Riding with Memories, Riding into the Future

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I grew up around cows, rice fields, home cooking, and motorcycles.

My father rode every kind of bike in every kind of race, my
brothers followed suit. I remember his races at cycle-land, his enduro
adventures to Nevada, his mountain climbs in Elk Creek, but mostly I
remember him fixing bikes and talking shop with my brothers and
cousins, in his barn.

On any given day there were a ton of guys, mostly younger than
my father, in his barn converted into a motorcycle shop. My father use
to say, "Out of all the guys around here, you went and fell in love
with a French Man?" I use to tease him back by saying, "Yeah, your shop
kept them fixated on rims, chrome and speed… how could I compete?"

Planning for this trip has brought motorcycle memories of my father
to the surface. Memories of rides, races, accidents, shop talk, and him
in full riding gear, I wish I had a photo of him in his chaps.

As I sorted and put things aside for our trip I have seen my father,
(French Husband's helmet and boots were a gift from him) standing with
his hands on his hips looking at me, reassuring me with his smile. My
father rode often, and he had it down to a science. These last few days
I have felt him my side pointing to things, reminding me of things, encouraging me "..take a bungee cord or
two, they'll come in handy. Remind Ann to take some tools. Shot, I
wish I could give him some of mine…. pack light, pack warm… but
pack light."

I feel him, and tears run down my face. God he was a good dad, so
easy going, emotional available, tender hearted, and full of life. 

I am riding for him.

and him.


Hondaguy



Comments

42 responses to “Riding with Memories, Riding into the Future”

  1. Darling Corey,
    I love your Dad too. Thanks for sharing him with me!
    Billie

  2. You are blessed

  3. Two wonderful reasons … no?

  4. It sounds like you have been blessed from the day you were born until this very moment with the love of two very special men.

  5. Corey it is wonderful when we can still ‘feel them’ with us. That is how I feel about my mother who has been gone for 16 years. If I reach out I am sure I could touch her hand
    Alison

  6. Fabulous indeed.
    Your life is a gift and truly enchanted.
    I love you
    Jeanne♥

  7. What a great blog today, as always. I was just thinking this morning how much I miss my mom, she has been gone 15yrs now, and then I read your blog and cried again. What sweet memories.

  8. Jeanette M.

    Well put. You do have a picture of him in his chaps – just close your eyes.

  9. jend’isere

    As I quickly catch on your blog from Amish country in PA, thought of you as we passed the Harley factoryBon voyage

  10. I got emotioned with your words, just because I love my Dad that way. Fortunately, I still have mine around…
    Have a nice trip t(r)o(ugh) Prague!!
    Lots of love, here from Portugal.

  11. Ana Jacas

    You also have to ride for you, that is why he is with you. My mother is never far from me, but when I am about to embark on something big she is right beside me, encouraging and supporting. Your father is there but so is Jann but more importantly, You, the glue that binds you all together, past present and future. Know that you are in safe hands and your adventure is a whisper away, your memories to pass on.
    love Ana

  12. Ed in Willows

    You dad made an impact on my life……..but I also noticed you when I came out there *wink*

  13. Safe travels Corey ~ I am crying as I type. Your dad was a great father, you’ve brought up my memories too. 🙂

  14. Marilyn

    Beautifully written as always, Corey. You really are the link between the 2 motorcycle – riding men in your life.
    You should dedicate the ride to Prague to your Dad, because I have a feeling that he will be with you in spirit. From what you have said, I bet he would have loved to take the adventure that you are about to embark on.
    Marilyn (in Dallas)

  15. Therese

    You are richer than you will ever know for your dad and your husband, rejoice

  16. That was so sweet. It’s wonderful that you have a special link between the two men in your life. It will be a memory you can carry through the years and something you can share together. It’s nice to recall good memories of our loved ones.

  17. ;))) oh corey…
    and what a great picture of yann..

  18. Beautiful…as always. I had the same feeling the other day hearing people talk about fishing. Oh my, I hadn’t thought about that in years – how much my Dad loved fishing. I must say I cried quite a few silent tears!

  19. martina

    Corey, we all love your Dad (and you too of course). He’ll be with you in spirit the whole ride. My Dad did hand engraving for a profession. Once in a while I remember the sound of the graver on the metal while he worked. Seeing white watercolor pots (the paint was used to create the base for the layout)also reminds mem of him. A friend is putting in a new cedar porch for me. The smell of the cedar? Reminds me of Dad, in the garage with his table saw. Always making stuff! Our Dads may be gone physically but mentally and in our hearts they are always with us. Always encouraging us to try things.

  20. Corey,
    I envy your adventure! You not only ride for him and him, but for us who will journey along with you. It is sure to be a memory of a lifetime. Stay safe and God speed on your journey.

  21. Every time you write about your father I’m so sorry you lost him, but happy you had such a good father. And that you felt his love so completely.

  22. Corey, I wish you safe travels and lots of new memories, which is what your dad would want for you!

  23. Oh that man of yours….no wonder you’d follow him anywhere.
    And you dad…..
    Corey, seems you have so many good men in your life.
    Have fun.

