What Would You Do If You Could Have Anything You Wanted in a House Full of Beautiful Things?

French House

Photography and Text by Corey Amaro

….Story continued from yesterday's post……

With notebooks in hand the band of six climbed the front steps and went into their Great Uncle's home.

I was the last one to enter, right behind my soon to be French Husband. I held his hand as we walked passed the entrance, through the living room, barely pausing in the dining room, walked down the hallway, where I glanced into the library as he lead me up the three flights of stairs to the attic. French Husband opened the creaky attic door, walked over to the window, opened it, then pushed open the shutters. The light of the day filled the attic space… showing us what was hidden: Cardboard boxes marked "miscellaneous", stacks of books not worthy to live in the library, simple wooden closets containing out of season clothing, with bits and pieces of things that had nowhere else to go, yet must have held meaning? Otherwise why would his Great Uncle have kept such things? I looked around the attic noting that nothing compared to what we had passed up along the way.

French Husband lived in Paris in a studio. His furnishings were
minimal: A bed, a set of shelves and a table for two. My small apartment
in San Francisco had not much more than his had. I had come
over from the States to meet his family since only his mother would be
able to come to our wedding in California.

I knew that when I returned to California to prepare for our wedding,
that I would set up a money tree instead of registering at the local
department store that I had dreamed about doing since a child. I would not be able to transport more than my two
suitcases could hold. Standing in the attic, the thought of French
Husband's few belongings, and about me giving away my few possessions
before coming to live in France crossed my mind several times over.

Desperately, holding back my desire to run downstairs and ripe every ticket I could put my hands on to, I asked French Husband was there something he was looking for? Was there a reason why we were in the attic, and not downstairs? Without looking at me he sat down by some boxes and simply said, "No. I came to the attic because I do not want anything. I do not like this sort of thing. I am only here because my cousin asked us to come."

I watched him aimlessly open a box, take a few things out. The thought of begging him to run downstairs, to collect a
few things for our soon to be home in Paris came to a halt; His misery made me feel uncomfortable to do so. I sat down beside him, watching the dust run from where I plopped down, looked into a box containing old 1950s Match magazines, wondering what I could do to make French Husband feel better….for fifty nine seconds….
before I asked him if it bothered him if I went downstairs to take a peek.

Downstairs the other five cousins were having a field day, their notebooks filled with numbers and descriptions. Trying to stay out of the way, I stood in the hallway with open mouth wonder! From where I stood I could see the library with its mahogany floor to ceiling bibliotheque filled with leather bond books with gilded titles. Oil paintings of the seaside, boats, and portraits in massive gilded wooden frames. A crystal chandelier dripping with rock crystals, a desk the size of my bedroom. I opened a linen closet in the hallway, monogrammed linens were neatly stacked, tied with pale blue ribbons separating the sets of napkins from one another. I put my hand to my mouth screaming silently into it. 

Dessert-napkins-linen

Just as I was about to faint with pleasure, French Husband's sister came into the hallway turning the page in her notebook, ready to attack the kitchen with a clean slate. In a manner not to attract attention I closed the closet door with my foot, inconspicuously looking at my fingernails.

To be continued….



Comments

29 responses to “What Would You Do If You Could Have Anything You Wanted in a House Full of Beautiful Things?”

  1. The suspense is killing me!

  2. I know where you are going with this, I think .. and I’d have done the same! (But oh … the rest – had to be surreal!) Maybe this experience set you on the path to becoming an accomplished “Brocanteuse,” whetting your appetite for delicious French treasures! When I began my antique linen and textile quest I actually dreamed about finding a trunk full of glorious French linens straight from the armoire – the smell and feel of them still get to me. And finally I found it, trunk included, in Vancouver of all places, years ago – but I did have to pay for it! Keep going, Corey … it’s a tantalizing tale!

  3. When I read part one, I was thinking, I bet Corey walked away with very little, if anything.
    My guess it would be something sentimental…

  4. Brenda L from TN

    OH! You tease you!!!…Poor FH…he sounded so sad…I hope the cousins left something for the two of you in the end…bet it was something sentimental that FH remembered from when he was a little boy and his Grandmother or mother him to visit…

  5. I’m dying here… did YOU have the notebook???

  6. I had a similar experience with my husband early in our relationship when our households were in exactly the early state you describe. Not French antiques, but a grandmother’s home filled with family heirlooms and more modern “treasures.”
    After DH’s parents had finished removing what they desired to keep (his father was an only child), the three grandchildren were taken in to choose items in a round robin. The older sister’s first question was “are there any diamonds?” DH, as the middle child and male, was given the hint by his mother to take the silver. I don’t remember what his younger sister took first. Some things were divided into three lots, so that each would get some. Less precious items were eventually just up for grabs.
    I, too, tried to stay out of it, feeling it not my place, but my future MIL finally took me aside and begged me to help DH. So I did, and while we took some less than special items because they were functional and needed, we do have some lovely family antiques that I remember his grandmother by.

  7. can’t wait to hear the rest of the story . . .

  8. What a dilemma. I am taking a computer break for our holiday weekend and not blogging untill next Tuesday but I think I’m going to have to make this one exception because I can’t wait that long to hear the rest of this story!

