A Christmas Tradition with Annie

Street in France

 

 

With her list in hand, we went.

Her pace was slow but steady.

Annie knew what she wanted, which made it simple.

I calculated the time we left after the rush hour and would return home before noon. That was the goal.

We went to a one-stop shop…. easy in, easy out.

 

 

Christmas lights in france

 

Annie notices everything:

The fashion tendencies, the "it" color of the season, how people are dressed, little children, prices, her energy level, what building has been renovated, how the village hung the Christmas lights, if there is gum on the ground…

Her wit, attention to detail, desire for life, and her entire way of being fascinate me.

 

 

Christùas in france (street)

We walked arm in arm.

Annie recently bought a cane. Not because she needs one but because it gives her security; she said, "I walk faster when I am holding on to something."

Since she had my arm, she left her cane.

 

 

French christmas decor

 

Annie asked why I wasn't buying anything. I told her that we were not exchanging gifts as we were going away for Christmas. "The cruise is the gift."

It will be the first time in years that I won't prepare Christmas dinner, and the idea was refreshing. No Christmas list, crowds, wrapping, shopping, or dishes. I hoped it became a new tradition.

 

 

Christmas wheat St. Barbe
(Last year's Sainte Barbe.)

 

The only Christmas traditions I have followed this year are putting up the tree, setting up the nativity, planting the Saint Barbe, and taking Annie Christmas shopping.

Sainte Barbe

On December 4th, the feast of Sainte Barbe, the first Provençal Christmas tradition, takes place in France.
Growing wheat.   
First, you find a plate or box, or something that is waterproof, to place your wheat grains to grow. Then, moisten cotton on the bottom of your container or object of choice. Next, you thickly scatter grains of wheat on the moistened cotton. You can use moss to scatter your grains, which seems chic! I have traditionally used cotton. Every other day you will need to wet the cotton holding the grains until you see they're full-grown. Also, the grains need to be by indirect sunlight.
The outcome of the wheat is said to be a symbol of the harvest to come. If the grains germinate and sprout beautifully, it is said that the harvest will be bountiful. If the grain shoots are immature and yellow, poor harvests are predicted! If nothing happens well, maybe you overwatered it, or didn't have it close to a source of light, or your grains were old; nevertheless, it isn't a good sign as far as symbols are concerned. It is also said that the growth of the shoots predicts your good fortune for the year to come.
The sprouting grains of wheat are used to decorate the table at Christmas or the creche (nativity scene.) You can see plates of growing wheat in shops, homes, and schools; everyone has a mini wheat field growing, even the post office.
Annie used to take hers and plants it in a nearby wheat field, and she said that is also part of the tradition.
 
What Christmas traditions are you following or breaking?

 

 

 

 

Joyeux noel

 

With Annie on one arm and her packages on the other, we walked out of the shop, surprised to feel how warm it was outside. Annie slept on the way home.

 



Comments

49 responses to “A Christmas Tradition with Annie”

  1. Cynthia Rieth

    Corey, I’m taking my children on a cruise also this Christmas as I lost my husband over the summer and didn’t want us to be home alone…have a wonderful trip. Merry Christmas

  2. Cheryl ~ Casual Cottage Chic

    Okay, where did I miss the post about you and your family going on a cruise for Christmas??? How wonderful…we have several friends whose children are now grown and no longer at home, so they too go off on a cruise as their “gift” to one another. Sometimes family joins them, other times just alone, on a romantic cruise. Where are you going on your cruise??

  3. Merci for this beautiful walk, I enjoyed it so much, following your steps. The images are gorgeous, indeed, they took my breath away!
    Going on a cruise sounds like a dream Christmas!
    No cooking, no gifts. Santa would love it also, I’m sure,
    all he’d have to do was get a few new outfits, I suppose. 😉

  4. P.S.:
    I had never heard of growing wheat for Barbara’s day, because
    “traditionally in the German-speaking countries, particularly in Austria and the Catholic regions of Germany, a small cherry branch or sprig is cut off and placed in water on December 4th, Barbaratag (St. Barbara’s Day).” (info from this website, http://german.about.com/library/blbarbara.htm)
    I have a Persian/Iranian friend who grows wheat for the Persian New Year.