  24. You are one lucky, Motorcycle Mamma, Corey, to be riding on such solid ground across a lifetime of adventures from the Land of the Free and the Home of the Brave, through France, to Prague, and beyond.
    Listen to your ol’ daddy. Pack light. And have fun!
    Amitiés,

  25. Oh, Corey, What dear inspiration you have. Enjoy your trip.

  26. When I wear a ring left to me by my Grandmother I often think of her and imagine how she would have enjoyed being with me wherever I am. How lovely that you are and will be feeling your Dad in that same way!
    Memories of your trip will be so rich indeed for you and Yann. Have a blast, Corey and hang on tight! Absolutely no sleeping while riding 😉
    You’ve got me in tears too…

  27. Hello Corey, I’m Megan from Tulsa, Ok. This is the first time I’m commenting on your blog because well, in the past few days I’ve read nearly all of it! I tripped upon your blog and saw scrolling to the side the piano sheet music book for the movie “The Piano”. It was then I knew I had to read your through your archives. I’ve been playing out of that book since I was 13 (nealy 14 years now) and I knew anyone who liked the movie and/or its music was worth a looksee.
    And I am SO glad I did! Your blog is sumptuous and thought provoking. I love it when my brain is challenged into thought. Your stories have made me smile, cry, giggle and I appreciate it more than you know. Gosh does that sound silly or what? It’s true though!
    Anyways, merci beaucoup for sharing so much with us. I hope your journey to Prague is safe and fills you with many joys and new experiences. Take care!

  28. Beverly

    What a wonderful tribute to your Dad,every girl deserves that in her life.

  29. Enjoy yourselves, your father would have wanted you to…

  30. Have a wonderful ride, Corey,
    It is sometimes surprising the things that will trigger the memories and other times it is obvious the connections.
    My husband was watching the Baseball allstar game the other day and got caught by the memories of days gone by with his dad. When Stan Musial came on the field, a flood of sadness hit him- His dad was a great St. Louis Cardinal fan and he would have loved that baseball game. In retrospect, it was an obvious link to his dad. The memories are double edged- they bring joy and they bring the sorrow of the loss.
    The fact that one remembers is the most important thing for then the person we are missing still lives in our hearts.
    Have a great trip- I am sure it will be beautiful.
    Warmest regards,
    Anna

  31. Anna, I misted up too when Stan Musial came onto the field before the All-Star Game. Farmboy Husband and his Grandpa (both from central Illinois) were Card fans back in the day. And Musial was a native of the Pittsburgh area, where we live. He’s still truly “Stan the Man”!!!

  32. I loved Jeanette M’s words…
    ..take care dear Corey..xx

  33. (I am trying a different browser Corey, in the hopes that my problem has something to do with that??? I did a search and there were several posts from 2007 about problems being able to comment and one stated they could only post to typepad blogs using Safari, but not their usual Firefox. So I’m in Safari and all appendages and eyeballs are crossed, here I go!)
    Wishing you pleasure and comfort in your memories of your beloved father Corey. May you feel him with you as you and Yann ride about. Think of the joy it would have brought him for you two to be going on this adventure!

  34. Cousin chris

    So Corey….What bike did you guys get??? Cousin needs to know!
    By the way…The Benevolent Portuguese Brotherhood and Touring Club annual 90 Ride os 8/12 thru 8/15/09. The ride has been renamed “The George Amaro Memorial” Ferndale once again!
    Cousin Chris

  35. Aw, sweet Corey! For my dad (gone since 1988 when I was 35), it was an Indian motorcycle and mostly electric GUITARS. I have a great old pic of him with his Indian, a leather helmet and his riding gear on, with a pistol in his hand. Very Indiana Jones. And whenever I hear a Les Paul type jazz guitar playing, my heart literally freezes up and for a moment I can’t breathe. I miss him so. And golly, that FH of yours is shockingly handsome, isn’t he??? Will be staying tuned for tales of the trip! xxoo

  36. kristin

    sadly i didn’t have the father one would wish for but it’s so comforting knowing that there were/are dad’s just like George Amaro out there. ride on corey (with george).
    kristin

  37. Barbara Sydney Australia

    You really are a”Bikie Chick”!
    God love you, you make my day.

  38. Deb In IN USA

    How lucky you are to have a life touched by such men. Your heart will be filled with memories of one all the while you make new memories with your arms around another. How fortunate…and blessed.

  39. Ride for Joy, your Dad, for you. Be safe. You will also be riding for us here in our fantasies. Remember the thrill of the ride.
    Marilyn
    in Oregon

  40. Kimberly

    Corey I too get the inspiration to do things unimaginable from my fathers life. He inspires me to challenge myself. I thank the Lord for my Dad. Blessings and safe travels. Kimberly

  41. Ah, Corey…keep that passionate heart tucked in safe, out there on the open road.
    Be well. Be safe. Enjoy the ride.

  42. Michelle M in KY

    Dear Corey…
    That post touched my heart. I, too fid myself finding inspiration from my Dad. There are days I feel a little tap on my shoulder reminding me of something important or to keep things in perspective. He, too was a good Father…kind, generous, loving, emotionally available…I weep now thinking of him, missing him terribly. I know your Dad will be by your side on this ride…sitting in the side car (if FH would let you have one)cheering you on and protecting you all the way. Safe travels my friend, safe travels!

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