The Banners of Syncronicity

Croatia banner

It started with a banner. It was one of many flying in a row, attached to a stone wall and someone's home in a small perched town in Croatia. The moment I saw the rows of banners in polka dots, gingham check, and a 1950 style flower motif, I knew in a flash that whoever had hung them outside their home could be my friend. Those whimsical banners cheered: Hello! I saw joy flying overhead.

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I had to take a photo of those banners, I wanted to show Ulla and you that Americana style decor is also Croatian style…well at least on this cobble stoned street. But as luck and soon to be destiny would have it, my camera's battery was dead. I made a note to myself to return to take a photo later that evening.

Croatia cat

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Croatia garden

The light had softened when I returned up the 1100 steps, though the magical energy was stronger. Underneath the banners old stones where stacked, behind the stacked stones weather worn painted shutters where placed added texture to the stone walls, and plants loving tended where in a collection of rusty enamelware pots.

I thought does my mother or someone with her artistic garden flare live here? My curiosity was uncontrollable I had to know who this person was who seemed to be my lost sister or someone close to a sister I never had.

Pulling weeds

Around the corner I spied someone bent over pulling weeds that grew between the cobbled stones. I thought to myself now there is a person with passion. Because who would pull weeds on the "street" just for the fun of it? Weeds that will return in a day or two, weeds that nobody notices that are there or that she is pulling. She is pulling weeds out of her desire to beautify the cobble street. Passionate people are what make the world go round with flare and vitality.

Peering in croatia

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The windows and door to her home were open… The naughty child in me could not resist to look inside, it was all I could do not to go inside and sit at her table. Instead I stole a few interior shots! The adult that I am was nervous, but the inner naughty child of me was bubbling over I stole a few shots.

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Before heading up the hill to meet French Husband at the restaurant were we had planned to meet, I said to the lady of the house… "Hello? You have a lovely place, your banners are so friendly."

Olja returned her greeting in perfect english, "Thank you."

The key was the banner, the door opened with English and the rest that followed… a dream out of a fairytale.

Of course I will tell you more, but tell me have you ever seen someone and knew in a flash that you were going to be their friend? The beautiful deep reality in a moment of time. Synchronicity, the unfolding of casual events that challenges you to embrace the moment knowing it was made ready for you.



Comments

45 responses to “The Banners of Syncronicity”

  1. Leslie Garcia

    Dear Corey,
    Yes!!! That is how I felt when I found your blog. I can’t wait to read about your new friendship. I love the banners and plants too!The streets and the inside of the houe…oh MY!
    Thanks for sharing it with all of us!
    Love,
    Leslie

  2. “…have you ever seen someone and knew in a flash that you were going to be their friend?”
    Not really, but I’ve suspected that the person and I had the POTENTIAL to become friends over time — and more to the point, that it was worth trying (because if you don’t try, then it’s certain that you won’t become friends).

  3. what a lovely story – i believe you are open to chance encounters life bestows upon you which is why this happens to you. for me, i am much more reserved and as a result miss this gift. i will work harder to open up – you’ve given me courage!
    Christine

  4. Every morning I rush to read your posts.
    On days like this I find myself thinking I am readying a book of fiction.
    How do we see beauty in such every day things. A pot on a stove, a lady pulling weeds that only her eyes see. Some, like you Corey, will make it amazing for the rest of us to see.
    Your trip has been a gift to me. Thank you.

  5. It’s a small, small world!

  6. Oh, I’m like Sally! I read your blog first thing in the morning, before anything else with my cup of coffee. Thank you Thank you Thank you. Such a nice way to start my day!
    The flags reminded me of a town my husband and I visited this summer in the Pyrenees. We decided to take a drive and ended up in a lovely town, very similar to this one, with beautiful homemade banners strung over the streets. When we arrived they were being taken down, and we never did find out why they had been put up in the first place, but they were just beautiful! We found an inn at the bottom of the street where we decided to spend the night. We woke up in wonderland, with a view from our bed of the green, green mountains dotted with cows and horses. I never wanted to leave!
    Can’t wait to hear more about your friend, she looks lovely, and NICE kitchen!

  7. Love this. Can’t wait for more.

  8. How awsome is it that you can take a bike ride and blog all the way! You are taking all of us along with you. Thank you sooooo much.
    Be safe. Have fun.

