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Hot Buns and Enlightenment

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I received an email that said that lately my blog seemed to be depressing and that I needed to lighten up.

I spoke to French Husband about it.

He said it was good that the person who sent me the email felt she could be honest and tell me what she thought. He went on to remind me of the time my Brother Mathew wrote that I needed to stop talking about the Brocante… or as my brother Mathew inferred, "Brocante Hell."

Duscussion-in-the-kitchen

This morning while we were in the kitchen making breakfast and discussing my depressing blog….

Doing-dishes

buns by the oven

Ladelle snapped photos then said, "Hey, Corey you can use these (photos) to lighten up your blog…Hot buns!"

Ladelle

Happy Birthday Ladelle, and thanks for your enlightenment.

Comments

149 responses to “Hot Buns and Enlightenment”

  1. Irina

    Happy Birthday, Ladelle!
    love FH’s pony tail 🙂

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  2. Jeanne

    Ooooh la la
    I love to see you and your husband and all your postings are fabulous
    I love you
    Jeanne♥

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  3. michelle

    depressing? never! i love your blog – i began reading it not long before your father fell ill, and although i do not know you, and did not know your father, i thought the way you wrote about his final weeks was with beauty and grace. and i appreciated it because we all encounter struggles and rough patches in life. i appreciate those times being shared, just as i do the joyous, uplifting times. the way you approach your life, the way you live life, is beautiful. my husband and i briefly visited France in 2003 and made a great friend there who we keep in touch with regularly. France seems far away now that we have two beautiful children and a mortgage, but i know we will go back “one day”. until then, from Australia, your gorgeous blog satisfies my hunger for things French! 🙂

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  4. Tace

    Happy Birthday to Ladelle!
    Also, it’s your blog, YOURS. I always find it funny when people think they have the right to decide how another person’s blog should go…If you want to only post pink striped cupcake photos on blue backgrounds with free verse poetry every day of the week…that’s your right!
    The awesome thing about blogs is they’re so personal and expressive, as soon as a person starts *forcing* a flavour to their blog, one way or another, it’s not as fulfilling. (least for me)
    I say, do what feels right. People can have their opinions but it’s YOUR blog. 🙂

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  5. Julie Ann

    Who is depresssed ? They need to up the prozac ! All is well at Tongue in Cheek, Yann’s hair is growing, Corey has never looked better, Ladelle is deservedly being spoiled – Happy Birthday Ladelle – and I’m a mummy at last ! Blessings, Jxx

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  6. Julie

    Corey
    That is what we love about visiting here.. honesty.. love .. and real life!! Life is not always pleasant.. you may help others by sharing the good and bad..
    Happy Birthday Ladelle!!!

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  7. Shelley Noble

    Good shooting, Ladelle!
    Corey, I find you a kick! I think it’s your level-headed scrutiny of all the realities of life that makes you know how to really truly and deeply live.
    The buns are cute, and so is the way you two play. You can’t see FH buns in those jeans but you can see the graceful slope of broad shoulders. All I can say is Mazel Tov to you!

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  8. Gina Baynham

    Your blog. Your choice of what to write about. Or not if you don’t want to. If we don’t like it we can stop reading it…. Our choice. Easy. I’m staying!
    P.S: I completely expected the hot buns to be fresh out of the oven and I burst out laughing when I saw what kind of hot buns you meant!!! Nothing depressing about those buns…!

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  9. Paula

    Hi Corey,
    I am sure that whoever wrote to you about your blog “being depressing”, didn’t mean it in a nasty way. You write as you feel on that particular day. Some days we laugh with you, other we feel sad with you. I love your blog, whatever! Those pics of FH and you tell a story, how wonderful you 2 look together and so much in love, you are a lucky lady, no! FH is a lucky man!
    Best wishes to Ladelle for a Happy Birthday xx

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  10. Laura

    Too sweet! Happy Birthday Ladelle! I hope that the year ahead brings you peace and joy.
    Corey….your blog is authentic…that’s why we love you!
    🙂 Laura

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  11. Karen

    I’m a new follower, but I can tell you I have not felt “depression”… just an honest soul talking of real life.
    And.. who’s blog is it, anyway?
    Wonderful photos of you and your husband…
    Happy Birthday Ladelle –

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  12. Lucy

    I was thinking it was getting exceptionally interesting and hopeful lately. Funny how people interpret what they read.

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  13. Alison Gibbs

    Always love reading your blog.
    Don’t mind the hot buns though!!LOl
    Happy Birthday to Ladelle

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  14. elle

    LIfe IS what it is. . .sometimes fun and exciting and other times sobering and sad–maybe your e-mailer doesn’t understand that. At any rate, I read your blog first thing every morning and enjoy every minute of it! Not to worry Corey–we all love you!!
    Please extend my wishes for Ladelle to have a happy and blessed birthday!!
    elle

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  15. Linda C.

    You’d never want to buy a dishwasher Corey, ever,!
    Happy Birthday Ladelle.

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  16. Betty M

    Depressing?? Your blog is life and life is not a constant bowl of cherries. Atleast not where I live. Don’t change a thing.
    Happy birthday Ladelle!

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  17. Elizabeth Harper

    I have to agree with many of your commenters today,especially Gina and Lucy. I stop by your blog more for what you say than anything thing else it offers and as Lucy said, ” Funny how people interpret what they read.”
    It looks like Ladelle’s birthday is off to a fun start.

