Willows, 95988: Halloween at my Family’s Home

Halloween fare
Photography and Text: Corey Amaro

Halloween fare, it starts with a pumpkin and ends with a ton of candy.

The last time we were in the States during Halloween was back when my children were barely of an age to remember.

This year they won't forget.

 

Cob web curtain

 

My mother puts on a buffet style dinner, anyone can come over after trick or treating to add some real food to counter balance the overload of sugar. Dinner is served and cream puffs (my Mom's are the best, I must add.) follow. This year my mother had a houseful– over fifty people came over.

Check out those cobweb curtains. Decorating is one of my mother's passion.

 

Halloween family  Halloween family

Halloween door to door

Guess who

Around six thirty in the evening the flow of costumed folk started to pour in through the back door, which is the only door family and friends use at my mom's home.

Some were easy to identify, others were not.

 

80s flashback
 

Halloween kids

Pink pig

Halloween 2010

 

When you have more little girls than boys showing up for Halloween you can be certain that there will have a fair share of Princesses, Fairies, and Goddesses…. Though Miss Rival was a Black Spider to match her beau the Pink Pig (Sacha) his cousin was a butcher.

 

Jack

 

Superman

 

Clean up

 

Amongst the Halloween sugar high little persons jumping, playing, laughing, running around and around chased by a Pink Pig, there were grown ups watching the World Series and others serving food and cleaning up spills.

Wildly fun…. and at the end I thought to myself, "Boy have I been missing out living way over there in France."

It is always the same old story, towards the end of our stay, that I start to feel my roots go deep into the ground, filling up with family… it is right about now that I start wondering if I can change my ticket and stay longer…. it is right about now that I start to get teary eyed every five minutes and want to run and hide in the back of the closet.

But I won't.

 



Comments

38 responses to “Willows, 95988: Halloween at my Family’s Home”

  1. kathy woods

    Dear Corey
    I know that feeling about family roots and changing flights home so well!!!
    Kathy

  2. The tug that you feel on your heart strings is actually luck pulling. You have been fortunate enough to have experienced both sides of family and living. Some of us have not even seen one. Your family is very sweet, and your situation in life even sweeter. While reading your blog the past few months I have said to myself over and over “Who are these people to have so many friends and family and have such a rich life, how did they get it?”.

  3. like mother like daughter. Glad you are having such a good time.

  4. Ahhh, such wonderful memories to pack in your suitcase. Your mom is really someone so special and the heart of your family, it seems. I think it quite grand that Sacha gets to enjoy you it all with you around. Thank you for sharing your family with us for this little while.

  5. It is clear that your mom’s way of making family into treasure has been passed on to you Miss Corey…about my invitation…hmmm, must have gotten lost in the mail:)
    jackie
    bliss farm antiques

  6. Looks like a blast!!!! FH better lock the closet doors!!!

  7. Great post, and love the shot of superman jumping on the giant pink pig!

  8. That is the worst… having fun, being with family… and then… having to leave again.
    For Christmas I’ll be having family over at our house as well… I’m being tossed between looking forward and happiness about it and sadness bc of the dreaded leaving part after.
    Yet it is about the time together that makes it all worth it.
    Christina

  9. your mom is just incredible! I think as moms we all dream and wish our home to be so inviting that all would want to come and visit. enjoy every second before you step foot on that plane . . .

  10. Michelle M in KY

    Dearest Corey…
    I, too would find it hard to leave such a large, loving family. Perhaps what would make it easier is to visit at least 2 times a year. That may lessen the ache of wanting to leave. As much as you love France…it would be difficult to leave all of your loved ones. May the memories of this day bury themselves deep in your heart. Safe travels!

  11. I too feel your ineffable anguish of longing for my native California every time I return from a visit — in Portuguese it even has its own name, “SAUDADES.”
    But then I remind myself that by having lived other places (and having visited so many more), I’ve gotten to lead a far wider life than anyone else in my family ever has. I’ve concluded that life’s simply a trade-off, because we can’t be in two places at once — although the blogs of people elsewhere help a bit to create that feeling virtually (LOL!).

