The Girl with a Rose

 

Girl-with-a-rose

A girl with a rose pinned to her hat.
My favorite postcard.
It is her eyes that take me in.
Who was she?
The postcard is French, though the image credit says the girl is English.
A signature is barely a clue.
Is she still alive?
Whatever became of the girl with the rose pinned to her hat?

French-monogrammed-sheets

At the brocante, at the same stand with the postcard, a few sheets were piled on the table.
Richly detailed monograms with handmade lace edges… I studied the intricacies, traced the monogram with my finger.
The dealer asked me, "Do you know why the bedsheets are elaborate?"
I understood that she wasn't asking me, rather it was a way to introduce me to something she knew.
I shook my head no.
She said, "Sheets like this were made for the birthing bed. It was part of a young woman's trousseau. Since birthing was at home, after the baby was born the bed was stripped clean. Then the lovely handiwork was spread out: Sheets with lace and large monograms, pillow shams to match… when the new mother and child received their guests in the bedroom, the bedsheets showed them off proudly.

I often wondered why these sorts of sheets seemed hardly worn, often in perfect condition… they were simply not used on a everyday base, they were used only for receiving guests into the bedroom.

Rose-dreams

Did the girl with the rose pinned to her hat fall in love… if these bedsheets were used for the birth occasion, were they also used or were others made for the marriage bed?

I imagine that years ago, under the linen sheet, she was with the man she loved. He held
her through the night as their baby sucked from her breast. I wonder did she trace the monogram with her finger, then gently pull the lace trim around her baby's face?

Blue-egg

Thank you for the stories you added yesterday. I appreciated everyone of them. Happy Anniversary Patt. I hope you man is feeling better Amanda, and what girl doesn't remember going to buy her first bra! If I hadn't picked the winners randomly I would have given the card to your daughter Alena.
The random winners of yesterday's offering of the nineteen century postcards are:

Marilyn: The Hair-do Maiden.

Holly Montford: The Pink Thing.

Elaine L.: The Easter Bunny Man

Paula: The Easter Egg with Ribbon.

Pam: The Backdrop.

Jen: The Easter Egg Bra

(Please send me your addresses by email.)

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Later Note:

A blog reader of Tongue in Cheek wrote in the comment section:

"Dear Corey,

The lovely girl with the rose hat in your
postcard was actually a young Gladys Cooper – a very famous English
Edwardian actress. I've actually started to collect photo postcards of
her, and I guess they were all the rage early in the 20th century. She
actually had a long career, and had 3 children (2 girls and a boy). She
is often pictured with the children in postcards – especially her
eldest daughter, Joan. Joan appeared on stage as well, from a young
age.

-Karen"

Thank you Karen!



Comments

24 responses to “The Girl with a Rose”

  1. Julienne

    Love those birthing sheets will now have to look out for them.

  2. nice story, Corey. the bed sheets are so beautiful. hope i can buy some as these at brocante-s in Paris this may.

  3. jend’isère

    Photos sent to me of a newborn in hospital in India wrapped in colored sheets and patterned blankets were so glorious. Such brightness compared to those newborns propped with mother in vinyl chairs and drab sheets surrounded by hospital machines and tubes. Thanks for showing us those lovely sheets in which prephotography parents proudly wrapped their bundles of joy.

  4. Everything you share with us is fabulous
    birth and marriage two glimpses of Heaven in our lives.
    I love you
    Jeanne♥

  5. lifeonthecutoff

    Oh, how I wish I had a set of these right now for my daughter, whose newborn baby I just changed for the first time a few minutes ago. Baby and parents are once again asleep and here is this lovely post at just the right time.

