Living the Dream in Carcassonne

Carcassonne postcard

Photography and text by Corey Amaro.

 

Do you ever talk back to your GPS? French Husband is notorious for taking the wrong turn. I would like to say he is notorious for getting lost, but that would cause a uproar in our home of two, and I do not feel like making brownies or something sweet to make up for my stating a known fact… so I will leave it at "he takes wrong turns".

Before the GPS he use to blame me for his wrong turns. But how could he blame me I was usually asleep in the car. And besides anyone who knows me knows I have a good sense of direction, otherwise how did we ever find our way home once we were lost?

The day before yesterday, French Husband had some business to tend to in Toulouse. I tagged along for the ride, in which I slept most of the way, occasionally waking up to hear French Husband complaining to Jacques the French guy on the GPS.

"Better Jacques than me," I yawned.

Fall foilage

 

The route between Aix and Toulouse is magnificent this time of year. Luckily, for me French Husband does make wrong turns otherwise I might never wake up to notice!

 

 

Carcassonne

 

 

The first time I came to France was back in 1984 when Pope John Paul II created the Youth Day. I traveled to Italy with a group of teenagers (close friends) to be part of the experience. After the week long, whirlwind celebration of Youth Day, I continued my travels by train from Rome to France to visit Dominique a dear friend, an Abbot I had met years ago while living in a monastery in New Mexico.

 

Carcassonne france

 

There was standing room only on the seventeen-hour train ride from Rome to a very small village near Albi, France. The time swept by as the view played before my eyes. I recall riding pass the French Riviera with the windows down, admiring the pastel buildings close to the deep blue sea. Near Marseille the train emptied and I was able to find a seat in a six seater compartment. I counted my blessings as I leaned my head on the window and fell asleep.

 

View carcassonne

Hours passed, with me deep asleep with my book open on my lap when I felt someone nudging me. An elderly man who was sitting in front of me leaned towards me and in perfect English said, "Excuse me, Mademoiselle, but I assume you would not want to miss this beautiful view…" my eyes followed his finger as he pointed out of the train's window.

Carcassonne! The fortified city was framed gloriously by the train's window. As we rode by tears fell from my eyes. I thanked the elderly man for his thoughtfulness, he shook his head and said, "Waking to such a view makes our dreams come alive."

 

Towers carcassonne

We found our way to Carcassonne. French Husband didn't need Jacques to tell him how, as it towered in the sky. "Just look up and follow the towers." I mimicked Jacques from the GPS as he gave blander directions.

 

 

Carcassone view

We walked the ramparts.

We found a restaurant.

We admired the fall colors that covered the stone walls.

We walked through the cementery….

 

Carcassonne restaurant

  Later I offered a toast to the man (wherever he may be) who opened my eyes to such a dream, and moreso to the man who made France my home.

 

 

 

Maison d'hotes lo Barri

Note:

We stayed in a bed and breakfast called the Lo Barri, between Toulouse and Carcassonne.

(The first photo is a photo I took of a picture perfect postcard of Carcassonne, photographer unknown)



Comments

37 responses to “Living the Dream in Carcassonne”

  1. Beautiful, and thanks for the B and B tip-looks stunning and affordable too.
    jackie
    bliss farm antiques

  2. That first photo is so beautiful, you must have photoshopped it. Can I order a print? Can you add that to your business? Maybe you could find a gorgeous picture frame at the brocante and sell it to me with the amazing photo inside!
    _________________
    Hello Paulita
    I bought the first photo as it is a postcard of Carcassonne. I sent it to friend (after I took a photo of it!)
    C

  3. When I was in Provence two summers ago I went to the Sunday market in Carcassonne. Wish I were there this Sunday morning ;•

  4. What a sensitive, and out going man to wake you from your dream to dream.
    i wonder if i could be such a person to another?
    To know without knowing– to trust one’s intuition, to point something out so gently, to show something to someone when their eyes are closed, when to nudge someone & show them something they might miss?
    Good food for thought Miss Corey, that is why I come to you blog.
    You feed the soul.