  12. Cream Puffs, Pigs, spiders and tears… Halloween doesn’t get much better than that my dear. Kisses to you,
    Ulla

  13. Yes, there is something so wonderful in family celebrations like this. I do miss them. I am so happy the Sacha is having this experience, there is nothing like it.

  14. Halloween was a dud this year in France. It was raining and we only had trick or treaters. Boo!

  15. Meant to say:
    3 trick or treaters….now have lots of candy left over.
    Want some?

  16. Note to French husband. Remember to drive away slowly. LOT’S OF HONKING and keep the car windows rolled down. It makes for an easier good-bye…

  17. Don’t think of the leaving, just soak in all the love you can.

  18. Corey, we also had a back door that friends and family freely came through without knocking at any time. When the front door bell rang we knew someone we didn’t know was there. Blessings, Kimberly

  19. tears are streaming down my cheeks as I read the last line…it is all good… make more trips…often !

  20. Denise Solsrud

    no matter what you say,do,or where you go,home is home. and home is roots. but,some of us have two homes,but you know which is first in your mind. and home is where you hang your hat. you just happen to have two places. there are great memories in both places. not everyone can say that. enjoy your the rest of your days and make new memories. remember, they are all going to miss you also. Bestest,Denise

  21. Toni Mason

    Don’t leave yet!

  22. xxxxxooooo coming your way over the blogsphere. It’s called loss I think. Joy in the having, loss in the leaving. Each time as it gets closer to leaving your body remembers the feelings of past goodbyes. It’s never easy to live and love in two continents.

  23. Annie vanderven

    Dear Corey
    You made me cry, remembering the same feelings I had when leaving my family, but in the reverse of what you are doing, leaving France for the US. just hold on to your memories.
    Annie v.

  24. Oh, Corey…your Willows Halloween sounds like so much fun. I can’t imagine how hard it must be for you to leave, knowing it is so far away. My parents are only 4.5 hours away, and when I go see them and have to leave, I tear up. I try to make it to my car, because I don’t want them to feel sad.

  25. this is the most beautiful fashion blog i’ve ever come across! thank you for your inspiration. what a great idea to look for shirts in the children’s department. yellow + polka dots = a very shiny day!

  26. this is the wierd feeling that comes in the package of having overseas inlaws. you would not believe it i am coming from a exteremely massive family with lots of cousins, and now belong to three different countries, the feeling you described in the end is so synonomus with all of us who have there feet in two boats. but you see in your case you will be returning to FRANCE what better place to go…. so just bring that smile and prepare to come back…

  27. To paraphrase the late Russ Hodges, “The Giants win the Series! The Giants win the Series! The Giants win the Series!”
    Fear the beard!!!
    (This makes up for them losing in ’62)

  28. Corey,sometimes I don’t want to read your posts because I know I will end up with tears on my cheeks…some good, some sad. The real mix. Your portrayal of your family is treasured by those of us who thought our lives would be similar. But the roads of life are not always on the map. Thank you from a special place in my heart for sharing all the love in yours.

  29. I just realized that while you have gained wonderful experiences while living in France, that you’ve sacrificed so much by being away from your family. Time that you’ll never get back.
    Have you ever contemplated that when FH retires, you could live half of the year in the states? Now that would be wonderful!
    ~elaine~

  30. How wonderful for you to be here for Halloween this year! There is something exciting about any holiday that get family and friends together.
    Were Sacha and Miss Rival dressed as Wilbur and Charlotte from Charlotte’s Web?

  31. I’ve always whished to be there at least once in my life at Halloween time, it should be great fun…. and I’m sure you had!

  32. A family truly blessed in love…
    thank you for sharing you with me!

  33. How fun. We have fire pits burning in front of our house and pots of chili and glasses of wine for any of the neighbors who might want to join us while we hand out candy.

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