How to Die in Style

Annie

Annie's story continues:

Walking home from Annie's house I traced back over her story: Where she was born, why they left Greece, arriving by boat to Marseille with the icon in one hand and the sewing machine in the other, heading out to live in the countryside, then after several years moving to Marseille… it was at this point I wondered why did they move back to Marseille, especially when Annie's mother didn't want to live there in the first place?

I turned around, walked back to Annie's house, tapped on her window and asked, "Hey Annie, why did your family move to Marseille? I thought your Mother didn't want you to be fish monger?"

Moving aside the geranium plants she leaned on the window sill as she continued her story, "My Mother, oh what a strong character she was! My oldest sister was very bright, she was the smartest in the class. It use to be in those days that the smartest in the class would have a certificate and with this certificate you could have special privileges. The other mothers became jealous of the "foreigner" who received special treatment. They even went as fas as asking the School Director why the "Greek Girl" received the newer books, while their children from the village had the older ones? The School Director told them, "The Greek Girl is the smartest, and with that honor comes special treatment, hence the new books.

I was the third oldest child, we moved when I was ten, because my Mother wanted us to have a better education. Most of the children from the village stayed and worked in the tile factories…." Annie looked over my shoulder towards the factory's brick chimneys that remain in our village, I thought she was being carried away with a memory, but when I turned around I saw Annie's friend Georgette walking towards us.

As it is in France, it is customary to give a kiss on both cheeks when greeting people you know well. Annie waved her friend into the house, since leaning over and kissing her would be too difficult. Before entering Annie's house I shook Georgette's hand, I know her but not well enough to give a kiss let alone say, "Tu".

Georgette and Annie kissed and exchanged polite greetings. Georgette had a new skirt, Annie admired it then said to Georgette, "I have a new dress that I bought with Corey. But I think it is too short for my age." Georgette waved her hand in the air as if to say, "Nonsense" then added, "At our age who cares?" Georgette is 89 years old.

Annie narrowed her eyes, pulling her chin back in and said, "Well I do!" Georgette laughed. Then they both laughed. Georgette asked Annie, "Isn't it funny how at our age everyone wants to know our secret? Honestly, it seems I am asked that everyday by someone." Annie replied, "Well what do you say?" Georgette shrugged, "Luck. What do you say Annie?"

Annie sat up straight and said, "Faith!"

Georgette leaned in, teasingly tapped Annie's knee, "Annie, Annie! Just because you believe in God you think you live longer?"

"No, but because I have faith it has helped me ease over the rough patches. I am an easy going person because I believe someone is in charge, I trust that. You know Georgette, I can give up many things if I had too in order to live healthier or in harmony… but I could never give up my faith, nor fruit." with that Annie laughed, and laughed, "You didn't see the fruit thing coming did you?" She laughed again. "I couldn't live without fruit!"

Georgette shook her head in disbelief. 

"You know Georgette, Corey blessed Mr. Porte's coffin with Tomatoes, Green Beans, Cherries and Figs, instead of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit. By the way when I die I want Pavarotti's Ave Maria to play in the church. Corey will you bless my coffin like you did Mr. Porte's?"

"Annie, I'll make you a bouquet of fruit flowers too, and make sure your dress covers your knees."

With that Annie slapped her knee, "Can you imagine that… everyone eating fruit at my funeral!"

To be continued…..



Comments

42 responses to “How to Die in Style”

  1. Corey, would you please give Annie a big hug for me?

  2. Oh how I miss her and cooking in her kitchen…..kiss her for me and tell her to make you go pick my figs 🙂

  3. How wonderful, Corey…Annie’s stories make me think of my two octogenarian neighbors. One is a tall elegant first generation French American, the other is a petite little Italian war bride who met her Italian American husband whilst she was working in a department store in Roma. She has no idea as to how beautiful she is and still speaks as if she arrived in the States this very week. These lovely ladies, Protestant and Catholic, still live on their own…next door to each other, and unlike so many of our neighbors, they walk to the post office year round…including during our icy-snowy stormy winters.
    God bless them! God bless Annie & Georgette!
    : )
    Julie M.

  4. I hope that day does not come any time soon….

  5. I am right there with Annie… fruit…bless me with good ripe peaches, and sweet red watermelon, and fat juicy strawberries… and big fat cherries… oh the list goes on.. but the thing that keeps Annie, and anyone else her age alive is that they are LIVING!!!! laughing, sharing, and giving joy and expressing joy each day.. just as you are Corey. You too will be an old lady, a beautiful old lady! Love Linda

  6. littlebadwolf

    Annie and Georgette are better than tv!
    And I think if I wake up dead and have to make a funeral, I will fill my grandmother’s pinwheel pressed glass punchbowl (1904) with fruit for everyone.
    Lovely and fun. m

  7. What a beautiful story…these two lovely ladies remind me of my own parents and in laws…who are 88 and 90! They have a strong faith and therefore are not afraid… and they laugh a lot each and every day!

  8. So sweet! More please.

  9. Your stories of Annie – sometimes hard to wait to hear the conclusion. Rather like waiting for fruit to ripen so we can eat them. What a spirit for life she has.

  10. I pray I live as long as Annie and have people interested in my life and to have good friends, how sweet. How close to home it hit when she said her faith got her through the rough patches.

  11. What a beautiful story of life and faith and friendship…looking forward to the continuing story! I love your telling of it!
    Blessings!