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  18. marlis

    Corey, the honesty in your blog writing is what makes it so appealing to everyone. If you portrayed life as Pollyanna, then it would be just another good read. You’ve brought us your life as it is. The good, the bad, the sad, the truth.
    Happy birthday Ladelle….
    keep the kitchen help!!

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  19. Merisi

    Happy Birthday, Ladelle!
    May the new year of life bring you many moments of delights and happiness and sweet comfort whenever you need it,
    hugs,
    Merisi

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  20. Jackie

    I never find your blog depressing. Thoughful, intelligent, contemplative, yes, but depressing? No. Please don’t change what you do.
    Add to that pictures of a FH hottie and even hotter French antiques and I’m tres happy!

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  21. Kathy

    I’m right in there with everyone else. I love reading your blog and I haven’t found it depressing at all. It truly is a slice of life. And a slice of life in France – well, that ain’t too shabby… Keep doing what you do! – Kathy

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  22. Karen

    Corey you have a true gift for writing from the heart on so many different subjects and your photographic images are treasures. These are the things that bring us back every day. Please don’t change a single thing about your approach.
    Also love the pony tail and -wow – great buns!

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  23. Karen

    I forgot to say how beautiful Ladelle is in that picture, and Happy Birthday too! I hope you can feel the support and love, Ladelle, that so many of us send you.

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  24. Rhonda P

    I think she meant “refreshing” not depressing. Birthday hugs to Ladelle! Your photos today are wonderful, feels like we are in the kitchen with you all.

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  25. joanny

    Hello Corey:
    Happy Birthday to Ladelle, and thank her for the ‘tender’ moment pictures shared between husband and wife, oh so lovely –something you would not be able to capture yourself and oh so lovely to have.
    Love always lightens the mood..a burden shared is a burden halved.
    Thank you for sharing it made my day actually..always nice to see caring loving people celebrating life.
    Joanny

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  26. Gracie

    I wouldn’t call it depressing, I would call it realistic…..love your husband hair, btw.

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  27. Sheala

    Happy Birthday to sweet Ladelle.
    Love the buns!!! I’d love to see more photos of your kitchen. Your blog is wonderful:)

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  28. Hillary

    Happy Birthday Ladelle!
    Your blog is the first one I check every morning, so I’m thinking it’s not depressing. I love every word every day. You’re take on life helps me get though mine. So Thank you Corey!!

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  29. Alison Whittington

    Your blog is beautiful, Corey. Simply beautiful.

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  30. Diane

    Corey,
    I agree with the others! Your blog is by no means depressing! Just honest and sincere and extremely astute! That’s what makes you and your blog so interesting! It about REAL life – not an edited fantasy version!
    And … Happy Birthday Ladelle!!! My thoughts are with you!

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  31. Niki

    I love that your blog is all about life. The good and the bad. That’s the way life is. Keep up the good work. You inspire me!!!

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  32. le petit cabinet de curiosites

    I don’t think your blog looks depressing , I think it looks : You are very busy !!!
    Happy birthday to Ladelle !

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  33. Cindy Hancock

    Dear Corey ~
    I don’t find your blog depressing, I think it is very beautiful, inspiring and hopeful. I love every word. Thank you for sharing elements of your life, your family, your friends and your lovely France. Sharing your heart makes this world a more beautiful place.
    God bless you~
    Cindy

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  34. 1eyedmonkee

    yeah, i’m wondering if the comment came from someone who maintains a blog. i find myself most frustrated when i start tempering what i’m thinking because of how it will be interpreted…and at that moment-it ceases to be what it started out to be. there certainly isn’t a lack of reading material out there if we if need a different kind of mood on a particular day. i like that part too. i only get angry once a day looking at the photos corey puts up!!! but the jealousy is my problem – not hers.

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  35. Jeni

    Happy Birthday Ladelle!
    As I’m sipping my cafe latte and reading your blog, I was discussing the post with my 16 year old daughter. She responded with “thats real life”, and moved over behind me to peek, and said “Is that French Husband”? He looks GOOD!! I like his sweater, and he is wearing his curly hair in a pony tail like Matthew”. (her brother Matthew). Keep doing what your doing Corey,I find lots of inspiration in your posts, and many laughs along the way! You know how to be a true blue friend!

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  36. Alena

    Brocante hell for some, brocante heaven for others… Depressing for some, most interesting for others.
    Corey you cant please us all.
    Please keep writing, keep taking pictures, keep telling stories.
    Your blog is fantastic!
    Happy birthday Ladelle (your name is so pretty).
    BTW, must say your hot buns are hot, wow.

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  37. Jeanette M.

    I just can’t say anything more than what everyone has already said. I agree with it all. I have not found any of it depressing, I find everything uplifting and full of promise. I’ll quote the Talmud here, “We do not see the world as it is, We see the world as we are”. You are always an inspiration.

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  38. Katherine Miller

    Hello Corey – A depressing blog….I think not. I read your blog everyday. It is my favorite. I also wanted to see more of the kitchen and there it is. I wondered if you were going to use that fabulous menu board. I was lusting for it and there it is. I will just have to settle for the hot buns. Take care Corey and FH and Happy Birthday Ladelle!

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  39. Evelyn

    Your Blog is REAL – that is what makes it such a great read. Please don’t change your style.

