How I came to meet my French Husband at the I-Beam in Twenty Steps.

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Twenty steps to a new Life:

  1. 1986 Yann, (my French Husband) took a year off to travel through the U.S.A..
  2. He had a childhood friend who lived in Chicago, so he went there first.
  3. Skylark was a $300 rusty car. He bought it to see his dream:
  4. The setting sun over the Pacific.
  5. During a freak snowstorm in Colorado he kissed a girl in the backseat of a police car.
  6. Lack of modern devises added with a terrible sense of direction landed him in East L.A. 
  7. In a grocery store parking lot Skylark was his hotel. A gang greeted him. Not digging L.A. he headed down I-5.
  8. Remembering a note his Mother's neighbor gave him, he reached for his wallet.
  9. The "note" said, "If in California I have a daughter who lives in Gustine."
  10. At that very moment the road sign read: "Gustine" Yann pulled off.
  11. Madame H. lived on a horse ranch and cooked French food.
  12. Madame H. had a French niece, who was married to an American man and lived in San Francisco. Yann went to visit them.
  13. They were vegetarians. Yann gave up meat.
  14. http://www.discomusic.com/images/mscl/ibeam-tix-150.jpg
  15. Every night, every dance imaginable happened at the I-Beam: Rock, punk, ballet, jazz, slow, hip-hop to the sound of New Wave. Yann's newfound friend's told him it was one of the hottest nightclubs in town, gay most nights, but on Tuesday it was a free for all, a wonderful wild dance scene. They went dancing.
  16. Tuesday, April 1986, 10:00 p.m., 1748 Haight Street, San Francisco, a lonely girl danced at the I-Beam. Yann noticed.
  17. Language skills were at a minimum. Yann told the girl his name.
  18. The disco ball's sparks couldn't hold a candle to the flame that started with that one word: John.
  19. Yann's heart wanted to stay in San Francisco.
  20. Needing a job, without a green card Yann became an Aupair, and modeled nude (but you don't want to hear about that do you?)


Comments

64 responses to “How I came to meet my French Husband at the I-Beam in Twenty Steps.”

  1. HA! Who wouldn’t fall in love with you, Corey, such an expert tease!

  2. .20 What!!!
    …What a story to tell the world and the grandchildren. Loving every word,

  3. Christine E

    I bet that’s on his CV! Tell us more…

  4. .. and modeled nude ….
    No, please, don’t write about that …. *giggles*
    Corey’s kind of cliff hanger! 🙂
    P.S.: Will you include pictures?

  5. Love you Corey
    Kisses Love Jeanne
    I love these stories♥

  6. Loving every word and do tell all the details.

  7. I like how you snuck in that last bit. 😛
    Reading it was like going “Lalalalala…..WHAT?????” 😀

  8. Do you have others secrets like that . I want to hear everything . I didn’t know he was an aupair we have a “point commun” …
    I didn’t know for his other job neither ..see you tonight

  9. This gets better each day…

  10. …Don’t stop there…! Please!!

  11. More, more!! There is a book lurking behind this story, right?

  12. You are such a tease!! Loving the stories. Your blog is such a breath of fresh air. I love my little mini trips to France every morning. Such a joy!

  13. oh my gosh….keep going please :o)

  14. You are the biggest tease! More please… any photos to go along with it??!!

  15. I don’t know why, but the nr 20 seems the most interesting thing you wrote….are you gonna say more about this, right? LOL

  16. Who will play the lead role in this cinematographers dream? xo.

  17. Oh, I’m not shy, please tell….wink wink

  18. Wow. Isn’t it amazing how each choice he made along the way was vital in bringing him to the IBeam and you! Very cool story.

  19. O.K. where are the pictures???? Looking forward to tomorrows post.
    Carolyn

  20. #20.
    Yes, yes we do!

  21. OOO-LA-LA – of course we do!!!

  22. Wow! Can’t wait to hear what comes next 🙂

  23. Come on Corey, you KNOW we want the WHOLE story!! And you really should write your story in novel form. It would be a bestseller, you would be rich, and you could just travel around meeting all you bloggy friends!!
    Jill

  24. Of course we want to hear about that! You are a tease! I even want to hear about being an Aupair.
    A very romantic story.

