Former Yugoslavia a place in the Heart

Motovun croatia
Photos of Croatia and text by Corey Amaro

Mid August is Europe's exodus to the sea side. The freeways are jammed packed with overloaded cars, with miles and miles of determine faces hoping to find a place to surrender under the sun. We joined the exodus at the Italy/Croatia border, one of the thousands that day standing still in the scorching sun.

Croatia seaside rovinj

We had no idea where we were going, though we had heard that Croatia was a feast for the eyes. French Husband was skeptical mainly because he comes from a land of plenty and because of the Yugoslavian images fed to us by the news media fifteen years earlier. We wondered what was it going to be like? Our curiosity tripled when we stood at the border with half of Europe in front of us, and the other half behind us: This place has got to be good.

Rovinj croatia coast 

Rovinj color town

When I saw the sea I knew paradise was close at hand, also knowing in an instant that it was not going to be easy to find a place to stay. I started to pray, "I trust that you will lead us to the place where you have made ready for us, where we can experience this land authentically And please do not forget that it cannot cost an arm and a leg, or more than 80 euro. Thank you."

With that prayer said, I continued to sweat, feeling like someone could bake a cake inside of my motorcycle gear. I tried to cheer French Husband who was growing a grumpy face, not to worry that we were going to find something amongst the million of other tourists.

We turned away from the coast and headed inland, with bewildering thoughts that it was not going to be as lovely away from the seaside.

How naive we were….

Croatia hillside motovun

At this point we had been riding for over eight hours, most of it crawling between traffic. I could not longer pull off my leather gloves to take a photo, because they were baked on my hands, when I finally managed to pull them off my hands looked liked someone who had been swimming for two weeks, or better said my hands looked liked plastic bubble wrap.

Looking at the useless map we had, we could not find any of the towns perched on the hills all around us, the GPS did not work in most of Eastern Europe so we did not even turn it on, instead I walked up to the nearest home and knocked on the door, nobody answered. French Husband saw a gas station across the street, so we went over to it.

Old facade in croatia

We filled up Willow, bought some Chocolate Coconut Ice cream bars (that I am going to miss when we get home), we asked the gas station attendant if he spoke English or French. He spoke English, he told us he had room in his house, the house in which I had knocked on the door earlier. He gave us the key and we went in and took a shower. It was the best shower of my life! Later we went downstairs, out into his garden and had home made Grappa, one was made with wild herbs, another with cherry and the third, yes three!!! was made with.. I don't remember… was it almond? I think I was in La La Land at that point. Which is easy to get to when you do not drink but want to be polite to the host who is serving you his homemade Grappa!

Cobblestone street croatia

Grappa puts a kick to your step, our weary bodies felt like dancing, our new found host Ricardo, encouraged us to walk up to the perched town for dinner. He told us to take the steps, the locals he said use the steps "…there are only one thousand one hundred steps to the top."

This part of Croatia is know for truffles and a truffle dinner can be had for less than a song; I had polenta with truffles for 11 euro. If for no other reason alone I would live in Motovun for the truffles.

We pranced up to the top of Motovun.

Motovun city wall

Motovun at sunset.

Motovun steps 

1100 steps leading up to Motovun.

Motovun laundry

Croatian home cooking 

Croatian interior home 

Croatian garden 

Croatian kitchen

Croatia c

Lavender croatia

Croatia cat t 

On those steps in Motovun we meet Olja and Milan. A couple who had fled Bosnia during the war… and years later have returned to Croatia. A couple who had a depth of experience evident in their eyes. They invited us to spend the next night with them, to share their home cooked meals and their friendship. We ended up spending two nights with them.

We were captivated by what they generously shared with us. Their story was softly woven in their actions, their smiles and the way the lived in the moment. Olja and Milan met in Germany, lived in the USA, traveled widely, they are architects. We had many stories too share, similar feelings of what it is like to be an expat, to let go of traditions, to hold on to traditions, to miss your family, to feel your family in a person you meet, to hold your door open, to say yes to the spirit of goodness that is in everyone and thing. To not be afraid of tomorrow even if that means your homeland has changed its name.

Of course their journey was far more mountainous than mine, and I was humbled by their courage.

motovun 

On our last evening with them, we went into the village to have a drink at their friend's pizzeria. The pizzeria is on top of Motovun and has a spectacular view. We sat outside and the whole world passed by our table, Milan and Olja knew them all. Thirty or more people gathered to talk about their day the sky threatened rain but could not damper the mood.

As the conversation went in and out of English, Croatian, Danish, Italian, German, French and back to English the thunder started. In the distant horizon you could see it lighting up the sky, and call out in its own powerful language: BOOM, as if to say I am comin' take cover. Though instead of returning home, people gathered around the wall overlooking the approaching thunder as if it were a theatrical show. As the storm grew closer the air cooled off, my senses were heightened by the thunderous crack of the whip, my sight saw the  flashing disco ball of fire, the smell of rain refreshing, laughter filled the nooks and crannies, my taste buds knew this was going to fill me in a way that I would not know hunger for a long long time.

