Tagging along with Jean and Jacques at the Brocante


Spinning-wheel

Photos and text by: Corey Amaro

After dropping our daughter off at the airport in Nice we went to the brocante. Every Monday there is a massive brocante right next to the Mediterranean. You probably think I planned it that way. You probably think I told Chelsea, "Hey Chels, reserve your airline ticket on a Monday, that way when you leave I can go to the Brocante and I won't be too sad."

But honest to God I did not mention Monday, nor the Brocante in Nice… 

French Husband was surprised, "Did you plan it this way?"

"No," I said with a clear consciousness, "But isn't it convenient how it worked out?"

Poor guy, he was sad about our daughter leaving, then I added brocante to the wound.

Life is tough.

 
 
This-is-a-doll

Picture-frames 

We walked around putting our thoughts in picture frames, in small boxes, gently covering them under quilts… We put our feelings between book pages, on plates, and tucked them between the stacks of postcards. We carried our memories and dreams as we walked along the vendors.

Antiques are wrapped with the sense of time: Forgotten, lost, yet at the same time old things have captured someone's heart, thoughts, moments just like ours…

Brocante-Nice

We walked around, I bought a few things for my online shop.

We had lunch. French Husband ate an entire platter of pasta. I didn't eat much I had consumed a million antiques instead.

We talked about what we were going to do now that our main role as parents seemed to be changing.

Fortunately, for us our children are both happy, healthy and in a good place. Fortunately, French Husband and I can work anywhere as long as we have a phone and a laptop.

"What should we do?"

"What do you want to do?"

We both agreed on one thing, we are going to go out more often, and travel.

Textiles 

I'll be putting a ton of brocante smalls on my online shop during the next few weeks.

Painted-panels

Gild 

Tarnish bronze urn stood next to an older painting of a man without a name, nor the name of the artist. A large massive gilded frame without a painting wonder, "What happened to me? How did I get here?"

Toy-soilder1

Toy soldiers marched upside down and backwards in an old box. Worn with years of childhood play. Where were the children now? Did they pass their toys on to the grandchildren? Did their grandchildren pass them on to their children? Did video games and T.V. leave these toys in the box?

The toy soldier blew his horn, "Forward march!"

But confused the other soldiers asked,

"Where do we go from here?"

Books 

French Husband gasped when he saw a stack of books, "Corey look!"

"Oh Honey, you got my number! Old greyish paper books with ruffled pages!" I purred.

But quickly came to my senses when he said, "Yeah, yeah, but look Jean Cocteau. The pages haven't been cut"

"Jacques Cousteau?" I thought out loud.

"150 euro for the series." The dealer chimed in.

We didn't buy the books.

Globe 

If you had a year, free from responsibility, free to go anywhere you would like to go, or to do something you would like to do, free of any worry, concern, cost or other factor holding you back where would you go, or what would you do?

I look forward to your responses, your ideas, your dreams.



Comments

72 responses to “Tagging along with Jean and Jacques at the Brocante”

  1. I did dream I was in France last night, I could see the Eiffel Tower from the train we were on and I was trying to speak French.
    My answer is France.

  2. Cheryl in California

    I would take my family (which is now larger!) and retrace all of the wonderful trips we took when we lived in Germany for three years. Including all of the wonderful excursions in to France.

  3. Greece! I would search it far and wide and visit my grandparents villages high up in the mountains, Klada, Sparta. I would see the olive grove and my grandmother’s house, still standing, and touch its walls and smell the years of incense and olive oil and I would visit the church where my great-uncle celebrated the Divine Liturgy. Then I would see Athens and Rhodes and spend months at the shore. I would eat and eat and grow think instead of gain weight and I would finally touch the souls of my ancestors.

  4. Call me crazy, but I would rent a fabulous little farmhouse just outside of Paris and spend my mornings at the Brocante and my afternoons decorating my little home and help my friends do the same and my evenings cooking wonderful meals for my family and friends.

  5. I would love a year of freedom! 3 months to sit in a cabin in the woods on a mountain top with no internet (well maybe just a little)and find myself again. Then I would come back and integrate… and go dance.

  6. I would do exactly the same thing as Tamra but I’d do half the year in France and half in England.

  7. France, mai bien sur! And I know the precise department & village. I might even go and never come back. Now,if I could just sell my house here….