  5. This home for two has it’s advantages. What a romantic trip, if those stones could talk.

  6. beautiful read, wonderful pictures . . . I dream of living the dream in Carcassonne! And, as an earlier blog reader posted, “you feed my soul”, now off to Mass! ps I do talk to my GPS . . . her name is Gigi!

  7. What a beautiful journey you have shared with us. If I were to share my journey today you would see the most beautiful rain coming down, I am going to start a big fire watch the rain with my family. We have family dinner every Sunday at our home. My Mother, Daughter, SIL, Two teenage grandchildren and sadly missing my youngest daughter who lives in NY, and my father who we lost two years ago this month. Today we will celebrate my Husbands birthday. You would love to join us as it is Mexican food day. Cilantro Lime rice. is my grandaughters favorite. We have to take time to enjoy whatever view we have been blessed with.
    Someday I hope to take in your view.

  8. It is wonderful to see Carcassonne through your eyes.
    I’ve been to the old “cité” so many times (we live 30 minutes away) that it has lost its charm, but after reading your post I look forward to walking the ramparts and seeing the towers again. Thank you for reminding me of Carcassonne’s beauty.

  9. a beautiful story. I love how you mix past and present. There really is a moral in this about waking from some sleep or preoccupation to be startled by beauty.

  10. Lisa in Texas

    Incredibly beautiful! I wish I was there!

  11. Are Farmboy Husband and I the last two people in the world who still use road maps???
    We actually own a Rand-McNally North American Road Atlas that we take on road-trips, nowadays supplementing it with block-by-block street-maps printed off the Internet (Mapquest or Google) for our various destinations.
    I wonder, is it still even possible to purchase a motor vehicle nowadays without GPS? If not, can one at least disable the @#$%*&! thing? Or is it at least not illegal to assault the dang thing if sufficiently provoked?
    Back when I was 9 or 10, my family took a road-trip one weekend up to California’s Mother Lode region (Gold Rush country), since I’d never been there before. This was back in the era of those unwieldy folding maps given out free at gas stations (back when they were still “service” stations!). My mom, who was riding shotgun, kept consulting our map, then telling my dad (who was driving) either to turn at the wrong intersections, or to turn left when she meant right (or vice versa).
    My poor father became so exasperated that he finally wailed that, for all he knew, we were “going to wind up in Timbuctoo!!!” My mother and I erupted into gales of laughter, which utterly baffled my dad — till we calmed down sufficiently to explain to him that we’d seen a ghost-town of that name on the map not far from where we (believed we) were at that moment.
    At this juncture I staged a “coup d’auto” against my mother (i.e., snatched the map out of her hands), and directed us flawlessly to Timbuctoo, where we all got out so my mother could snap a photo of my dad standing in front of the town’s city-limits sign, for posterity. It was also, mercifully, the end of my mother’s career as our family navigator.
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timbuctoo,_California

  12. When I was a teenager I met an elderly artist named Mrs. Weibel. Her main subject was the castle at Carcassone. She grew up near there. I bought a beautiful sepia watercolor and pen drawing of the castle from her. Wish I still had the drawing. It was the same view as your first photo.

  13. I loved this post… loved the train story so much. Sigh…

  14. Okay, this post and your photos just prompted me to spend about 2 hrs looking for an affordable flight to France!
    It won’t be soon, but sometime I’ll be on my way to France for an extended stay. Thanks for taking us along with you now!
    Has the transition back to France from Willows been easier due to the great beauty on this trip to Carcassonne?

  15. Great pics.I envy you for visiting such beautiful places!
    I never thought Carcassonne would really look like this. I knew only the game with the same name. A great game I highly recommend.