  12. A wonderful story and Annie is so right, I think we can endure just about anything this life throws our way when we have a strong faith in God. He is the one who is ultimately in control. You are fortunate to have these beautiful wise women as friends.

  13. What a lovely, lovely lady!

  14. I’m reminded of that scene in “Signs” where the father tells the kids, “everyone just needs to calm down and eat some fruit”…..maybe there is some truth in that !

  15. I honestly cannot think of a better way to spend an afternoon – glorious richness. I couldn’t live without fruit or chocolate!

  16. Linda C.

    I love these stories…

  17. Hillary

    Oh goodness!! Annie makes me giggle at work. I love listening to the ladies at my Grandmother Retirement Home, even when they discuss things that my me blush to hear them say. Tell Annie, thanks for lesson on Faith and Fruit!! It is very true indeed.

  18. I too love these stories of Annie. I think older people have such wonderful stories to tell. Give Annie my best and a kiss on each cheek. She has a good friend in you.

  19. I am so loving these Annie stories. 🙂

  20. georgie

    I’m so glad you are writing down these stories from Annie and sharing them. I spent about two hours the other afternoon visiting with a robust 90 year old Italian American woman who grew up in Brooklyn. She had 10 siblings. Her stories were great. She laughed when I commented “sheesh, you must have grown up with the Dead End Kids”.
    Give Annie a hug and kiss from me please.

  21. What a lovely person, your Annie.
    In the movie “Angles and Demons” there is a line that resonates with me..
    Faith is a gift I have not yet received.
    I think this is very true. For those who have faith, whether I think there is a God or not, they find tremendous comfort and strength. So it really IS a gift, regardless.

  22. Oh, Corey I was a little taken aback by your title and picture of dear Annie. And then I was so glad to see it was a continuation of the amazing story you are relaying of Annie’s upbringing. My heart swells to hear the nostalgia in how she is sharing her childhood experiences. Oh, those times of scrapping together small joys in the midst of lean times and finding that they amount to full rich memories and overflow with love. This is so very special…this blog, y’all’s friendship and the fact that she is willing to share it with us too. Give my love to Annie and tell her I say “Amen sister!” to her statement of faith. Love to you both.

  23. Ida from South Africa

    Galatians 5:22-23
    “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.”
    It sounds to me as if Annie’s got it all! Enjoy her fruitfulness and friendship!!

  24. This is wonderful–can’t wait for more.

  25. Annie is sweet inspiration for us all. She lives a charmed, gracious life that gives us a glimpse into what we too can be like, if we let go of rigid notions of how things “should” be. Annie goes with the flow, something that I think is the secret to a long and happy life.

  26. Please write more!

  27. Jennifer SleeperWhite

    Such a special time you are able to share with such a special person.People so often don’t take time to friend our “longer lived love ones”they are the ones that know so much.
    Thank-you for letting us enjoy your life.

  28. I am so loving this series…
    jackie
    bliss farm antiques

  29. Corey, you are so wise to ask Annie to tell her stories. If they are not recorded anywhere else, at least we will have been able to enjoy them.
    My mother passed away at 90 and had so many stories. My family still talks about them, but they are not recorded. I must get busy.
    And…..my mother’s name was Anna!!!!
    Do you know how many people don’t have time for the “golden girls”? I drove a lady to church Sunday who was 89. Doesn’t look a day over 65. So, I agree: your comment on another blog entry to the sales person who commented on Annie’s age was right on.
    You are a good friend to Annie. She will teach you and you will love her. A beautiful symbiotic relationship.

  30. Corey, I want to adopt Annie as a surrogate Grandmother! Thank you for sharing her stories and putting smiles on all our faces.
    Barb
    Coronado Daily Photo

  31. Oh I want fruit at my funeral too. What a treasure Annie is. I love her story and her humor just makes me smile.

  32. I love Annie already! Thank you for sharing her with us. She’s wonderful!

  33. French country girl Q & A. Would love to have Annie’s advice on a few things. How blessed you are Corey.

  34. I love your Annie stories. We all need an Annie in our lives. I am sure you are as much a blessing to her as she is to you.

  35. In addition to luck and faith, I would venture that strong female friendships have played a part in their longevity. Brings to mind this round I learned as a girl: “Make new friends but keep the old, one is silver and the other’s gold.”

  36. Thank you for these stories.
    They are absolutely wonderful.

  37. Hello Corey, I love Annie, she’s quite the character and I think we could all learn a lot from her. Thank you so much for sharing her with us. Enjoy your Wednesday….Maura

  38. Oh, I’ve been away from blogland for a while. How wonderful to come here and find these stories about Annie. More, please!

  39. Oh Corey,
    I love Annie, and the way your story captures her beautiful essence. Is there a photo of Annie as a young person? Would she share it?
    I’m happy she is in your everyday life, as your mama is so far away.
    xox,
    dede

  40. Marie-Noëlle

    Annie is a juicy and yummy fruit herself !!!
    Thank you for sharing those moments with us, Corey ..

  41. Sue Morris

    I too love these Annie stories – so special. And also special is the relationship you have forged with Annie.
    Hugs Sue

  42. Corey,
    You are a special friend. But the best part is having friends that share their thoughts and wishes for themselves and others. In that you are truly blessed.
    Hug…with a squeeze at the end,
    Gwen
    P.S. I often write..hug, with a squeeze at the end…because a friend once told me that she knew when her marriage was over when her husband no longer gave her a hug with a “squeeze at the end”.

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