  8. Oh, easy question! I would head to France. Hey, we could switch homes…you live in ours and us in yours? Oui???

  9. Brenda L from TN

    I would spend 6 mos. in England and 6 mos. in France going to flea markets/brocantes. I would visit the countrysides and explore small villages and talk to the locals. And take lots of pictures to remember them all by…Sounds like heaven to me…Oh, how I wish…

  10. I would go to Italy and visit France and England and Wales but my base would be in Italy to explore and enjoy the culture.
    I would also visit my relatives in Wales and see some Castles…. Oh and the brocante in France…I would also need to visit quite a few! karen…

  11. Ed in Willows

    I think most people would like to travel to foreign lands. I would prefer to travel right here in the USA. I haven’t done much traveling and there is so much to see right here at home.

  12. I do not think long to answer your question.
    I’ll move to France and travel all over the country with my main home in Provence. I would love that very-very much and have told my husband that this is my dream to live in France. His answer was ‘you will get tired of flee markets in a month’ … how little he knows.

  13. DanaSmith

    I would spend a half the year in France and the other in England.

  14. Well, since both our girls are married, my husband & I travel alot in the states. We travel so much that they ask us when we will be home so they can come see us! One lives about 3 hours from us & we see her about as much as the one that lives in town. We ride our motorcycles on the weekends when we are in town to neighboring cities & take long distant trips on them. I had a terrible time when the girls first moved out (esp. to Florida for 2 years) since I was a stay home mom. Now, I am enjoying time alone with my husband again!

  15. I would travel to a remote part of Scotland probably or Australia/NZ as a second choice. Find a place to live for a year, and find a part-timeish job doing something I have never done before. Not office work, shop work or anything like that, I am thinking something completely off the wall for me like working on a farm, sheep station, cattle farm, help conserve the land etc. Living in a place where I have never lived before for a whole year for all 4 seasons … working part time at something I have no clue about … travelling a bit around the country would be an amazing experience for me I think.

  16. I would go to the south of France to my little apartment then I would take trips from there: Egypt, Russia, maybe Sweden, Morocco, maybe Bali, maybe Vietnam, certainly to Kenya just to see the animals. I would like to do some of the trips alone with V. and others with friends. Oh! And I’d like to go back and visit some more Greek islands.

  17. Did it…20 years ago…when I quit a great job and jumped in a jeep with a hunky guy headed to Belize to start a crocodile farm. It changed my life.
    I lost the hunky guy to cancer two years ago…I hope I’m still adventuresome enough to tilt my life on end again.
    I’m pretty sure I will but it may be more internal this time…not holding myself back, embracing more…fully living in the present.

  18. My fantasy has always been to simply go to the airport, look at that big board as if it were a fast food menu and pick a place…..spend some time there and then go back to the airport and pick another place off of the menu……somehow the year would include France, Italy and Spain……I also like the idea of holing up in a secluded cabin for a bit………

  19. I don’t even have to think about that. I have wanted to live in France, Paris in particular, ever since my first visit in 1993. I would have to go alone because my husband is not a traveler and would never leave the states. Of course my daughter, who introduced me to Europe, would probably leave her job and go with me. Oh the fun to be had. If only…….

  20. Nancy from Mass

    my family and I would go to all the places we’ve talked about…half of Canada, Grand Canyon, Colorado, the Pacific Northwest, Australia, New Zealand, Iceland and just about everywhere in Europe. we would hike, walk, dine, kayak, ski, bike, nap in fields of flowers….

  21. i think i would enjoy the road trip idea. perhaps renting an rv, perhaps not. just loading up myself, my husband and going. the dog would get to come, the cats…well, if we rv it they could come too. so yes, rv. 🙂

  22. That is a very good question. And trying to answer it may have just given me keen insight into how beaten down I have become. I cannot IMAGINE a year without the great weight of responsibility and limits. (I am currently envious of a friend of mine that took this week off to clean and organize her house!) I think it’s time for me to re-prioritize a little, and make some goals – starting with being able to answer that question! Thanks.

  23. I’d do like some family friends from Australia have done. Buy an RV when you arrive and tour all over for a year or more. They’ve been to Europe at least three times, the U.S. and Canada four times. They never have a definite route except to stop and visit friends during the trip.
    The Fella wants to travel the U.S. and stop at places for a month or more. I’d like tour Europe. Hopefully we’ll be able to do both trips sometime way off in the future.

