veins that many others seem to. I will not even watch horror movies or mysteries with both violence and suspense. No thank you. Give me Jane Austen any day.

  36. so did you? jump that is? It’s kinda like sky diving, you do it once and you find out it’s not as scary as it looks…

  37. Two words: bawk bawk

  38. Hilarious and charmingly funny post, Corey. Cute shoes, nice Photoshop scribbling! But only jump if you feel like it. There’s a good reason it’s not a good idea sometimes!

  39. Sally F.

    Love the “graffiti” you’ve drawn on your pictures – just in case we weren’t sure about the plunges your menfolk were taking! Love the idea of you sitting there in your stylish sandals, with your stomach doing flips!

  40. Jump! Jump! Jump!…;P

  41. Beverly

    I would never do that, I saw your blog in my daughter’s book, I think your pictures are so beautiful.

  42. Hi corey,
    my kids are in that daring jumping phase, too. I go with them, and jump a few times – it’s fun! Then I can go sit and read my book in peace. (but I do look up now and then to count heads)

  43. My husband is a runner and light weight lifter. I resisted running for years for lack of discipline, but have found myself logging miles, daily. I can’t convince him to sky dive, however. Doesn’t take discipline to just jump.

  44. …really corey…
    YOU! (wink!)
    xx

  45. Corey…you’re HILARIOUS!!!
    I’m so wanting your orange sandals-TO DIE FOR!

  46. Christine

    what a wonderful story – the son inspires the father thus the father wants to return the lesson. FH sounds like a very wise man indeed.
    Enjoy your time alone with him!
    Christine

  47. I’ve just found your blog and will definitely be back. This post is SO fun! I love your trajectory drawings, and the comparisons to the brownies! I wouldn’t jump off a cliff either…
    Janice.

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