  25. A wonderful story, loved the ‘ending’ … which of course was just the beginning. You are a talented writer with interesting things to share!!! (thank you!) ~ Violet

  26. Oh Corey, this is delightful!!! Thank goodness for wild dance scenes, and guys like Yann!
    Kisses
    Ulla

  27. Yeah… nooooo interest in the nude model part at ALL!
    😉

  28. I would love to read your whole love story, Corey.
    It is so romantic and a bit racy :o)

  29. Massilianana

    Read all the previous posts : this is breathtaking and …of course we want to know about (hot)number 21 and 22,and23,and,…..;o)

  30. Pictures to illustrate #20 please! 😀

  31. You’ve told parts of this story before, and I’ve read your blog for years, but there are new details every time. Love it!

  32. Brother Mathew

    Let me see…..FH modeling nude or brocantes
    BROCANTE please.
    ____________________
    Enfin, (at last) Bro’ you want to see the brocante!
    Your Sister who was going to be a Nun

  33. Yes, with pictures.

  34. Uh, yes we DO want to hear more!

  35. Of course, I want details!!!!
    Hugs,
    Margaret B

  36. Yes, I do, Corey! Looking forward to tomorrow’s post. I love your storytelling!

  37. Haaaaaaaaa ha aha ahhah-nude model, never saw that coming. Can’t wait to see all of your old pictures. And, the best part is we all know you lived happily ever after. Still can’t believe you married a nude model. Did you take the class? LOL!
    Have a great day! I get to go antiqing with my mother in laws little club 🙂

  38. Lieselotte

    Corey, you are teasing your readers to the ultimate point, aren´t you ? This is better than any darn novel I´ve read so far.

  39. jend’isère

    …..25) you then found yourself sketching with charcoal your future husband, who was posing for the art school?

  40. Uhmmm yeah, we want to hear more!!

  41. Kathleen in Oregon

    FH must have been the coolest Aupair ever. But what did his employer think about his other job?

  42. Oh what a fun time this is. Almost as much fun reading all the comments as reading your post !!!!!! But NOTHING, my dear would be as much fun as the nude model part of the story……do tell.

  43. Please don’t stop with the story! I’ve been following your blog for about 18 months and am hooked, reading it daily…so do continue…!

  44. now this is QUALITY blogging!
    love love love to see what treasures you have for us everyday!
    xoxoxoxoxx

  45. Corey, You really know how to keep us hanging in suspence! YES WE WANT TO KNOW!
    😛

  46. Don’t want to know…? Are you mad! Of course we want to!!!

  47. What a wonderful story. You could make a movie out of this.. You two are perfect.

  48. Loving these stories of your meeting and courtship Corey. So much fun!
    Happy weekend to you!

  49. Julie Ann Evins

    The nude dancing imp – no way ? He’s a dark horse that one, more Corey more ! Jx

  50. Corey, You’re doing it again you merciless tease! Of course we don’t want to read the story – WE WANT THE PICTURES!!! And I know you’ve got them -don’t even try to pretend you don’t!
    Oh, and what was that you said about him kissing a girl in the back of a police car? Which one of them was under arrest?

  51. Rebecca from the Pacific NW

    Are you vegetarian at this point?
    And your other readers said it all. I like this best:
    T
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    A
    S
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    !!!

  52. Corey you shared some of the story about your french husband when I met you at Round Top! I love hearing the details and can’t wait to see the photos. PS French By Design will be at Miss Frenchies in Kansas City the first week in December

  53. Ah ha! I’m not the only person who believes in coincidences, the dance of the universe, and our dance with that! This is SO cool!!! It inspires me for my love story with my future husband~
    In the meantime I am itching to go to a gay dance club–to dance in abandonment, however seductively you want to be, without the worries of being “hit on” for a straight girl sounds SO MUCH FUN!!!

  54. Oh Corey, really, you can’t leave us hanging like this! Unless you leave us with a photo or two… 😉
    xx

  55. Oh yes we do want to hear more!

  56. Oh, keep going….the suspense is killing me!!

  57. Every word.

  58. (I was living in Aix-en-Provence in April 1986)

  59. Oh Corey, you are the dark mistress of DRAG-ing things out aren’t you. Oh yes. Pun intended. Thank God Yan was the Real McCoy.

  60. michelleb.

    Every word, please.

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