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  40. Allison

    Your husband is hot, Corey!
    Happy Birthday, Ladelle!

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  41. Darlene

    Some more thoughts to lighten your day… I am loving your and Yann’s new hair styles! You look like really hip! And young and fun!

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  42. Janell

    I wouldn’t say depressing…maybe somber. But, as some of the readers above have said-that is, indeed, life. I’m glad you share the good and the bad, the light and kind of dark. My condolences to your friend Ladelle.

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  43. g coughlin

    in every realationship there are peaks valleys and plains and to hide that fact would not be honest with us, your readers –depressing no– i think not– honest and heart felt– i say, a resounding YES!!… and i am grateful for every word…Ladelle– peace be with you and Happy Birthday –beautiful girl. g

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  44. linda marcov

    I happened to have a dear friend who lost her husband to cancer over a year ago, she commented to me how comforting your words were about death, and how they were right on as to the feelings that one has…. if you touch but one life with your words you have given to this world.and you dear girl touch many on so many levels.. life is, the joy with the sorrow, sweet with the sour… my joy with you is your fresh honest voice and I trust it each day to remain true and not be contrived in any way…. just be you.. that is more than most of us can be. love you….

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  45. Linda

    Corey, your blog is very real- I am a new blogger, but found blogging stressful when I worried about pleasing people. Now I just write about what I want to and find it very satisfying. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

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  46. Becky F

    Corey,
    Your blog is perfect, it’s true and beautiful. Don’t change anything. You can’t please everyone! I love the third picture, it speaks volumes of the love and respect you have for one another.
    Happy birthday to Ladelle, you have lots of love and prayers coming your way. Becky F

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  47. Evelyn Jackson

    Amen to all the above comments! Love those ‘hot buns!’

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  48. Marilyn

    Happy Birthday Ladelle!
    I think I will repeat what others have said.
    I love your blog, love FH’s pony tail. Beautiful pictures of the two of you.
    Sometimes I think people pick up a mood on our blogs that we didn’t realize was there; so yes it was good this person said that. It keeps us in balance.

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  49. Debra P.

    Corey, nonsense . . .the post you present each day is you at the moment, how you feel and what you want to share. I enjoy the ups and downs, that’s life, ca va? And, as we read it, we all are at different stages in life according to our circumstances and so our interpretations are all different. I enjoy my few minutes with you each morning and devour your warm reflections about this journey on which we are all on.

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  50. cynthia Wolff @Beatenheart

    Life has its ups and downs.. everyday can not be all sunshine and roses…I think the purpose of a blog is to tell about what is happening in ones life…if this commentor was bummed, there are probably a cazillion other blogs to read..
    you and your old man sure make a cute couple..
    love you Corey, your the bomb!

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  51. Lili

    Yin Yang Corey…you’ve got it going on! Love your blog and Happy Birthday Ladelle, I’m sighing over the lovely background in that shot. ~Lili

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  52. Kris

    Corey,
    Your blog, my blog, and most that I love, are photo journals of our lives. Which include joys and sorrows, ups and downs, smiles and tears. Keep on journaling the way you have been, and those of us that adore your stories shall keep adoring them. And those who feel that they need to click the mouse, may do so.
    My love to you, and to your dear friend Ladelle. And how charming to see you and your husband together, hot cross buns and all.
    Happy day to you all the way across the water!

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  53. Erin

    Like so many other readers before me, I will say-Corey, don’t change a thing! It’s YOUR blog after all, and your life and that of your friends and family and all which that encompasses. It’s beautiful, honest, funny, touching. Keep it up!

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  54. Susan

    This is your journal. Your story of life. Please continue full steam ahead as you always have.
    All my best to you and Ladelle.

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  55. Lisa

    I never think of your blog as depressing…I love that your blog is so real. Also…I love all the Brocante information. I will hopefully be in France this June to do some brocanting of my own.

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  56. Grace

    I love visiting you are warm and sweet. Do not change anything. Grace xoxo

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  57. Jai

    I love your blog as it is, please continue writing as you always have. Your love of family, friends and your zest for life shines through in every word you write. I never find it depressing, just real.
    *Hot buns indeed* 🙂

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  58. Golda

    You bring me to where you are and connect with everyday life. I too love the old, the new… Love your blog.
    Both you and French husband sizzles!! As you were Corey.

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  59. AmyKortuem

    Your blog is not and never has been depressing, Corey. It’s REAL. And that’s why I’m here every day reading it, for your sharp and sweet insights into real life and whatever comes with it. Thank you. Never change.
    And the buns? Oooh la la la la… pass the butter!

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  60. georgie

    Corey, your blog is by no means depressing. You share your life and adventures with us through good and bad times. We share our lives with you too. That is what friendship is about.
    Aww those photos gave me the warm and fuzzies.
    Happy Birthday Ladelle!

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  61. Tricia

    First, I must wish Ladelle a Happy Birthday. I am glad she is spending it with friends who love her. Second, life includes loss, which can make us depressed,but your recent blogs sound hopeful in spite of those losses. You wrote of Ladelle seeing the silver lining in things. It reminds me that no matter how dark the night, there is joy in the morning. (Or to put it another way, even in our mourning we can find joy in memories of those we have lost.