  9. Once again Corey you have an amazing story, this is wonderful, you are Naughty…too!!
    This lady looks lovely, I am sure she wil be your friend,..I have never had that feeling, but maybe oneday, I have thought this of bloggers online, and have made friends that way though..
    Look forward to your photos..I love waiting for your next post to appear..fantastic way to open my day… 🙂

  10. I love reading about your trip!
    Twenty-three years ago (I was 16), I was walking down a little stone path through a garden in Pittsburgh. I caught the eyes of a girl coming the other direction; we both simultaneously stopped and said hello. I had a strong feeling of recognition and familiarity, though we’d never met. We’ve been best friends ever since, though we’ve never lived in the same city. I understand the powerful feeling you can get when first meeting someone. Trust that feeling! It can lead to beautiful, lifelong friendships! Have a wonderful, amazing trip.

  11. Kindred spirits Corey! A wonderful and rare commodity I was lucky to have found in 5th grade. After many years of not knowing where the other was, we have found each other again and still talk like we are sitting next to each other in class. Life is amazing and remarkably delightfulI! I am glad you are having such an exciting and interesting adventure! Thanks for raking us along!

  12. I can’t wait until tomorrow for more of the story. I just know you went inside and took more photos inside this creative spirit’s home. How exciting for you, a new friend.
    Marilyn
    in Oregon

  13. I felt that way when I first “met” you on the blog and still feel that way. Your new friend was probably very amused and flattered when you admitted to the interior photos.

  14. What a wonderful story! I’m also waiting to find out more! Patricia

  15. I had this feeling in the old town of Silverton, Colorado one year. A lady was weeding outside the cutest cottage – I stopped to talk and she invited me inside to look about her delightful home. We exchanged letters (this was before e-mail) for several years.
    This lovely lady you have met looks friendly and open – bet she didn’t mind one bit that naughty you peeked inside. Also bet you saw much more now you are friends!!!
    When will you return home Corey?

  16. linsel, on the bus. saw him and thought to myself “i am supposed to know him.” that was two weeks before we actually met.
    now we are great friends. (who sadly don’t see each other that often, must rectify that)

  17. I am a fragrance blogger , and was standing outside Bergdorf Goodmans in Manhattan , waiting for Sniffapalooza Breakfast and people watching . There was a beautiful redhead talking with a stranger nearby , and the first words I heard her speak were
    ” Oh , I’ll send you a decant…”
    I thought , that’s my kind of girl , and we are the best of friends now , and in the perfume selling business together !!

  18. Love all you share
    You are like me I poke my head in everywhere.
    Giggles
    Love you
    Kisses♥

  19. Dinah Soar

    Thanks for taking ‘us’ along..I’m enjoying ‘our’ trip…from a reader who loves your blog.

  20. You write so beautifully Corey. I can hardly wait to hear the rest of the story. Linda

  21. Oh, I better figure out how to get my own Self some festive banners!
    Smooth move.
    …I’ll need that grey cat, too.

  22. Dear Corey,
    I met my best friend and knew instantly we were kindred spirits and the more we got to know each other the better and stronger our friendship has become.
    I look forward to reading more about your adventure in friendship, your trip and seeing all your wonderful photos.

  23. Corey,
    Do you believe in fate?
    I think your paths were destined to cross on that cobblestone path in Croatia. Didn’t you feel like you had found a kindred spirit as you watched those colorful banners flapping in the breeze?
    Every encounter, every experience enhances and adds to our lives. I can’t wait to hear about your new friend.
    Corey, I was thinking the other day what a wonderful documentary your journey would make!! Are you recording any video along the way?
    Marilyn (in Dallas)

  24. Julie Ann Evins

    Yes bien sur & I hope to see her again soon, Jx
    – Olja looks gorgeous x

  25. Oh Corey,
    How wonderful! What a blessing! My heart bursts with joy for you……& it brings to mind a very dear friend of mine.
    I am so looking forward to tomorrows blog….
    You are a wonderful writer & photographer, I love the pic of the plants in the blue enamelware….now tell us does she know you posted a picture of her behind……lol
    I’m sure she does & with her good nature she probably just laughed…..
    I am so happy for you, be back tomorrow..