We saw the thunder hit the ground, and roll and burn. We laughed. We saw the other hillside towns lose electricity and go dark, we saw the wall of water fast approaching and cheered it on knowing we were next in line and going to be soaked. We stood and waited, enjoying the moment…begging it to come on, we were not going to run for cover.

Then the storm was over head, the lightening flashed, the thunder cracked, we howled, and it poured rain, an instant river ran down the 1100 stone steps and pass the pizzeria! We ran into the Pizzeria, the electricity went out, and the party began. These people know how to celebrate a good thing.

And in that wild wonderful moment I thought this is life, this is community, this is freedom, this is how it should be… to face whatever comes your way with open arms, trusting that the big ball of energy in the sky called love has made a place ready for you and NOTHING can take that away from our hearts.



Comments

48 responses to “Former Yugoslavia a place in the Heart”

  1. oh my
    not much more I can say xoxo

  2. What an amazing night! Magical! You’re right. This is life. This is community. This is freedom. In Croatia! I bet you were both so surprised and totally delighted. I love the way you think.

  3. !!!! love their home…;)0
    xx

  4. What an amazing opportunity of crossing cultures in the midst of nature’s forces.
    Such beautiful pictures and word pictures, Corey!
    May your travels continue to be spectacular and blessed.

  5. Corey, your journey has been so amazing. I doubt I will ever see these places, so it is nice to go along with you. Such generosity and trusting from strangers. Enjoy your trip. Can’t wait to hear more.

  6. This post has made me feel very happy, thank you!

  7. ahhh.you have made me cry…

  8. Corey, I will never be able to convey my thanks for sharing your travels and I feel like I have learned so much culturally from your trip . . .but, do you miss being home yet?? When we do travel . . .I always miss my home, and I get mad at myself for that. Maybe, you are just wiser than I and can relax and enjoy.
    Looking forward to tomorrows post!

  9. Your humble prayer on Willow was answered! What a wonderful rendition of this leg of your journey and what a heart warming tale of hospitality across borders. Thank you.

  10. Oh Corey! What a wonderful, fulfilling adventure! Onward…

  11. yes, yes, yes!! This is the way life should be. You’ve captured a very special moment and a very special feeling. Don’t you wish you could just bottle it up and save it forever?

  12. How exhilarating!!!! They sure know how to celebrate life. We should all learn from this post. Thanks for sharing.

  13. Thanks for taking me all across Europe with you
    I love you
    Magic is right
    You are marvelous darling♥

  14. Strangers now friends. The essence of travelling.

  15. Cheryl in California

    Your shared adventures make me so restless to just go! Thank you, Corey.

  16. Do you read SARK, Corey? Her newsletter this morning was about “Detectives of Goodness” and her words made me think of you.
    Hah! What kind of cake did you bake in your pants?! You’re too cute.
    What a magical time you had in Motovun and what a bonus to make new friends and have them welcome you into their home. (Somehow I believe your life is filled with those moments Corey, whether at home or out in the world. It’s all about choices and attitude, huh?!)
    Looking forward to seeing where the road leads you and Yann and what adventures tomorrow has in store …

  17. Two thumbs up to living in the moment and making friends of strangers.
    Amitiés,

  18. You live a charmed life most of us can only dream about. As the above poster stated, your life is filled with moments – such beautiful moments. How lucky you are!

  19. This one brought tears to my eyes. You painted the picture of your new friends beautifully in both words and photo. I am so caught up in reading every day, like chapters in a good book that’s hard to put down, but I must, waiting for the next post.

  20. It truly is amazing all that God will provide us when we ask Him. He cares for our every need, and has given you the desires of your heart. My prayers are with you on your fantastic journey. I have been with you the whole way.
    Blessings, Debra

  21. thank you sharing the ineffable….how amazing…..

  22. Dear Corey,
    Thank you for speaking to me…”to face whatever comes your way with open arms…” yes, everyday I wake up and open my arms upward and try to make sense of why Rob, my husband who was once healthy and strong has to suffer with terminal cancer…but I will trust and believe in that “big ball of energy-LOVE” will carry us thru…thank you for your inspiring words of faith.

  23. What a beautiful post.

  24. Corey, you did it again. Your words about life and experiences took my breath away. Thank you! Continued safe journey with FH and Willow.

  25. Well, your story had me in tears by the end. Just beautiful! And I loved your statement about ‘facing whatever comes your way with open arms’. I will remember that one. Thank you!

  26. Just beautiful! The celebration of life touched my heart.
    Marilyn
    in Oregon

  27. Another wonderful story, how absolutely beautiful..you were meant to be there, you were meant to steer away from the sea, you were meant to knock on the door…look where it led you too!! It led you to Olja and Milan, a truly lovely couple, how great that they invited you into their home, and that you had lots of stories to share!!

