Living the Moment

Love letters

 

Before I could sing "Happy Birthday" to Annie she was waving her hands at me in excitment saying, "My friend took me to mass at the Greek Orthodox church! And the priest let me bring some communion home."

Then she took my hand and led me to the kitchen, I sat at her table while she offered me the body and blood of Christ.

As I received communion, in thanksgiving for Annie's life, she hugged me and I burst into tears.

Years ago when my Mother and Father came to France to help me after I had cancer, (when my children were mere babies) and then after a several weeks they prepared to leave and go back home to California, I was sad. I didn't want them to leave, and I told  them so. My Mother knew Annie live down the road from me, she saw a friendship blooming she said to me, "Be kind to Annie, show her your friendship. Whenever you help Annie, or show her love know that we are there too. Whatever you do for Annie, you do it for us too."

It was the most loving advice to give, I knew that in loving Annie I was also sharing my love with my Mother and Father, and in doing that the gap between California and home felt smaller.

Annie thanks you for your amazing response yesterday. She was glowing as she told me, " I want to live to be a hundred, and I think I can because I feel so happy to be alive."

I told her if we were still alive I would throw her a party, and hire a band to march down the street.

Thank you for making her day extra special, I appreciated that you too feel Annie's beauty.

 

 

 

 



Comments

38 responses to “Living the Moment”

  1. Hmmmm, I think there is more than Annie’s beauty to feel.
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    Hi Cindy,
    Oh yes there certainly is. I am glad you know that too.
    C

  2. Keith R

    That was probably antidoron – bread which is blessed but not consecrated. It comes from the the loaves of bread (prosphora) from which portions are cut for consecration as the Eucharist. Portions of the prosphora not used for consecration are cut up for the antidoron and distributed after communion. It is shared with visitors who may not have received communion, and often the faithful bring pieces home to share with family who weren’t able to attend the Divine Liturgy.

  3. julieannevins@googlemail.com

    What a treasure Annie is to behold. There is something easy to reach out to in Annie, she is tactile, beautiful and I think a very wise and clever cookie. Your mum gave you a wise message as mum’s can. My mum similarly encourage my friendship with another special lady, my dear friend Shirley. I lost her too last year. Wish I had dear Annie down the road. She is precious cargo Coco so please wrap her up in cotton wool or as near as she will allow and aim for the sky. 120 is the new 100 you know ! I have just added a belated birthday greeting to Annie for yesterday, my luv always, Jxx

  4. The people we love are a gift, what a prize you have in each other. I am so glad it was a special day for her.

  5. What a beautiful way to spend the day. All I could think is that one day we’ll be able to share such a “feast” with our loved ones who are no longer with us.

  6. What a lovely Sunday morning message to start the day. Hugs to YOU and to ANNIE!

  7. Annie MUST live to be a hundred then! A band, marching down the street–wonderful and jubilant…no way can she miss out on that experience.

  8. Linda C.

    How lucky you are Corey to have 2 wonderful, wise women in your life…
    A mother who can tell her daughter to share her love, is truly a very special person.

  9. Annie bringing home the Body and Blood of Christ for you to receive, was truly the most beautiful gift ever.
    I know you realize the importance of Annie in your life! Especially now…You have been so truly blessed with her life, as she with yours.
    When you throw that party for Annie, I would love an invite. Life is so precious, and to celebrate it is the best!!!

  10. Dear Annie, Many wonderful wishes and memories wished to you for your birthday years ahead! My Mother is 92 and still enjoys fashion and food and family and looks forward to every day with a memory kept from each day. Happy Birthday Annie and stay young at heart !

  11. becky up a hill

    This is beautiful and rich…Happy Birthday to Annie!

  12. Joanne Tuchman

    I’m a little late in sending my birthday greetings to Annie, but please tell her that she is getting special prayers and good thoughts from Joanne in Thousand Oaks CA. She is truly a super star in the universe!!!

  13. So glad Annie had a wonderful birthday. God bless Annie God bless you
    Love Jeanne♥

  14. Another great lesson from Annie. I feel like I’m in school again because I learn so much from your blog! Thanks

  15. martina

    What a wonderful (and true) thing for your Mom to say. When you have the party, set an extra place setting, because I’ll be coming over to visit. Annie so reminds me of beloved Favorite Aunty, who is 95 years old!

  16. Denise Solsrud

    you are not the only one that cried. when i read that
    Annie was so happy to have the hosts,i instantly thought of my mom. my sisters bring her the body of christ,because of not being able to always get to mass. she was so elated, because she and we know how extremely important and such a gift. oh yes, life is good. Bless Annie and yourself. Bestest,Denise

  17. C, I am so sorry that I missed sending Annie my best wishes for a wonderful birthday. Unfortunately, I got sidetracked and this forget brain of mine let go of my follow thru as the day unwound. Could you please give this birthday wish to her? thank you.
    Annie Joyeux anniversaire!
    Annie Cher,
    Pendant de nombreuses années, j’ai lu des histoires merveilleuses de la cuisine, l’amour, et de rire entre vous et Corey. J’ai appris beaucoup de choses en lisant ces histoires d’être de vrais amis, aider un ami à comprendre le chemin de la vie, et la façon de vraiment aimer les uns les autres. Je pense que vous et Corey sont des professeurs merveilleux et je veux que vous sachiez que toutes ces leçons si la recette ou de révérence ont eu un impact de moi et de ma vie!
    Je suis désolé d’être un jour de retard à ce vœu d’anniversaire. . . J’espère que vous avez eu une journée incroyable.
    Que Dieu vous bénisse,
    Debra P.