  24. I would like to be somewhere beautiful. Near the sea and with rolling green hills. I would be in a white-washed stone house with flowers trailing over its walls. This house would have shutters and a heavy old wooden door, and every window would have views of the sea, green fields, trees and animals. This house would be filled with music and flowers. I would have language, cooking and music lessons every day. I would also swim and walk every day. I would buy my daily needs from charming markets and little shops which had been owned by the same family for generations.
    On warm nights, we would watch films outdoors in a park.
    And, always, always, I would be dancing…

  25. I would come and take care of your home for you while you travelled….I would replant your garden in honor of your neighbor , I would fill your pantry with home canned conserves and your rooms with flowers and plants, so that when you returned , it would be like you never left…while I was there , I would scour the shops for the thing I love – vintage perfumes !

  26. I would definitely spend the year in Paris, with trips around the country. We have been to the south of France, but only with a tour, and only 10 days. I read every blog I can find on France, every book they recommend, and…our future trip to live in Paris for some time is listed in my prayer notebook! Someday!

  27. i would travel the world, going from one flea market to another flea market. it is how you really learn about the people there. no?

  28. I have a picture from a greeting card on my treasure board, that is in front of me as I work on my projects. It is the picture of a stone cottage sitting on a small cliff with a path to the ocean. It is all alone and serene. That, is where I want to be, alone, no TV, no phone, just books, art supplies, sewing machine, and my pc.
    Oh, and yes plenty of money to come and go as I wish all over the world.

  29. Oh wow – I would love to live as you do! I adore France and the rustic look and going to the Brocante with you would be fab!

  30. I would definitely travel if funds were not a problem. There are so many places to see and people to meet. Have fun!

  31. Without pesky restrictions like finances and the like, I’d travel travel travel. Visit famous places, out-of-the-way places, see family and friends, converse with strangers.
    The world is your oyster–take advantage!

  32. thanks for beautiful nice market pics…..our last day spent right there..!! mauritius, seychelles, madagscar,india…..
    & then on to safrica…it’s all family related really..
    sorry for your sadness…hard to get a handle on change..shanti…..

  33. Katiebell

    a circuit around Europe, Barcelona, south of France, Italy and Venice in particular, round to Vienna, Switzerland and into Germany, then Amsterdam and then spend most of the time in England, Ireland, Wales, Scotland and perhaps a side trip to Norway and Iceland even! I would travel by train, bike, boat and hot air balloon. I would spend time with family, friends and stars light beings I am yet to meet. I would take my loved ones and feast and make art and love everyday and everywhere on the journey.

  34. Your post made me think of how long ago our 2 girls left the nest (within 2 mos. of each other). Our house just felt plain weird for several months. But looking back, that was just the beginning of many new advantures for us. I admire your words, images and thoughts and visit over here often for inspiration. ~Lili

  35. I would rent an apartment in St Zachery
    ox

  36. Weaverbec

    I would trace my family tree and go visit the places where my ancestors are from… I think that would be Switzerland, Germany, England, and possibly France. And while I was in the nieghborhood, I would check out Italy!
    Nothing like a little Brocante therapy to take your mind off your troubles.

  37. I would start with a cooking class in either the South of France or Northern Italy. Then I would rent a villa with a beautiful view and cook, practicing what I had learned about local food. I would share the food and villa with small groups of my family who might come to visit for short durations.
    Then I would go to Firenze and enroll in an art class just to be surrounded by the creative genius that saturates that city. . .or Paris would be fine too. I would spend most of my time sketching, drawing, taking photos, and writing to capture all of the images and feelings of each place.

  38. …back to the south of England,
    back to the south of France…but this time with a stop in Paris…and Santorini, Santorini, Santorini…

  39. I would leave England, go to mainland europe, and travel as far and for as long as my money would take me.

  40. Ideally to make all the important people in my life happy we would be near the water in a Victorian Cottage filled with worn loved treasures(Maine, maybe?) I would paint, quilt, garden and craft while they sailed to their hearts content. We would welcome any and all to visit and always have company for dinner! At some point we would leave this domestic bliss and travel wherever our hearts desired.( Oh and I would only cook when I wanted to, there would definitely be a cooking housekeeper!!!!) Ah…such a nice dream but I think I was born in the wrong century!!!

  41. Hmmm. Traveling…
    I would love to go to Morocco and Barcelona (I do broken tile mosaics), Hawaii (I adore snorkeling), and New Orleans (my husband’s favorite place).
    Classes…
    I would love to take painting and ceramic workshops.