  28. Kathleen from Oregon

    This is just too much. How you can express your thoughts, feelings, experiences is truly a gift. Each stop/post just keeps getting better.
    Croatia as a holiday destination? I never in a million years would have thought of it, and now I want to go…

  29. Corey, thank you thank you thank you. What an opost…it made me remember that when I let go and trust, I’m taken care of in ways that are beyond my imagination. I am thankful for your writing.
    <3 Alina

  30. Really Corey you are living.Really living.Soak it all up.

  31. Oh to step outside in another land and live as if to breathe for the first time, you have a life that is beyond breath taking in a natural sense. I love seeing in my minds eye your description of the rain and the merriment that began with a thunderstorm. How wonderful!
    Barbara

  32. Dinah Soar

    Croatia is beautiful, as well, your description of your visit there. I love it…Now I want to visit Prague and Croatia..who knew how beautiful they both are.
    All I’ve known of Croatia is that it was ‘war torn’ and I have the images from the TV screen stored in my head too…and that is my only association. Now I have this new more pleasing one.
    I can’t wait to read more about your trip.

  33. I am not sunburned or roasting in the heat but I do feel as if you’ve taken us with you each turn and twist of the way. You are so good at sharing stories and photos. Thank you.

  34. What a way to LIVE! Fantastic, Corey.

  35. I poured a glass of wine while reading your beautiful words. I felt as though I was there. Thank you for sharing. What lovely people they must be and how lucky to live in such a beautiful place….I raise my glass to you and your husband. Enjoy your trip, where ever it may take you next..julie

  36. WOW! What a phenominal answer to your prayer! God is good, all the time!

  37. Michelle M in KY

    Talk about TIME OF YOUR LIVES…what an example and memory. I am so thrilled that you have shared this journey with me…yes me! I know that the ret of the world is reading also, but you have a way of writing that makes the reader (me) feel like you’re writing just to them.
    I’m so thrilled that your journey has been so much fun, adventurous, romantic, and idyllic. I am not sure if you are home yet, but this has indeed been fun.
    Thank You

  38. Maureen Blair

    An exquisite post, Corey. I am sitting at home in Kansas City, Missouri, listening to the rain and cracking thunder outside as I read your account. Do you ever notice that small bird on your shoulder as you travel and play through all these magnificent places? That’s me, along for the ride. I have learned so much from you. A thousand times “thank you” for sharing your trip and life with us.
    Maureen

  39. Jeri Walter

    It’s amazing the things that come to you when you trust and open your heart. This will be the one memory you share with your husband for, I hope, many years to come.

  40. From Midwest USA:
    Fantastic photos. Feels like I am there. Wish I were. 🙂 But love it here.
    Blessings,
    TJ

  41. Oh Corey, I am in tears of happiness! What an experience, and what lessons you teach us all to have those moments and live in those moments, when you share such stories.
    Big hug of gratitude to you!
    Tamara

  42. Corey — I don’t know how to say it again and again. I am completely flabbergasted by your ability to be open to – and thus enjoy — amazing experiences and then, on top of it, to be able to write and depict them so beautifully.
    Once again: I think this is about the millionth request, so surely you’re considering it now:
    WRITE THAT BOOK!!!!!!!

  43. Corey
    Loved your prayer– will use it if I may—
    What a wonderful series of ZEN moments!
    Joanny
    PS — Blogees keep asking for you to write a book — I believe it is already written — gather up all the collection of stories since you started writing your blog and some of the comments and bundle it up and there you have a wonderful book of living life….Joan

  44. The years were not always kind to beautiful former Yugoslavia, but everyone I knew who visited before thought it a wonderful place. Your words and images have proven that is so. How lovely that your new friends invited you in and you could share their life for a few hours. Traveling to me is often about making new friends along the way…..just like when you and I met, and meeting your mom, Sacha and the grandchildren recently, such fun!
    Love and hugs – safe journey.

  45. this is what traveling should be…experiencing the land, the towns, the people and moments of life. nothing better, not a thing.
    safe travel home.
    thank you for sharing your adventure(s) with us.
    many hugs to you and yann.

  46. Massilianana

    You know what ? This post inspires me so much . Not only do you write beautifully but the spirit of all the things and moments you describe touches me in an incredible way . I loved your prayer , I must stop to be scared all the time and be more confident and open…Thank you for you words , your wisdom , your savoir vivre , your joy of life .

  47. Beautiful pictures! So inspiring…I’m putting money in my piggy bank now to make the trip! Isn’t life deliciously beautiful! Thanks for sharing this beauty! First time visiting…I’m a fan! 🙂
    Elizabeth at http://www.mixedgreensvillage.blogspot.com. come visit me! I’d love your thoughts!

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