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  62. wendy b.

    its funny how when we are hit with a critique that sits right on an insecure/negatuve moment or creates one, we jump all over it. rarely do we embrace the happy ones with the same questions. there are oodles of people begging for more of the adventures of corey all over the world. for each one that writes, there are multiples more reading quietly. please keep on being the most refreshing author and photographer that you are!
    perhaps, next time when you pose at the edge of a brocante… you might snap a few pics inside.. for the visually greedy? i keep waiting for your vision of what lies within. I REALLY want to know what you see in the rough and what you sift through to get to that yummy moment of camera clicking.
    and thank you ladelle for sharing your life through the life lens of corey. many happy returns on your birthday and wishes for many more to follow.
    xow.

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  63. Tricia

    Just a little side note. I am glad your reader wrote to you of this, as it led to this blog and the great pictures of you and FH and of Ladelle. I love these pictures as they help me “see” the whole picture of the life you blog about. Love your blog. Love the love I see between you and your family and friends.

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  64. shannon in oregon

    happy birthday to ladelle!!

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  65. Nancy

    The only thing depressing about your blog is that I am not in your shoes…. sigh… please don’t change a thing!
    (P.S. Happy Birthday Ladelle… great photos, beautiful smile)

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  66. Michelle M in KY

    Dear Corey…
    First – HAPPY BIRTHDAY LADELLE!
    Secondly…truly, it is no one’s business what you decide to write about, you already know that. We seem to talk about things that are going on in our lives at the moment & right now, you are helping & comforting a friend who is in mourning. This brings up old feelings of mourning, depression, guilt for yourself & it’s normal that you would want to express that on your blog. It’s life and it’s reflective and all of us are in it together. No one can be “up” & cheerful everyday. Your blog would not be honest if you did not include the “off” times. Personally, I love your blog (everyday). I will continue to show up to read and remind you that I love what you have brought into my life. Thanks Corey!

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  67. Patt

    Joyeoux Anniversaire Ladelle! It looks like you have the seat with the best view in the house. Those photo’s are priceless as is your friendship with Corey. You are both blessed.

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  68. meppyBN

    Birthday blessings to you, Ladelle, I’m sure it must be hard for you to be joyful today but you are in sweet company 🙂 Love your birthday ‘cake’!! Corey, I echo all the above comments ….stay as you are led….your perceptions on this journey called LIFE are real and honest….

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  69. Star

    It’s like life–not filled will all happiness or all sadness; there is a mixture of both.
    Thank you for sharing all the things you share with us, Corey. Knowing that you share both the good and the bad make this a blog home where a real person shares rather than just another Stepford blog. I’ve so enjoyed getting to know Shelley and Annie and now, Ladelle. It makes our lives richer to share with other.
    Thanks for sharing your “hot buns” with us today! 🙂

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  70. Sharon

    I don’t think your blog has been too depressing. You just express the truth’s in life; joy, sadness, life, death, chocolate,
    antiques, beauty, dusty…etc

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  71. Jenny N

    Happy Birthday Ladelle and thank you for the sweet, fun, intimate pics of our dear Corey and her loving French Hubby. What a “sweet” birthday feast. I appreciate you letting Corey share this time y’all are spending together in fellowship. I read Corey’s blog because of her heart whether it is for brocante, husband, bebes, friends or France. And Corey…depressing…it hadn’t even occured to me but I am thankful that the e-mail produced such a delightful post. Thank you always.

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  72. Laura

    Ladelle,
    May this year bring you joy and wonder. Happy Birthday!

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  73. Sara

    I love your brilliant blog. And I am adoring the pix of you and FH. Absolute cuteness. And Happy Birthday to your dear Ladelle!

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  74. Sally

    Corey
    Your blog gives a sense of community and with you we encounter life’s interesting moments. you make me laugh, you make me remember, you make me feel that I am not the only one. On the other side of the world, you are my breakfast blog and I enjoy starting the day with your sweet and funny stories.
    happy birthday, Ladelle. Thank you too, for sharing photos of your time with Corey.
    hugs to you both

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  75. Tracy

    I’ve just discovered your blog and I think it is wonderful. A good mix of real life stuff. Glad to see Ladelle smiling on her birthday. I think you are a very special person Corey put on this earth for purposes beyond your comprehension. In fact lately with your posts about Ladelle’s loss and all the wonderful people with dark cancer, it makes me feel really grateful for my family and health. Some days we dance, and some days we rest our hearts. You’re a wonderful friend. PS. Did you buy “french hot buns” that new sweater for your birthday? You’re a gem.

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  76. Jenna

    Ladelle looks radiant, and the two of you don’t look so bad yourselves. Your blog isn’t depressing, it is a mixture of what you are feeling and going through. Real life isn’t all happiness and light. There are dark days too, they help us treasure the good ones.
    Happy Birthday Ladelle!

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  77. Christy

    I enjoy your blog for many reasons, but one reason I come back to it again and again is that your blog is something I can relate to with all of its ups and downs. It seems to me that your blog is a true reflection of your daily life! Don’t change a thing, but pics of you and FH are very cute!

