Three Men at Lunch

Port cassis

 

The town of Cassis, I have written about it many times on my blog, is a little pearl of a town. Situated between Marseille and St. Tropez, on the Mediterranean sea. Unlike Marseille it is small and quaint. Unlike St. Tropez it is not ultra chic. It is simply a pearl for whoever ventures down the road dotted with vineyards and searches for a parking place.

Restaurants dot the port, small shops sell there wares, the beach is a stone throw away, and glorious trails for every type of day tripper.

The walk-way follows the outline of the small port, sea on one side, restaurants and shops on the other side.

This cold, but blue January afternoon three men sat in their boat.

 

Oursin

They had their "oursins" (urchins in English), bottle of white wine, baguette, silver spoons and beakers.

Sharing a meal in simple style.

My friend Sandra asked if we could take their photo. The man answered, "Sure, but you must promise me you will frame it in a gilded frame, put it by your bedside. Also put a vase by it, but not with roses, only a pink carnation. Promise?" Then he laugh teasingly and went back to his lunch.

 

 

 

Picnic on a boat

 

The day went by. But my thoughts remain sitting by the man in the little boat in Cassis. I wonder why he insisted on a pink carnation. I know I am funny like that… one word, one tiny gesture, a sidewise smile seems to flutter inside of me longing for meaning. French men do not just throw out words, they speak with a purpose, even when teasing. Especially three men dining on oursins in a small boat. Too romantic… a gilded frame, a silver spoon, a red scarf wrapped around his neck, and beakers… who brings beakers these days?

 

Oursins with white wine

 

When we returned home, I went upstairs, grabbed the book off the shelf, "Language of Flowers", looked up pink carnation and read: "Never forget me."

"Oh, I won"t Mr. Man in the Boat at Cassis," then I winked to myself, "But the gilded frame is my blog."



Comments

43 responses to “Three Men at Lunch”

  1. This is one reason why American women find French men so charming.

  2. I absolutely love this story!!! Thank you for sharing.

  3. What a charming story! So nice of you to share to share your secret spot, that is “small and quaint and not so chic”. A place I now must see.
    Gina

  4. This is what I love about your blog!Always learning…I never knew that you could eat the interior of sea urchins! Did they eat them raw like oysters? Yuck!! Pink carnation..what a lovely thought. You meet so many interesting people; your camera is a great way to introduce yourself to various environments and people. Thank you, again, for letting us join you on today’s adventure.

  5. Lordy these people know how to live!

  6. Wonderful. Cassis is now on my list of places I’d like to visit someday. Love the men in the boat and his request.

  7. This post is why I LOVE your blog!

  8. OH! (clapping hands in delight) This was a wonderful story. Happy Sunday and thank you! Pink carnations to you! – Kathy

  9. You have a wonderful way of bringing stories to life all the way across the ocean. Such a talent!
    Now I’m adding Cassis to my list of “must see” places. It looks so much like Coronado where I live, but the fishermen sound absolutely enchanting!

  10. What a fabulous story!
    (I’m so glad you ran home and looked up the meaning of a pink carnation. It’s such a Corey thing to do.)

  11. Aaaah, Corey,
    only you find such extraordinary glimpses of life!
    Three men in a boat, I am smitten.
    Now I need to check when the next plane leaves ….. 😉

  12. Brenda L from TN

    Absolutely enjoyable…
    This is why we all come here everyday…new people who tell you the most intimate things…beautiful photography…breathtaking scenery…and your wonderful words…I have the most enjoyable time…Thank you.

  13. Actually… I can see that little arrangement in my mind… and it’s lovely.

  14. I’m tempted to print the picture, put it in a gold frame alongside a vase with pink carnations next to my bed. Perhaps as a beacon that someone will never forget me someday. Romance abides when we look for it. Thanks as ever, Corey, for sharing.

  15. This is what I miss about Europe – three men brought silver spoons and beakers on a boat, not paper or plastic plates and plastic utensils. Simple yet elegant.
    “Three men in a boat (to say nothing of the dog)” by Jerome K Jerome :-).

  16. You can see the beauty in everything, a charming skill for a charming lady. Don’t forget the gilded frames, my friend, we love those too.

  17. I love that picture. I love that there is a mix of generations. I love that these men are sitting in a little blue and white boat, on a cold day, just enjoying each other’s company. Chatting, eating and drinking.
    Don’t forget…to enjoy the simple pleasures of life.

  18. What an encouragement to walk every day with a heart fully alive – am currently reading ‘ Waking the Dead ‘ by John Eldridge.
    My list of places to see in France continues to grow – thanks, Corey, hope to meet you in 2012!!

  19. Lovely. Thanks so much. E

  20. For a token of time, all I could do was close my eyes, smile, and drift off to Cassis. I needed to breathe the same air, smell the same Mediterranean Sea village, and know this man-beautiful French man with words of purpose. Corey, you eased the pressures of my day and took me on a wonderful journey. Thank you.

