Born French

Herring 1

 

For lunch my Belle-Mere served herring marinated in thyme, and potatoes in a mustard sauce on the side.

Yes, food again. What else does one do when visiting family in France?

 

Herring 2

 

Let me tell you it is true. When we visited French Husband's family we spent the majority of our time doing food related activities. Either we were at the market buying food, or running to the bakery for a baguette, or going down in Belle Mere's basement to select a bottle of wine, or peeling, slicing, dicing, or cooking something.

 

 

Herring 3

 

 

We spent hours sitting in front of a dining room table, either at French Husband's mother's home, or his Aunts' homes or with friends. Where I set the table. Collected recipes. Licked my lips. Praised the chef. Unbuttoned the top button to my trousers. Tried new things. Nodding for seconds, and washed dishes.

 

 

Herring 4

 

It is a hard life dining on French cuisine.

 

 

Herring 5

 

 

Being a picky eater is no longer my problem. Though I am not an adventurous eater either. Even if I weren't a vegetarian (One who eats eggs, dairy products and fish.) I wouldn't pop an escargot in my mouth, nor bite into calf's tongue, or devour chocolate covered ants. I am not an adventurous epicurean when it comes to food.

 

 

Herring carrot

 

The day before herring for lunch, my Belle Mere served oysters.

I cannot stand oysters other than to look at them in their shells, and a closed shell at that.

I said, no thank you when it came to the oysters. So the next day when she served herring I couldn't say no thank you again… that just wouldn't be polite.

My stomach was cringing, memories of being a picky eater as a child and throwing up in a napkin started to haunt me. Doom was creeping on my plate.

 

Herring 6

 

Amazingly enough it was surprisingly delicious. Enough so that I asked for the recipe.

The first thing I did when we came home was buy some smoked herring to try her recipe.

Later as it sat in the refrigerator marinating, Annie came over. I told her about our trip and about the recipes I gathered.

I hardly said the word, "Herring" when she said, "Marinated Herring! Layered with dried thyme, thinly sliced carrots, laurel leaf, sliced raw onion and olive oil. Marinate over night in a sealed glass container. Then serve with boiled potatoes in a mustard vinaigrette. Delicious and good for you too! Oh, and I slice the herring lenghtwise otherwise they are too big."

Annie is a walking French cook book… or maybe…

 

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When you are born French:

Classic French recipes are embedded in your brain, as well as how to tie a scarf, how to stay thin, and look sixty when you are eighty and ninety.

 

 

 

 

 

 


 

 

 



Comments

31 responses to “Born French”

  1. May I hop over, pleeease?
    Hungry in V.,
    Merisi

  2. Hey, you are doing great, you got the scarf thing down, your looking amazingly young, and we know tricks about the real real thin part right? and I can tell you that you try a whole lot more than most of us when it comes to eating… you are so FRENCH!!! darling girl.

  3. Ed in Willows

    I tired escargot when we went on an Alaskan cruise. It was delicious!! I wanted more. It was sauteed in butter and garlic. Corey, you would love it too. I’ve also had it breaded and fried. It’s like clam strips.

  4. The herring is on my list to try if I can find it here in the states. My Mom use to make herring (although a different recipie) and I’ve looked and looked and can’t find it. Sigh!

  5. Wow. I can’t imagine how much time goes into making all that food. Either you all lived in the kitchen or you never saw your hostesses.
    Beautiful photos, Corey.

  6. My Mother prepared the same Herring recipe. Herring has been a staple in our familie’s diet. Even when we were babies, my mother gave us herring juice in the bottle.

  7. Now this I’ve got to try. I love herring and I know i’ve seen them around here somewhere. Surely someone in Texas has herring!

  8. I think we’re twins separated at birth. I’m the same kind of vegetarian as you are, I was also a very picky eater (though better now) and would have also cringed at the marinated herring! Taking food risks feels kind of dangerous and daring to me – glad your herring didn’t bit you back!
    Some people are just born cooks. Like my mom. When we were in Paris, she could tell me every spice, every herb, how they prepared every dish. I just ate. And ate.

  9. I could be French. It would be hard at first, but I’m willing to put in the effort at the table and I wash a good dish.
    This world needs grandmothers, thank you ladies.

  10. I feel your pain. I was a picky eater as a child. My mother is British so we didn’t have ketchup, mustard and the like in our home. I would die when going to a friends house or a picnic where I knew these items, and strange things like macaroni salads and such were going to be the only foods offered. I grew into a better eater but am a vegetarian who doesn’t eat ANY fish and now I can’t eat gluten, crazy hard sometimes. I could hardly eat anything in France, had a lot of cheese and chocolate, which luckily was quite delicious.

  11. I think that I would enjoy the process of making this as much as the process of eating it! What do I have for lunch? Yogurt! So wonderful a culture and an appreciation of food; how it is prepared, served, eaten and savored. Just like your blog.