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  78. helene

    Wow. That entry brought forth many comments! I wlll add: I had never read a blog until I encountered yours 2 months ago. Now, I look forward to starting my day absorbing your photos, your style and most of all your wisdom. You speak straight from the heart and it is clear your heart is that of a wise soul. How do you think that wisdom grew? Was it your early, formative years in a monastery; was it your courage to leap into life in an unfamiliar places that called forth daily flexibility; was it your bout with cancer at such a young age; was it being a loving wife and mother? All of those aspects of life are the teachers who help us live and grow if we are willing to pay attention and absorb the lessons. There is nothing depressing about life as it is lived, maybe only the choice to see it in depressing light.
    You are definitely on the right path. Continue all the sharing of images, ideas, insights, friendship and love in your clear, sweet, strong voice.
    Happy Birthday, Ladelle. Thank you for sharing your photos as your sense of humor and good will shows clearly through your pain. Time and loving friendship help to endure the pain, move through it and emerge with love in our hearts.

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  79. Leslie

    Don’t change a thing………….

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  80. Rebecca in the Pacific Northwest

    Yeah, what everybody else just said.
    For the record, I just sent links of several of your blogs to friends recently. I found them deep and lovely.
    and boy oh boy, am I glad that I have my Pacific Northwest Husband to grab my buns in the kitchen and be sweet to me. Or else I’d be sorely jealous. (It’s fun having casual photos OF you, Corey, instead of solely BY you.)
    Ladelle, this is a unique birthday of birthdays. Walk in it, and keep walking. Some lovely friends are by your side.

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  81. Rebecca in the Pacific Northwest

    PS. I like the birthday candles in whatever-those-pastries-are. What all is that? yum.

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  82. Patricia Ginda

    Corey, I found your blog shortly after your father died and read back though all your posts relating to that time. You have inspired me and I read you most every day! I do not find your blog depressing at all, everything in life isn’t happiness and light and your blog is about life…your life in France…your life, not anyone else. So please keep writing, it makes my day brighter. Thank you, Pat
    p.s. French husband does have nice buns :-)!

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  83. Mmd. Tortoise

    Dearest Corey…………your blog expresses who you are in a most beautiful way. Your love of life, sense of aesthetics, kind nature, depth of feeling and love of family have made me feel as though I have a new friend which is worth it’s weight in gold. You are an old soul who continues to touch something in each of us. I take note of everything you write. Dear Ladelle…You are in my thoughts;may you have a special day with your precious friends. Happy Birthday to you.

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  84. splendid

    dear corey,
    as a long time reader and fan i will say that i have found your posts over the last few weeks mild and a little blue, BUT i think it is that time of the year. i agree with everyone else about you being real and true. the best part of reading you everyday is the surprise…
    we love most that you share yourself with us everyday, THANKS!

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  85. carol

    Corey, what are those things lined up against the back of the counter (to your right)in the picture where FH has his hand on your bum? Also I have never found your blog depressing even when you were with your dad and dealing with his failing health. It’s just life, we all have to deal with it and it helps to see you dealing with it successfully!!

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  86. Amy Dusek

    I like your realness. Life isn’t pretty all the time. I wouldn’t change a thing.

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  87. Suzan

    Corey,
    Blogs although very public, are also at their core very personal. No one person has the right or should tell the blog master what he/she should or shouldn’t write about. I would seriously question the motive behind such a statement and then promptly ignore it.
    I was warned yesterday that my mention of America’s issue of health reform in a post was dangerous and that I should be careful. I found the warning to be very politically motivated even though my statement was politically neutral.
    A reader chooses to go to a blog and can just as easily choose not to. We are not giant billboards flaunting our thoughts where they cannot be avoided.
    Corey, Please do not ever change your thoughts or your feelings to suit one, or many. Your blog is about you and those of us who follow you are along for YOUR ride with it’s bumps and valleys.
    Blogs without truth are dull, lifeless. Keep true, and your life blossoms with vitality and interest to us all.
    Suzan

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  88. Charlotte

    This post makes me weep…but in a good way. At the end, that smile on Ladelle’s face got to me. I have found your posts on death, grief, and life after death to be very soulful. Very sensitive and insightful on coping after a heavy loss. I have read them and thought “Remembering this will help me deal with what is surely to come.” So, I say, THANK YOU.

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  89. Cheryl

    Life is what it is…filled with happiness and filled with sorrow. But if you can share the day with a friend…
    xo,
    Cheryl
    ps. who needs a handyman when you have a “handy” man 😉

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  90. Debra

    I love your blog no matter what it is about. Some times life is sad. We all know that. You just keep it very real and I think that, that may be one of the many reasons why people love you so much:) Just keep doing what your doing. Only you can do it so well:)
    ~Debra
    Blog: Capers of the vintage vixens

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  91. Kelly

    Happy Birthday Ladelle!!..great pics… blogs go through phases….of highs and lows of being silly to really deep but thats what makes them great…it shows how we all are human….

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  92. kelly

    Your blog isn’t depressing only real, honest and true, which is the best thing that a blog can be.
    Happy Happy Birthday, Ladelle!

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  93. Judy

    Dear Corey,
    We love you and Tongue in Cheek for you reflect life and all its facets back to us in a most wondrous way. I am reminded of these lines from Lee Ann Womack’s song: “And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance…I hope you dance.”
    You keep dancing Corey, and we shall follow!
    Blessings to Ladelle today.
    With love to you both, Judy

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  94. Nancy ~ Fete et Fleur

    I have no idea what that person is talking about. Your posts depressing? I think not!!
    Nancy

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  95. Franca Bollo

    Who’s the old woman with the ponytail?