  18. all because of you Corey and the love that you give. Because of your love and kindness, you attract the same. What a beautiful mother you have. Well done, mom!

  19. Annie! I am so sorry I missed THE day to send you Birthday greetings and yet I still want her to know that if one day a short, middle-aged hispanic (Tex-Mex) woman walks up to her with open arms and envelopes her in a hug….it is me. She is a dear soul whose love for you and for life, has crossed the wide ocean and touched me..She is a gift. Blessings to her on her birthday and always and Corey, I will also pitch in for that marching band…let’s plan on it.

  20. So beautiful, cant help to have little cry too.

  21. gloria p

    How fortunate you and Annie are to have each other. I hope she lives to 110 and that you do too. So much brocante, so little time….

  22. Happy birthday Annie…I am so lucky to have met you! You are very special to me and even more so because my grand baby girl- Klaire was born on your special day! Yesterday was her 1st birthday and my parents’ (who are now here from Guam) 58th wedding anniversary! See how very special your day is…I hope to see you again someday soon. With Love. Ladelle

  23. Elaine L.

    Corey, I had some eye issues and was told that I could not read for three weeks. I’m so glad to be back. I have a lot of catching up to do. I missed your whole return to China.
    Your mother gave you such wise unselfish advice that could only be born of her love for you. Mother’s are wonderful!
    ~elaine~

  24. patty g

    Such beautiful advice from your Mom! It brings tears to my eyes.
    Blessings to you and your family, and Annie and happy belated birthday wishes to Annie!

  25. Charles

    Happy Birthday Annie. Thank you Corey for giving me the release I needed.

  26. This brought tears to my eyes. Such a beautiful relationship. Happy belated birthday to Annie!!

  27. Violet Cadburry

    Joyeux Anniversaire — or something like that, my old high school french is fading, while you are blooming! Annie, you do not know how much I enjoy hearing about your life, what you do, what you think. I hope to be 92 someday and it will be reassuring to know what I am in store for. You have the bestest friend, who shares her joie di vivre (or something like that) with the songbirds of the winds who land at their homes and chirp us a snippet of love:)

  28. what an amazing friendship you have with Annie
    you are both so very lucky to have each other
    my mother in law always says
    that acquaintances are like pebbles, everywhere you look
    but true friends are like diamonds, rare and hard to find
    looks like you and Annie have a Diamond friendship

  29. Sue Morris

    Such special and loving advice from your Mum and Dad all those years ago……how lovely to have such a wonderful friendship as you have with Annie.
    Hugs.

  30. No wonder you miss your mother so much! This has been such a beatiful touching post. The wisdom is overpowering.
    “Il est très simple: on ne voit bien qu’avec le cœur. L’essentiel est invisible pour les yeux.”
    It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.
    The Little Prince

  31. aaah; there goes another tear of happiness down my cheek. What a way of telling a long-lasting friendship and what a great way of Annie sharing your special friendship you enjoy. And you’ve got such beautiful parents too. I still have my mother and I treasure her as much as I can because I know that in a short while I will have to do without her and a child is never quite ready to let mother go!
    We celebrated a Swiss friend’s – whom we met in England – 93rd birthday in February, here in Paris. Kind English friends brought her over to us and we visited Paris by car, Hero Husband took her for the desired tour of her long ago visited places and monuments, she could view everything from the comfort of our ‘bagnole’, we ate in the oldest brasserie nr Sacré Coeur – we sang Happy Birthday in our church and the choir sang a hymn she chose for her birthday – and we are still speaking about it because it made her day a special event. We MUST cherish our beloved ones, and we SHOULD enjoy every beautiful moment of our life – you too KNOW that the time we spend here is short in comparison to eternity so we might as well make the best of it.
    Gros bisous pour toi ♥ Corey et Annie ♥ – encore une fois!
    Kiki
    ♪♫•*¨*•.¸¸♥ ¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪

  32. Book the marching band today, and show Annie the contract often. My grandfather lived to be 102. On his 100th he arm wrestled all who dared challenge him.

  33. Fabulous and heart touching post!

  34. I’m so sorry for being late, please give Annie my very best wishes, and tell her I’ll keep her in my thoughts to help her reach her goal!

  35. What a precious, precious story. What wonderful words your mother gave you, and excellent advice. I feel like I missed a gala event, reading the post for Annie’s birthday…Happy Birthday dear lady!!

  36. It was YOU that introduced us to an Amazing Annie. Your Mother is a very smart woman, she mended your heart and opened it at the same time.

  37. Better late than never, Bom Aniversário para a Annie!
    I only regret that I didn’t get to meet her (or housesitter extraordinaire Sophie, for that matter) during our recent visit to Coreyland. Of course, I keep reminding myself that Annie’s a private person, not a tourist attraction ;-)))

  38. A happy belated birthday to Annie! She has affected my life more than she will know, as have you, Corey. Keep on celebrating!

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