  42. I would visit my family in Venezuela and Australia. There I will go specially to see nature: as Tepuys and Los Roques archipelago in Venezuela and the desert in Australia.
    I will go to Machu Pichu in Peru
    I would take a workshop with Nick Bantock in Vancouver.
    I will walk a lot, and swim
    I will start my own job: painting and taking pictures related (as little travel journals and postal cards?)
    I will write a book: A year in life. I will choose to talk about simple things or thoughts.
    I will definitively go somewhere else because is stimulating and helps a lot to know yourself better.
    I will try to be generous the most I can.

  43. Lieselotte

    If I had a year to myself I´d spend it in a Bhuddist monastery in Tibet, meditating. OOHM..

  44. Barbara Stevens

    Very thought provoking. My husband and I
    would spend three months traveling all over Europe. (like we did years ago before starting a family) We would visit fabulous museums,flea markets,thrift and antique stores. Oh, the food! The final six months
    would be spent exploring Scotland where my
    parents were from. Family would come to visit and we would travel all over this magical,mystical place. Thank you Corey for
    your wonderful blog. You make us all want to live a little more adventurously!
    v
    V

  45. Barbara Stevens

    Make that nine months in Scotland. (I always
    did stink at math)

  46. A year by myself? To the AZORES, naturally!!!
    I’d work all day either researching my genealogy in the Archives or translating — especially if I were in the company of the living author!
    Then I’d hang out in the evening at a café watching soccer on TV and shooting the breeze with amigos/amigas. What a great way to practice conversational Portuguese with native speakers!
    I’d make sure to have a papo-seco, pão de água or bolo lêvedo (yeast breads) and sweet ripe fresh São Miguel pineapple as part of every breakfast, a pastel de natas for dessert at lunch, and to drink at least 1 Kima passion-fruit drink a day (maybe it’ll keep my hair from frizzing in the humidity — LOL!).

  47. Victoria Ramos

    If I had no financial restrictions – I would travel, travel, travel….but if truth be told I would make time and go see my kids after awhile, I couldn’t help myself.
    I would also do all those pesky ‘honey-dos’ around the house —- I would take up a new hobby, or join a gym. I would forget about worrying what time dinner was, and if the laundry were done.
    Try to stop worrying about if my kid did all the things they needed to do.
    I just dropped my daughter off on her 2nd year at UCSC…living in a house with 3 girls off campus.
    Last night I stared at my husband at dinner and thought — my god, now what. Since we both work and don’t have the type of jobs that allow for travel, guess I better join that gym!
    🙂 Can’t wait to see what happens next Corey. PS – I absolutely love those painted panels in your photo — I may dream of them tonight!

  48. I will do the following:
    1. Visit my mom and sister in Ecuador.
    2. Visit my cousins in Palma de Mayorca and Valencia (Spain)
    3. Visit Florence, Italy and take an art class.
    4. Take a class on how to make pastries at Ecole Internationale de Patisserie in Perpignan, France.

  49. If I had a year on my own I would fast forward what i’m doing now. I’d work like mad to finish graduate school in a year…

  50. I am just starting a small business so I would continue with that. Lots of travel. Expand my yoga practice, take art classes, draw fabulous looking nude models (did I say that out loud?!) learn Italian and French (now I’m really dreaming!)
    In fact, my dream is to move overseas by 2014 to draw the above mentioned models, eat a real Mediterranean diet, paint and live!
    Best wishes as you explore this golden opportunity for new growth in your own life!

  51. I was sooooo fortunate and took that year…times four! And you know where I went…the south of France!
    The question for me is…what’s next? This morning I pulled a paper from a journal I keep and it said, “Do the next thing!”
    Now why didn’t I think of that?
    All good wishes!!
    Anne

  52. Marie-Noëlle

    I HAVE TO think hard about it as we could be in the same situation sooner or later !?!
    If travelling, I’d love to go to the far away French islands. First to La Réunion.
    This island is my dream !!!
    And also to French Polynesia (Winward Islands, Tahiti, …), to the French Carribeans (St Barth, Guadeloupe, Martinique)… and so on …
    Another place : Argentina (from Iguaçu Falls down to Land of Fire through the Andes and Patagonia…)
    + many more places I guess …

  53. nicole 86

    Hello Corey
    My first wish would be to spend as much time as possible with my grand daughters ( 3 year old and 14 month old)
    The second best would be to stay for a long quiet time in an abbey but I haven’t yet decided the spot : Belgium, Japan, France ?
    Third wish : to live in London or Boston (I’ve never been to the States)or even Paris
    Next year, I will get retired but money will be very, very short, so I haven’t decided yet.
    nicole from France