  9. I think I would have felt as you had in this situation but I admire your husband. Each post you have included him in shows not only your love and respect for him but also what an admirable person he is. You really have chosen a gem. The two of you are such a wonderful pair.
    I have actually been in a similar situation…a few summers ago my mother and aunt moved their mother, my grandmother, into a senior residence. She was starting to exhibit signs of dementia and at 90 could no longer live alone. Her large house, though not grand, held many many things accumulated from her lifetime and my grandfather’s. (He had passed away many years before). My two siblings and three of my cousins could choose things we would like to have from her home but a woman had already started cataloging and pricing everything for an estate sale. I chose an old Yellowware mixing bowl that had already been researched and priced accordingly. That woman was furious that we were choosing things from our grandmother’s house. While I understand her perceived waste of time, she also had to understand that we came from many hours away, as soon as was possible and these things were of sentimental value to us. That will always bother me when I look at that bowl.

  10. Ouch, that must have hurt.
    Don’t get me wrong, understanding and respecting your FHs feeling is admirable, but practicality would have had me begging at his feet to at least give it a try… to find something needed or useful, for as you discribed it, an empty household…
    That’s almost how we ended up furnishing our nest after moving to the USA with almost nothing. An estate sale, we almost left with all their stuff…ok, not all of it, but the best treasure was $30 for a sewing mashine table that had 3 drawers full of sewing stuff, threads, needles, you name it…
    can’t wait to hear the rest!

  11. I’m so lovin’ this story. Can’t wait to hear more!

  12. This is so good. Boy you know how to tell a story/torture me/keep me in suspense. Actually, you reminded me that newly into our marriage my hubby’s uncle called us to do the same. His mother, a wealthy widow, who had lived on her own in a huge furnished to the hilt home had passed away and he was needing to sort and give stuff away (being wealthy and fully stocked himself) and generously called David and his siblings to see what they wanted. Up until marriage I had lived a college furnished life (makeshift, mish mash of furnishings) and liked all the antiques and sets of matching items I saw…ah, but my hubby hung back and we got the odd pieces everyone else picked over…I am fully grateful but my eyes were coming out of their sockets with the loveliness. I wonder what happened with you!?

  13. This is truly like a movie….you tease us so well, Corey. I love this story and I cannot wait for tomorrow. Perfection I tell ya.
    Be still my heart, your beautiful photo of the linens has made me dizzy with desire. Desire to hold one so beautiful.
    Ah, once again, you’ve tugged at my heart!

  14. Susana Stevens

    I’ve suspected this all along, but this clinches it…..you are much more magnanimous than I.

  15. What a great story! What is it with guys and situations like this?! My husband was the same way when his grandfather died. His sister took everything his mom didn’t want, and left nothing behind. To this day my husband is annoyed with what happened, but he didn’t really put up much of a fight.
    It would have killed me not to start nudging my husband to at least write a few numbers down on the notebook!! I see though how it would be a very extremely awkward situation.
    Can’t wait to hear the rest of the story.

  16. I would have had a hard time containing myself. The linen napkins are delicious! Can’t wait for the rest of the story.

  17. I would have felt like a vulture. I hope you chose something that had sentimental ties for FH.
    My grandma owned very little since she lived simply. After she passed away, I took her favorite cardigan and all of her old letters and notebooks. I kept that cardigan in a ziploc bag and would take it out sometimes because I could still smell my grandmother’s scent. Eventually, when the smell faded, I would wear the sweater when I miss her.

  18. Rebecca in the Pacific Northwest

    My heart just stopped when you stopped at that cliff-hanger. Why oh why couldn’t this ancient relative have hung on til last year, maybe? (Except for the complication of being 120 years old now…) You’d have been able to nab far more treasures, and FH would agree.
    I can’t imagine getting to go through a house with treasures that antique. About 10 years ago my sisters and I split up mom and dad’s stuff, but while sentimental there weren’t fabulous generations-old antiques. It was quite the headache though, due to dissension among the siblings, and I continue to be grateful that that particular chore/nightmare is behind me.
    Look forward to the next installments. Thanks for story-telling to us!

  19. French Husband is a wonderful caring man. He cares more about people that posessions. HE is the treasure!

  20. Can’t wait till tomorrow, what beautiful linnens. Very fasinating.
    yvonne

  21. all the more reason to give things to our loved ones while we are alive…btw, is the photograph of the house the house of the Uncle?

  22. I can’t wait to read more! Wish I could go!

  23. …O Gosh, goose bumps over here….

  24. You are a natural storyteller. Don’t miss the chance to write a book.

  25. Denise Solsrud

    i am really late for this continued story,but i have a good excuse. garage sales,three full days on hiway 8, all the way on 8. don’t know the miles involved, but it is from one end of 8, and way to the other end of 8. i love this actual inticing tale. probably will be late again tomorrow,but i will be back. Bestest,Denise

  26. I’m sure the contents of the home were magnificent, but I find the house itself more interesting.

  27. if i could have anything i wanted i find as i get older that i do love my possessions but find i love my hubby and kids voices more and even now as they are older and out of the house. i will always keep the door open for them to come back and stay any day, anytime. no antique or lace could ever compete with them.

  28. What a treasure trove and the mistress of suspense as usual working her magic. Cannot wait to hear how you squared this tricky circle ! Isn’t Yann a sweetheart although perhaps with his new found status as a “chineur” his position if he found himself in the same situation today might be a little different ! Loving the way you tell the story, Jx

  29. This is so great!! My heart is pounding like I was actually there. Guard that closet!!!

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