  21. Oh, how I hope he sees this post! It will far surpass the gilded frame in his eyes, I am sure!… Donna

  22. My very best friend visited Cassis 2 years ago and she loved it, especially the gelato that was shaped into flowers. I wanted to go for the gelato alone. I loved the European way of life, any day is a great day to break bread with your friends. Unlike like us Americans who have to get everything all dolled up before “company” comes. I love this lifestyle! Thank you Corey for this fab story!

  23. Elaine L.

    It would seem that French men are definitely in touch with their feminine side. They must be great lovers.
    ~elaine~

  24. Oh Corey, you brought back so many memories! In 1985 my (then) husband and I landed in Paris, took the bullet train to Marseilles and spent the first two nights in a Relais and Chateau hotel that was heaven. We drove along the coast, stopping in Cassis which was pure heaven. Went on to Nice and then back through Grasse and then home. It was a magical trip and I will never forget those 10 days, I wish it could have been more. Thank you for reminding me of the wonderful memory!

  25. Sue from Seattle

    charming place, charming story thanks!!

  26. joanne nixon

    hmmmm…so a pink carnation means…don’t forget me….how charming….i am sure you will not forget him….i probably won’t forget this either…it is too sweet to forget…

  27. Corey, do black currants (or at least black currant liqueur) come from Cassis, France? We have black currant bushes in our garden, from which Farmboy Husband has made wine in the past, even fortified wine!

  28. jend’isère

    Your appearance with photos and comments was enough to distract the trio’s immersion in culinary sensations!
    Or rather…
    Rub-a-dub-dub,
    Three men in a tub,
    And how do you think they got there?
    The butcher, the baker,
    The candlestick-maker,
    They all jumped out of a rotten potato,
    ‘Twas enough to make a man stare

  29. Yes it does.
    Just like Champagne comes from Champagne.
    Burgundy wine comes from Burgundy.
    Haut Medoc wine comes from Haut Medoc.
    Roquefort Chesse from Roquefort.
    Etc.
    Though Tongue in Cheek comes from my imagination and wanderings.

  30. It is Monday morning – make that Monday, eleven o’clock – and I am willing myself to be transported into that little boat anchored in Cassis. I am close to transform myself into a million pixels to speed the journey up. Just wait and see! *swoosh*

  31. Zosia; it must be a European way of doing things. You know I even BOUGHT (cheap) glasses when travelling in France and I couldn’t get those (as well….) in my suitcase! I ALWAYS insist that we picnic in style; it enhances the joy and pleasure tremendously. And a beaker or glass you can bring again and again; and when I went home, after the last outdoor meal, I would leave them on a rock or a bench for somebody else to enjoy… together with maybe leftovers… Love, Kiki

  32. Corey, THANK YOU for this delightful and simply charming Sunday treat…. Totally MY kind of treat too!
    Cassis is added to MY wish list now… – I have never ventured that much further than St Tropez!
    You know, that I am – to my own knowledge – the only woman who organised picnics in winter, on ships (in Switzerland, we have also winter cruises, not many…. and don’t you dare choosing a boat with a restaurant service, then it’s a no NO non…..)… Wonderful stuff!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Priceless photography – and I think if you could find a way to send the three copies of photos to the three men plus a link to your site, it would REALLY cheer them up no end.
    THANKS AGAIN!

  33. How wonderful! Pink carnation, I just love the poetry.

  34. I downloaded all my pictures of this wonderful afternoon and my French Friend turned out great (of course, because you took the picture). Currently looking for the gilded frame to pay proper homage. Will add your story to the back of the frame as I could not begin to tell it better.

  35. Thanks, Corey for another delightful story and amazing picture to brighten my morning! I, too, would love to be in that boat in Cassis!

  36. São Jorge [Azores] cheese
    San Francisco [California] sourdough bread
    Tillamook [Oregon] cheese
    [several states’] pure maple syrup
    (mind wandering)

  37. can’t beat Linda’s
    “romance abides when
    we look for it”…
    enchanted are we all
    merci beaucoup
    pour vous, Corey, Judy

  38. Lovely pink carnations and a simple story of sweetness.

  39. Lovely post today! French Men here are not always that way, but I can definitely see them eating fish in a boat!
    How lovely is the comment on the carnation! My grandmother embroidered Pansy motif on everything that she could! I love them, so my flower would say “Thoughts”! God Bless you, Corey!

  40. Thank you Corey, your writing is utterly charming.

  41. Good story, Corey. Goshdarnit, you need to write a book! Then it will be made into a movie starring Diane Lane or Julia Roberts!

  42. Marie-Noëlle

    I haven’t got this meaning in my book… Mine is hotter… !
    😉

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