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  96. Dinah Soar

    I’ve been reading your blog for a couple of years now and LOVE it..I never find it depressing. In fact I find it totally refreshing because you are you…a breath of fresh air. I can imagine myself as one of your friends.
    I guess it is good to consider the input of others–you want their honesty–but you must be true to yourself at the same time. Do you please yourself or do you please others?
    Only you can wisely answer– given each individual circumstance. But always you must be true to yourself. Follow your bliss, and if others follow fine–those who don’t, well that is fine too..let them go their way, bid them farewell cheerfully hoping they find their own bliss and leave you to yours.
    Your blog is a blessing and an inspiration to multitudes, but you cannot cater to your following without risking losing yourself and in the process the uniqueness of your blog.
    Said all that to say: You be YOU.

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  97. Miss Robyn

    Corey, I am a long, long time reader of your blog.. one of the very first, remember? and never, ever have I thought your words were depressing. each and every word came from the heart.
    the past few days, were sad, yes.. but in no way detracted from a thing.. more so, they were showing us how warm and beautiful your soul is, in supporting a friend through a tough time in her life (and a happy birthday to Ladelle xo)
    I often get emails from people telling me my blog is depressing (and it does upset me)… but what I think is that our way of writing can sometime touch a nerve in somepeople and that makes them squirm and be uncomfortable, so they lash out at the one who did this..
    forget whoever it was, not important in the gorgeous scheme that is Tongue in Cheek, Coreys life xoxo

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  98. Natalie Thiele

    You and French Husband look so darling together. Grey seems to be a great color for you two to wear as well as cover your walls with. Sets off old silver and china too. Even your pretty friend Ladelle got into the grey spirit.
    Happy birthday, Ladelle!
    PS You chronicle life as you see and live it, that’s what attracts your enormous group of faithful readers. (That and the pictures of FH, that is.)

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  99. herhimnbryn

    Never depressing…always joyful, life enhancing and thought provoking.
    Wonderful images. Contact in the kitchen..rock on!

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  100. Barbara

    Hot buns indeed!!!

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  101. Gina L

    I think you and your blog both have integrity, you share the seasons and dimensions of your life. Please don’t ever change. A few other words come to mind ~ Beautiful ~ Introspective ~ Depth-ful ~ Whimsical ~ Adventurous & Creative.

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  102. Angela Hilton

    I find your blog refreshing, honest and true. I love how your photos tell a story too.
    😉
    Give your friend hug for me and tell your friend “Happy Birthday!”
    We share the same birth day ~

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  103. Delores

    You know what? Life can be depressing. Thank God we have blogs to write about it and then move on to something else, like hot buns in the kitchen!

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  104. Christan

    Life is not always rainbows and butterflies. I like how you talk about everything and anything 🙂
    Happy birthday to Ladelle!

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  105. Shannon

    I would never tell anyone what to write in their blog. That would be like coming into someone else’s home and start telling them that they don’t like how their house is decorated. And then go on to tell the home owner how to decorate their house.
    Your blog is a chronical of all that is going through your mind. I love it because it tells me all about you. And I come to it because I’m drawn to your life and interests.
    A blog isn’t designed to be written according to what the readers want. They can write their own blogs.

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  106. Lorelei

    Corey, I’ve had such a chuckle today!! I read Hot Buns and was thinking of Hot Cross Buns (during Lent) but your Hot Buns were certainly more interesting!!! Happy Birthday, Ladelle. And Corey, I think your blog expresses the feelings and thoughts of we women who are in their 50’s and the many seasons of our lives. The rollecoaster ride we call Life. Thank you for sharing on a daily basis.

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  107. Theresa

    I read your blog often but don’t comment too often. I must say if your blog was doom and gloom you would not have so many followers. Life is not always a bowl of cherries. Your blog is real and full of so many great stories. You and your husband are the cutest. Keep doing what you do!

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  108. Marci

    I don’t find your blog depressing. It is the stuff of life. Your like a neighbor to me.

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  109. Leanne

    Oh my what a gorgeous couple. Love the length of your bob now and French Husband’s ponytail. (Australian guys could just not wear it so attractively as a french man in my opinion). The chemistry between you two sizzles.
    While I don’t usually comment (my comments seem too piffly after your delightful words)on your blog I read it faithfully everyday. I laugh, I cry and I smile as you share your life with us. Depressing? No. Insightful and giving? Yes. Thank you for your generosity in allowing us into your life.

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  110. Leanne

    Oh and happy birthday Ladelle! Take care.

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  111. Mindi

    Love your blog!

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  112. Rhonda

    I will have it any which way it comes, happy, sad, exciting, brocanting, thats life and I love your blog just as it is. I have been away for a few weeks and have enjoyed reading everything to catch up. Happy Birthday Ladelle and thanks for your lovely photo’s of the gorgeous couple. xxx

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  113. rita darnell

    funny that your post is about your blog’s content. i just sat down with a bowl of berries after a hard day at work and logged into a young widow’s blog that just breaks my heart when i read her posts. and i decided not to spend much time there tonight, instead i thought to myself, “i will go over to corey’s blog…i need a little lift and a good laugh”. (pinky promise!! that was my thought!) i love your day to day adventures and i would not change a thing. i did enjoy your hot bun shots by your sweet friend!! it made me chuckle. happy birthday Ladell! i hope you had a great day! thanks for the lift, Corey!