  6. Karen B.

    Dear Corey – Loved your post today, as I love all of them. I absolutely love your blog – the words and lovely photos and loads of brocante treasures now start my day, everyday! The lovely girl with the rose hat in your postcard was actually a young Gladys Cooper – a very famous English Edwardian actress. I’ve actually started to collect photo postcards of her, and I guess they were all the rage early in the 20th century. She actually had a long career, and had 3 children (2 girls and a boy). She is often pictured with the children in postcards – especially her eldest daughter, Joan. Joan appeared on stage as well, from a young age. Gladys always looks lovely and serene in her photos. At some point I will try to scan some of my other postcards of Gladys and send them to you (technically-challenged person that I am). Thanks again for all the inspiration that your blog provides (and for the wonderful treasures in your shop!). -Karen

  7. Another thing I LOVE about your blog: I learn so much!
    Thank you Corey.
    Thank you commenters.

  8. I can’t believe Karen B. KNEW who the woman was. Astonishing! I think I am about to become fascniated with Miss Cooper. I hope we will get to see Karen’s postcard collection of her.
    THAT’S why those sheets are always like new! More fascination. I’m going to be looking for them now, and possibly asking the dealers if they know the story of the sheets…he he.

  9. Those sheets are glorious! I used to have embroidered and lace-trimmed sheets when I was in college. I ironed them obsessively and used them until they wore thin. Now I sleep only in cotton flannel, all year. It’s easier now that life has gotten busier!

  10. Love the sheets. Guess it is time to start embroidering beautiful things again. The last item was a challenge. My daughter satin brocade wedding cape for her winter wedding. The cape was lined and floor length, with a very large M emb. on the back with flowers and such. It was a labor of love and oh so pretty. It is now packed away for the next M marriage. (btw…my daughter was a Morrison and married a Miller.)

  11. Linda C.

    Thank you Corey.

  12. The sheets are beautiful. I did bring home two beautiful sheets from France that actually had my monogram on them. We love sleeping under them. And I love seeing them hanging on my clothes line.
    I am so excited to win the hair-do girl postcard. Thanks so much! It will be a very special postcard added to my postcard collection.

  13. I am very thankful to Maggie for providing the link to your gorgeous blog! Something about crisp white embroidered cotton, be it sheets or pillow cases or a beautiful nightgown, have always given me a thrill. Years ago my Dutch mother-in-law hand embroidered sheets for my first baby’s bassinet. I have kept these and they are as beautiful as they were the day she gave them to me.
    I think I could read you all day, but I am inspired now to write my own post about beloved things.

  14. exceptional sheets… I collect postcards and had to go and look at a album I bought in England of all actresses…No Gladys Cooper…but alot of other fine looking ladies…I love the old cards especially ones with the writing on them…Thanks again Corey for the lovely post..

  15. Karen B., you’re right!
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gladys_Cooper
    BTW, did you know that Dame Gladys’ daughter was married to famed British actor Robert Morley — best remembered by Americans in his later years for his witty BOAC (British Airways) TV commercials, although he was in so many famous movies over a very long career:
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Morley

  16. What a wonderful story, so romantic, I love monograms.

  17. Lovely. Words woven into such beautiful stories.

  18. She is so haunting ..lovely. I wonder what she was thinking.

  19. The woman with the rose looks so calm…who’d have guessed that she led such an illustrious life…and did she rest on monogrammed sheets? I think so.

  20. Elaine L.

    Wow! I can’t believe I won something.
    How fun!
    Thanks, Corey.
    ~elaine~

  21. Elaine L.

    What a lovely and gentle time. I can imagine a young mother with French-braided hair cradling a baby with rose bud lips.
    ~elaine~

  22. jend’isère

    Too many photographs remain anonomous. Merci Karen for identifying her.

  23. Corey and Marilyn, The hairdo maiden surely is a friend of mine, but she is only 19 years old! Shelby Mae Walker, I posted the picture on her facebook page and she replied “OH I thought that was me!” Take a look just for fun… Kathy

  24. While living in Germany and going to the market in Tongeren, Belgium, I did often see these sheets….now all the embroidery work and effort makes sense. Thanks Corey!

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