  26. Corey
    YES! Don’t you just love it “Synchronicity,”
    On that same vein when I spied your blog — from Carol –Paris Breakfasts and read the first line of your blog –I knew — we could be friends — well at least blog-land friends – unless someday I am Fortunate to travel and stay at one of those beautiful places you shared on your blog..– and get to meet you and your family..until then — I will continue to enjoy your daily adventures through life reading your blog and the wonderful comments made by other like minded souls.
    Joanny

  27. Good for you, Corey! Amazing what a camera and a healthy dose of curiosity and “why not?” can do, eh?

  28. we are all so very similar.. the world over..
    the years I have been blogging has continually kept me in that state of amazement as I stumble across women just like me.. who believe in magick and glitter, who have hopes, dreams and wishes just like I do and who pray for a peaceful planet.. and I have just found another one through you.. living in Croatia.. now I know where the words: WWW – world wide web originate.. it is like a huge web being spun across the planet.
    that little cobblestone street somewhere in Croatia, makes my soul *sigh* – absolutely gorgeous, thanks Corey xo
    safe travels.. xoxo

  29. Ana Jacas

    Serendipity, I love that word. I met you onlineand new instantly that if we met in person we would be eat friends, for now I have to be content with being an online friend.
    I go to a cafe everymorning before work, I read and write my thoughts in a journal, it is quiet and peaceful. One morning a woman and her child walked in and immediately began talking to me, she had a french accent and I knew that we would be friends there and then. New friendships are such fun, another adventure of a different kind. Enjoy this new adventure also.
    love to you both
    Ana

  30. Ana Jacas

    apologies for t typos, its late and I am tired. will get to the computer earlier tomorrow!!

  31. I will be late for work reading this – but just had to of course! You set me up for the day – loving your trip. A beautiful new friend, yes it happens!

  32. This such a busy time for me, and the photos and words of your travels are a real oasis in my day. Thank you so much for sharing them!

  33. All the images are wonderful and I totally understand about suddenly knowing, just knowing that a new friend has come into your life. For me it is the image of the kitchen (?) table, with a little pile of stones resting on it’s surface and there snuggled onto one of the stairs what looks like a little red candle vase.

  34. Soul Mates!! Hooray for Corey and Olja!!!

  35. Just recently I had all of my best friends together for my daughter’s wedding. My husband and I rented a huge log cabin with 8 bedrooms(one for us and the rest for my 7 best friends)so for the first time I could have all my best pals andtheir husbands under one roof. These gals span from my high school days(my oldest best friend) to just 8 years ago(my youngest best friend). We are all in our early 50s and I knew with each one within moments that they would be a close pal. Each and everyone of my best friends left that week with wonderful fun memories…they were all different but everyone clicked. God…aren’t we blessed to be born a girl! Boys just don’t really get it.

  36. Billie Claire Haffey

    It is serendipity and your lovley heart is open to receive it! Good for you! Have fun and I can’t wait to hear the details. Love and hugs and all… B

  37. I’m having such a lovely time on our trip!

  38. Hello Corey
    Just as all the others have written- I found a friend with you when I stumbled across your blog…Thankyou for sharing your beautiful life with us!You are a blessing & inspiration. Safe Travels to you & FH.
    ~xo Ladelle

  39. Love this post.. one of my favorite so far on the trip!

  40. What joy! Chance encounters are by far the greatest gifts. One has to be in tune with Life to realize how those little pebbles are put in our path. I am soooooo happy for you. Glad I stopped by your blog today to share the news.

  41. Elaine L.

    Yes! I have had experiences like this. I have even felt moments of recognition of strangers that I have passed on the street when our eyes locked.
    I can’t wait to hear more!
    ~elaine~

  42. Hey that happened to me, but unfortunately I didn’t follow through. I met a very interesting lady at a local church car wash for charity. We chatted way as our cars were being washed. I felt like I had known her for years. The conversation was so easy. I let her go without exchanging phone numbers. I felt like I wanted to say, “will you be my friend”, but I was way to shy to be so bold. I could have kicked myself when she drove away. Hopefully, I’ll get another chance at friendship that way.

  43. Massilianana

    Bonjour !
    I knew the banners were special , like a signal ! This woman is so beautiful ,she looks peaceful , quietly joyful , with a twinkle of humour in her eyes . Maybe she is a double of Annie , only at a different age …Looking forward to read your netx post !!

  44. Thank you, thank you ,thank you, Just love the whole idea of you wondering around camera in hand taking photos of beautiful interiors and exteriors,especially when you are on the road. YOu must be getting a bit tired? Never the less the Croatian home is lovely,combination of old and new.
    It’s true that you can tell a lot about a person by their home’s appearance, or contents… definitly.
    Happy travel.

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