  16. So many stories rolled into one; the ride and French Husband, your train ride, your friend Dominique. All told so invitingly by yourself, I might add. I love it all, but, mostly, I love your train ride and the kindly gentleman who woke you up to see Carcassone. Beautifully done.

  17. Your post made me smile, on many levels. We have had many funny stories with the GPS Lady. The lady sent us to a very scary part of Bordeaux a couple of summers ago!! We ended up in a camp of gypsies, on a very, very wrong side of the tracks!!!
    I love the highway from Toulouse to Aix and I especially love, love Carcassonne. I bought the coolest cassoulet,earthenware pot.

  18. Brenda L from TN

    Beautiful…just beautiful…we are so lucky that you are such a good photographer and can capture such wonderful scenes.
    Thank you…

  19. oh be still my heart xoxo

  20. –exatly to hear my own husbond………before we got our GPS ….
    And Carcassonne–I was there, soooo many years ago (34) but still remember the beauty -and the fantastic -nature —
    Thanks for giving my memories wings….
    Hugs,Dorthe

  21. That’s such a cool castle! I would love to go to Carcassone!

  22. I’ve just returned from Carcassonne this afternoon! The colours of the trees and vines were amazing. We have a little house there but live in England so memories of strolling the city walls last night and feeling the magic and peace it always brings will comfort me during my daily commute into London this week…

  23. Corey, your photos and descriptions of precious moments are wonderful. Thank you so much for the time you take to share them.

  24. That first image looks like a storybook illustration. “Waking to such a view makes our dreams come alive.” That’s pretty much how I see you live!

  25. Your stunningly beautiful photographs perk up this drab, rainy Northern California day. Thank you!

  26. really beautiful photos.

  27. This is the French 1/2 of your life that is so priceless.

  28. jend’isère

    What wonderful solution to the transition back to French life…by stepping back to midiaeval world. My first reaction was that cassoulet was not the likely cure for jet lag.

  29. We were in Carcassonne ten years, ago. We had a wonderful Cassoulet and I bought the sweetest scented soap.

  30. Corey, to tell you the truth, I could not wait till you’re back in France, sorry. I understate you feelings since I’m myself in a similar situation, but it got to the point that anything French becomes my everyday oxygen, even it’s just in the photo :-((

  31. Corey your photos and story of this journey are awesome

  32. Corey,
    What I love about your blog and your stories and photographs are what I love about France and the concept of the brocante (though I’ve never been). It’s what I love about so many of my favorite places in Europe and Asia: the way the past and present are inextricably linked in such profound and beautiful ways.
    Thank you for sharing your life and thoughts and stories and families with us! You have such amazing experiences but it’s the little stuff–the small anecdotes or brief exchanges and ordinary moments of extraordinary wonder that I cherish the most. Forget Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie! Give me Coco and Annie and young Corey and her train stories–the young man who was flirting with you and the old man kind enough to wake a sleeping young woman to point out the beauty in the world we all miss when we’re too tuckered out to keep ourselves wide awake!
    Thank you for this post, and your blog–and most of all for being Y-O-U ! ! !
    ((hugs))
    –amylia grace

  33. Our GPS has a female voice, which we call Mimi Two. I am Mimi One. My husband says he has two Mimi’s that tell him what to do 🙂 That GPS was a lifesaver traveling around France.
    I do recognize these sights and the view from that window. Oh we loved Carcassonne. Thanks for the memories.

  34. What a beautful town. I love the photo of the tower and the crosses. Autumn looks lovely there. I wish we had a prettier autumn this year, but it was too dry and the leaves turned brown too quickly.

  35. You made some good points there. I did a search on the topic and found most people will agree with your blog.

  36. Rebecca from the pacific northwest

    You just made me want to go there, later in the year than we’ve been before so I can see the fall colors! Of course you also lucked out with such a sunny gorgeous day — I assume there are good chances of gray and rain this time of year too?
    Approx when are fall colors like this? wow.

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