  12. Going to market, buying a baguette, slicing, dicing, going to the cellar to choose a bottle of wine, sitting around the table with family…….sounds divine!

  13. annette richmond

    I have to admit, the herring I don’t think I could have eaten it. I am a vegetarian also but I am real funny about fish. If it has that strong smell and if it still is wearing it’s skin. Both of those things turn my stomach so you are not alone in being picky. I never say I won’t eat that I put a small amount on my plate eat around it and push it around on my plate.

  14. Jennifer in SF

    Ah Corey…Just love this! The French home recipes are the best, I always think it’s because a pinch of love is added to each dish. Thank you for sharing all that you do. Bisous

  15. Herring has never been on my list of things to eat either, but I must say this sounds very good. I am almost tempted to make it. Oh to have been born French and know all.

  16. I just read back since Jan 3rd. All I can do is sigh*** What a blessed woman you are & please let me mention again…I am a lurker but did meet FH at Marburger. Again, you are a blessed woman. What a luscious way I just spent the last bit of time…reading…wonder why I am hungry?

  17. Ooh, I adore herring in all its forms (including pickled preserves – it isn’t Christmas without them) so this made my mouth water. Boiled potatoes in mustard sauce sounds like the perfect accompaniment. What is more, it is a side dish I had completely forgotten about until your post brought memories flooding back, reminding me that my (non-French) grandparents used to serve it! As did the Breton family I stayed with during a language course in Brittany loong ago…The mother was a kind, down-to-earth cook who also taught me to love artichokes, which I had never appriciated until then.

  18. Oysters?.. My Mother adored them and every sunday when in season there they were on the table, once and for all I refused to eat them (well by then I was an adult) finally told her that they looked like eyes just starring at me with big eyelashes… Once this is embedded in your mind , difficult not to look at them that way!!!
    As for herrings my dutch husband is just in love with them..
    Annie v.

  19. Corey, thank you for sharing your delicious trip and all the wonderful (drool) pictures! I felt like for a wee while I was on the vacation with you. Sheer heaven!

  20. If I ever get to visit will you make potatoes and herring for me?
    jackie
    bliss farm antiques

  21. yep when in France in May last year i tried the escargot twice, never again, i too won’t eat duck liver, calf tongue or oysters. I think i’d struggle with the herring to actually. i still managed to pile on the weight while there though the food is delicious

  22. My children loved to eat raw oysters and clams on the half shell at the local farmers market. They were 3 for a $1 and they’d shake on the tobasco and swallow them down. Years of travel made them all adventurous particularly my youngest daughter who has studied in China. Go to the night market in Shanghai to experience truly adventurous eating. When I was at the night market in Beijing Meridith Viera (host of Today show) was there filming the food for the show. Centipedes on a skewer anyone? Even I wasn’t that adventurous.

  23. I am thinking about this dish all day.
    I want to make it.
    I was never a picky eater, love to eat and I spend lot of time in the kitchen.
    Annie is so smart.

  24. I actually think that sounds delicious. I will have to come back and write all that down–it sounds great, and I bet it really is VERY good for you. Yum. Anyway, nothing French ever tastes bad.
    Incidentally, those things you listed would not exactly whet my fancy, either. But this does. How lovely to weave food throughout the day and throughout our lives: I have memories of specific meals with specific people from through the years. I cherish those moments with those I love, and the foods are a part of it all.

  25. I had a chocolate covered ant once-someone tricked me as I never turn down chocolate. It was bitter and a little crunchy.

  26. jend’isère

    Our native herbs spice us like our accents, no matter where we move. This is close to a recipe by my svärmor, or belle mère, doused in vinegar with dill.

  27. Like you Corey I am not keen on herring (Swedish pickled herring ugh)! However I also think I could be tempted with this receipe and am going to give it a try. Yes, how do French women manage to stay so slim with all the lovely food they cook/bake, what is their secret? I wish I knew.

  28. Judy B. – Texas

    Living on the Gulf Coast (Texas), fresh oysters are abundant (in season)…however, I can’t stomach the raw down the hatch method of eating them…love them fried or baked. On a dare, I tried a raw oyster…kept it down…but never again! Never had herring but I would at least sample it if served.

  29. I get many emails a day. So many I cannot read them all. But I never miss a day of Tongue in Cheek. Even though all of them are retrievable on your website I always feel a little sad to hit the delete key after reading each day. It is as though the tie is broken and I do so want it to linger. Merci Corey for all the beautiful images and the talent to combine them with perfection.

  30. Being of french descent, I think I have almost inherited the french ways of cooking! I might have absorbed it while listening to my aunts, grandmother, and mom, while talking to them and helping them in the kitchen! I would love to walk among all the great small kitchens of france where so much of that originated!

  31. I lived in Paris and feel cheated I didn’t have a Belle Mere cooking for me … even though I ate well, there’s much to be said about being served by the loving hands that did it all, especially for you! And yum … beet and potato salad is excellent! Make it all the time … even my picky eater takes seconds.

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