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  114. Dorian Fletcher

    Dear Corey,
    I have been out of the blogging loop for quite awhile, though your blog continues to be one that I read daily. As is true with most of your readers, I feel that your are a friend that I’ve yet to meet. I never find your entries depressing – we have all had times that are hard to bear – so don’t take the comment to heart.

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  115. Suz

    Too funny, Corey. You are always keeping it real. Thanks!!

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  116. Ellen Cassilly

    It’s not depressing. It’s life.

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  117. Heather

    Corey – You bring a smile to my face more often than I could possibly recount. So THANK YOU. You are so unique and honest and lovely and generous. Shame on anyone who would dampen whatever state your spirit is in… I appreciate that what you share isn’t always light and easy. And your humor is magic. Keep on!

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  118. Shelley Etchepare

    Corey,
    First of all I love Yanns ponytail (dont cut it Yann). And second of all your not boring, I dont know where that is coming from. I loved your writing in Mr.Weavers class and I still like it now… Hope to see you soon.Garet says Hi…

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  119. Judy

    I am a faithful reader of your blog–the only one I read every day because your writing is beautiful,humorous,thought provoking and just downright enjoyable! Love it! Judy

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  120. Lily

    LOL! Corey, you crack me up! ; P

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  121. Elaine L.

    I hadn’t thought that your blog had gotten depressing, more like serious.
    I do have to admit that this is the first time I’ve posted here, for a while. I didn’t have the energy to take the time to make any thought provoking comments, which seems like what would have been appropriate.
    I do love the lightness of this post and can NEVER get tired of pics of FH. You must have your work cut out for you, keeping his feet on the ground. LOL
    ~elaine~

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  122. jend’isère

    To repeat my comment of yesterday, it is wonderful to see people who love what they do and who they are with. Very vibrant blog, continue as you are, please.

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  123. Katiebell

    Oh corey I LOVE the depth of your blog, and it is your blog, you let it be what you wish – dont try to please us 🙂
    Happy birthday radiant Ladelle!
    When it does raise hard stuff your blog is always, powerful, positive, profound and transformative. I think we need more of this in our lives.
    seeing you the beautiful couple but a smile on my dail (face) and gave me hope 🙂
    As reading your blog ALWAYS does.
    Love it, just as it is.

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  124. Catalina

    People have right to think what the think…
    To me this is the most enlightened blog ever!
    because your inner light go through whatever topic you address, even sad and difficult ones.
    I feel sometimes as your brother…. 😉 but not always because your pictures are SO inspiring and beautiful!!!! I wish you were a neighbord, please, please come for a cup ot tea!
    xoxo

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  125. Julie W.

    (Hope this is not a duplicate. Having trouble getting it to post.)
    How sweet of Ladelle to capture the tenderness between you and your dear FH. Evidently she also has an eye for a good shot. She is blessed to celebrate this significant birthday with wonderful friends.
    Happy Birthday Ladelle, and thanks for the fun pix.
    I agree with FH that it is nice that your emailer felt she could share her opinion with you, Corey. I also think it is nice that a hundred twenty-something of us felt that we could also share OUR opinions! (makes me smile) Now, YOU get to take them and do as you like. It is YOUR blog. IMHO, if you had not shared the valleys as well as the peaks, we would not have been uplifted and inspired by the courage, compassion, and resilience displayed by you, your family, and friends.I am grateful.
    By-the-way, that strange idea your brother has about “brocante hell” is really messed up.Please continue to take us along on your brocante adventures. The nightly vicarious visit to France would not be the same without the antiquaires, broncantes, vides-greniers, and marches aux puces.
    One last thing I must say Corey,(with my tongue firmly planted in my cheek)there IS one depressing thing about your blog. Each time I am smitten by an object of desire in your shop I click the “buy it now” button only to see the red letters “SOLD OUT”! Hmmm, now this is a problem worth fixing. Maybe FH has an idea. Please advise.
    Thanks for sharing your life Corey. I once saw a sign that said, “There are no strangers, only friends we have not met.”~you are one of those to me~.
    Je t’embrasse,
    Julie W.

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  126. Carol

    Happy Birthday, Ladelle!
    Corey, I love everything you write!

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  127. Terri

    So, I pull up your blog and see the photo of French Husband and you and underneath the title, “Hot Buns and Enlightenment”. And I had to ask myself, “Now which one has the hot buns and which one is enlightened?” LOL
    I like your blog. Happy or not so much. It’s real and kind and your photos are lovely.

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  128. pmfoss

    I am a newbie and I love, love, love your blog!! Positive or negative, it’s real!

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  129. anne

    I am in agreement with everyone here.. I love your blog, and sometimes you have to write what is in your thoughts at the time.
    Happy Birthday to Ladelle, your lovely friend. Well done to her too, for taking those photos 🙂

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  130. Cherie

    Oh Corey please don’t change! Please don’t take the opinion of one compared to the all the dedicated regular readers you have. Generously bringing us the highs, lows, fun and facts of everyday life is the format that keeps us returning and loving you over and over!
    Please stay exactly as you are … please keep checking those buns!
    Wish Ladelle a Happy Happy Birthday from me in Sydney, Australia. xo

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  131. kennedymf@shaw.ca

    love your daily blogs.. it’s like chatting to you!! interesting that you refer to your hubby as French husband!! with St Patrick’s Day coming quickly I think I will start calling my hubby who is Irish “Irish Husband”! It sort of has a nice ring to it! LOL Hugs from Canada

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  132. Diana

    OMG…..you are life! What a way to look in and share your life. To feel connected!
    Please let it go what one honest or whatever…blogger says.
    You are real, thank goodness Ladelle has someone like you to share and to heal with!