  54. I would travel the world…maybe by boat. Sailing from port to port, stopping for a while if a place felt right. Scuba Diving, fishing,cooking lessons, learning from the locals. I would pack light, and let the wind carry me to the little undiscovered secret places. If we tired of the water, we would head up the road for a bit, maybe rent a little villa and live like a local. So many beautiful places to explore…I dream…

  55. I would spend 6 months of the year in England visiting my sister (I live in Australia) and would then love to spend 6 months in France exploring all of France and if time permitted a few other parts of Europe as well. Dreams, dreams. dreams!!!

  56. What a thought – I would live for 6 months in San Miguel de Allende in Mexico and become fluent in Spanish. Then 6 months in Lourmarin in the Luberon in France and improve my French. Then, I would be happy anywhere.

  57. I would go to Budapest and live there. Soak up the land of my ancestors.

  58. First I would travel to Stockholm to rekindle an old flame. Then, we would eat and drink our way south through France to our creaky old home in a coastal town close to the Mediterranean. We would speak funny accented French in the markets, throw fabulous parties and read lots of books. Maybe my love could finally start writing his book??? I barely dare imagine it…it would be a year of pure bliss!

  59. If I could travel anywhere, I would pick France; all of it! I would miss my kids, so they would have to go with me. 🙂

  60. Rent an apartment in Paris for a year. Jet off on the weekends to an unknown destination. Enroll in art classes and paint, paint, paint.

  61. Hi Corey
    I haven’t responded to you before, but follow your posts with great interest, and I love your photography too. My husband and I from Australia are houseswapping in Alsace early next year for a minimum period of 3 months and I will be exploring the Brocante and food to add to my blog. Would love to catch up.

  62. We are doing just that very soon, we are doing a housexchange from Australia to France with a family in Alsace for a minimum of 3 months, and very excited, cannot wait to explore the Brocante and food for my blog.

  63. Wait a minute! Tell me more about those Jean Cocteau books!!! My God!! You didn’t buy them?!?!?

  64. Julie Ann Evins

    There are so many places I would like to visit. I would certainly tour India which is a cherished dream of mine. If money and time wereno object I would visit many diverse places
    around the world, but I think my heart would remain in Provence, Jx

  65. I wish you all the best and blessings with your new year, Corey! Along with my dear auntie, I’ve been extensively researching our family history. So, given all of your specifics…I’d scoop up my mama and my auntie…and head over to England…and to France! Rest assured, we’d conquer a few fleas and brocantes along the way!
    : )
    Julie M.

  66. I would eat a Popsicle.

  67. I would visit my children in Canada then take them with me as we travelled the world. We would take our time and see everything each one of them wanted to see or do. We would pick up my sister in England and bring her with us and we would have no time schedule. If only.

  68. France, Thailand, Morocco, Madrid, Portugal, The British Museum, Guatemala, Tuscany, Peru, Nova Scotia, the Azores, anyplace new that I’ve never been before. Travel is my greatest desire.

  69. Why not just be “content with what you have”? Do you have to run away, explore, leave? What about just enjoying your home, village, friends, and loved one and developing yourself where you are? Just a thought.

  70. First thing I would do is come visit you and we would go to all your favorite brocantes! I would dearly love to meet Annie and spend time getting to know her.
    For the past three decades I have dreamed of renting a place along the Amalfi coast and just stitching there for a year. Then I would go to the eastern coast of Italy so my husband could apprentice in the work of building and repairing accordions! Yes, that is his (current) passion. It would be a lovely way to live – for a time. Then I would love to go to Vienna to attend an opera there. I have always wanted to do that also!
    I would love to take some textile tours and see how lace is made – world wide! Then there are buttons – I would love to see those being made and tour the old factories where trims were made.
    I would go to Germany to the Black Forest and find that little restaurant I ate at decades ago!
    I would go to Turkey and visit my dearest friend, Vern. Then off to take my (minister) husband to visit the wonderful biblically rich places of Turkey. Since we are so close, a quick jaunt to the isle of Rhodes would be in order. Then off to Athens to find the restaurant where I consumed the best pork I have ever eaten – yes, decades ago!
    That’s what I would start out doing…

  71. As empty vessels make the loudest sound, so they that have least wit are the greatest babblers. (Plato, Ancient Greek Philosopher)

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