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  133. sabel

    Just keep doing what you’re doing. A Blog can so so organic, and the conversation here is so special.

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  134. timeworninteriors

    What a sweet, tender moment!
    Are you coming to Marburger in the spring? Hope so I would love to see you again!
    Theresa

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  135. Cecelia

    I say Shame on the person who had the NERVE to write and rebuke you! It is your honesty and such ‘life moment’ comments that keep me coming back to your blog. Keep writing just as you do and IGNORE such a small hearted person. It is YOUR blog and she should write her own follow what I Mother always said: “If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all” I am a huge fan.

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  136. notastepfordwife

    Brocante Hell PLEASE !

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  137. Tamara Giselle

    Dear Corey,
    I read what FH had to say on the subject of a critical email with a French accent.
    (this added a little lightheartedness 🙂
    I think your husband is an EXTREMELY WISE man. You are a very blessed woman.
    It is also a sign of wise woman who does not hide or shun criticism.
    Albeit definitely not my opinion – life isn’t all sunny, smiles and rainbows – there is a little dust and cobwebs too, especially if you Brocante. ha! That is what I have always loved about your blog. It oozes truth. And LOVE.
    Sending some USA love your way.
    Tamara (Giselle)

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  138. slovich

    You two are too cute!

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  139. cathi

    What I love about this blog world – is honesty…life is not all rosy at times and I love when people write how they are really feeling – happy, sad, mad about brocantes…it’s real, it’s life…I so enjoy reading your blog, so keep writing whatever you wish. Love the pictures above of you and your husband – you both are adorable! xxoo 🙂

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  140. cathi

    P.S. I forgot to wish your lovely friend Ladelle a very happy birthday! 🙂

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  141. Jennifer

    One of the things I love about your blog is that it is an account of a life: good; bad; sorrow; cheer; joy. Life is all that, a complex tapestry. So do not edit, continue your journey as oftentimes your audience is traveling parallel lines and personally, I find great comfort in what you share.
    The second thing that struck me is Yann’s reaction to the comment. It was great and (I believe it) is uniquely French. I have the French Boy Friend (acquired prior to following Tongue in Cheek) who is a black foot and who is also a Breton, by way of his father. He has at times given me a unique perspective when I have pensively considered something in life. It is a gift. Bravo Yann!
    Your photos are always so beautiful, and today’s were especially so. My heart goes out to your friend Ladelle, that she may heal. Bisous!

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  142. Gwen

    Corey….late to the discussion but I have to agree that your blog is like a conversation with a dear friend. What some people should learn, “if you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all.” Or as some of us Southern gals have to admit to is “if you can’t say anything nice, come sit by me” (Steel Magnolias). But truthfully, a Steel Magnolia is a very strong women….are you sure your not from the south?
    Happy Birthday, Ladelle!

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  143. Rebecca from the Pacific Northwest

    I’m hoping that the person who wrote to you (that the blog was depressing, that you needed to lighten up) isn’t feeling too ganged up on now.
    Even though I agree with all the others, and love the depth of your sharing.

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  144. My Casa Bella

    I’ve enjoyed reading your blog for some time now. Not sure I would call some of it depressing, but, I am impressed that you have considered that persons comment and talked it over with your FH, and that you discussed it on this post. You could of taken offense or you could care less of what people think, in the end what matters most is how you feel, what you feel like writing, how you want to express yourself. I love blogs and having my own because you can write whatever you’d like. Just be yourself.

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  145. Nora

    Happy birthday Ladelle. x
    [Corey, you and FH are sooooo cool! These photos made me smile.]

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  146. Robyn

    Hi Corey this is Robyn, Ladelle’s daughter. Thinking of you guys and how jealous of my mom I am because she is in France! Please tell her I wish her Happy Birthday! I love your blog by the way and I will be a follower!

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  147. carol

    Late to the comment – You must write what you feel…. Your blog inspires me, but maybe the reader needed something light at this point in her life. Looks like you married your best friend.:) Your husband has a good viewpoint about the situation.
    Ladelle is beautiful! Happy Late Birthday wishes to her!

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  148. Rachel

    I guess I can see where that person is coming from in that your posts have been serious topics, but as a new reader i can say that they have not turned me away and if anything they have drawn me in. Your insightful musings on difficult life situations are meaningful and relatable. I actually thought to myself that Ladelle is a lucky woman despite terrible circumstances to have such an understanding friend.
    Happy Birthday Ladelle! May life bring you only happier tomorrows and my thoughts are with you

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  149. Boxwood Cottage

    Ha ha I think your blog is as far from being depressing as can be! It wasn’t even depressing when you lost your dad, it was sad yes but never depressing.
    Corey in fact I think that your blog is the happiest blog I know! No one can make me laugh as hard as you can with your great sense of humor!
    Belated happy birthday wishes to Ladelle!
    Warmest wishes sends your “old friend”
    Carola
    (who is always following your adventures!)
    xoxo

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