  5. http://german.about.com/library/blbarbara.htm
    (Sorry, I mangled the first link)

  6. We are also going on vacation for the entire Christmas break, 2 weeks! This is also the first time for us and I couldn’t be more excited. I am not decorating or cooking. I have also said more than once that I hope this becomes tradition. Have a great time. We leave in 2 days. Blessings, Kimberly

  7. Years ago I gave up on Christmas shopping because it felt sort of silly with only adults on the list (and a husband who hated to shop for me). I gave it a great deal of thought and we decided to not exchange gifts but to choose a charity and send a check in the amount we would have spent on all the gifts. The Magic was restored for us! It is great fun to think all year about which charity to donate to and the money goes to someone who really needs it. Works for us. So glad to hear about your plans. Enjoy!

  8. Mom used to bake cookies every holiday season but said after this last batch, she is retiring. I always buy advent calendars, put the nativity and santons set up on the buffet, twinkle lights on the front walkway arch. The ornaments are in a two tier wire basket thing because there is no tree. No big celebrations, just casual visits with friends and family.
    Have a wonderful time on the cruise!

  9. Corey,
    What city was this – it’s nice to see the city decorated for Christmas.
    By going on a cruise explains why you didn’t go be with your family during this sad time.

  10. Brenda L. from TN.

    What a lovely tradition! So glad Annie has you to help with her Christmas shopping. I understand about the “cane”….I use one when walking in the yard…
    Putting up a tree and decorating it and putting a Nativity scene at the foot is mainly “my” tradition.
    Have a great vacation/cruise!

  11. My new tradition is to hand out to my guests, wrapped gifts of candy, cookies and champagne, the three C’s.
    I love Annie stories, they are my favorite!
    It’s nice to see you and Annie enjoying this holiday season upon us.

  12. Thank you for writing about Annie.. I always smile when I think of your adventures with this dear lady..and am a bit envious, as I think an Annie in everyone’s life would keep them grounded in reality.
    My very best wishes for a lovely time on the cruise..and please wish Annie a very Merry Christmas from me..

  13. We have very few traditions. We put up a tree…exchange gifts…and I bake Christmas cookies. That’s about it.

  14. Lorretta from NH

    Our tradition will be a follow up of the Baby Jesus post. My son is now at home from Afghanistan and the Army. Medically/Retired and it is going to be the best Christmas in eight years. HE, along with his son, will be placing Baby Jesus in the manger on Christmas morning this year, to continue our tradition.
    You have such a special love and relationship with your dear friend. You are both very lucky in sharing this feeling.

  15. cynthia wolff

    yeah no traditions but a tree, etc.etc. etc. sounds like you do more than me
    without your traditions than me. I really don’t have any. I think it comes from
    not having children. I’m slowly adding things however. Since blogging …I get
    into the spirit.
    Your traditions seem to be getting outta Dodge.

  16. Jean(ne) P in MN

    My Marseille-born husband brought all these lovely traditions to add to ours. The wheat, the 13 desserts, and especially, the santons in an elaborate creche that got bigger each year. Lots of good memories for our children and the neighborhood. I loved
    Christmas in Provence. Do you make the little lamp from a tangerine peel?

  17. that Annie is such a treasure. do you suppose if possible,could we see a photo of Annie when she was a young lady? i think that would be such a treat. Bestest,Denise

  18. This will be the first Christmas I will spend with my family in Poland in many years. I am happy about it. At the same time, I will miss my friends from Canada with whom I’ve been spending the Christmas Eve and whom I saw over the Holiday season for the past 20 years.

  19. Color me irreverent, but when I was scrolling down today’s post and reached the 5th photo, I thought it must be a French Chia Pet ;-))) Bad Kathie!

  20. you warm my heart with your stories Corey; Annie makes me think of my mum who is nearly, very nearly blind but ‘sees’ more than many a seeing person…. And same as Annie she’s not afraid to ‘call a cat a cat’….
    Absolutely adore this post – but then I do most of your postings!
    In Switzerland we don’t know about the wheat day (4th Dec) but we ‘do’ (in fact, very few people do…) the Barbara-branch (see Merisi’s post). And here, in the whole of large extended Paris region, I don’t know a single person who does the Barb’s planting. It must be only alive in the more rural regions – good for you!
    We gave up ‘giving presents’ between adults years and years ago – but of course, we always, without fail, all come with some tiny, little, edible or just enjoyable ‘something’ – we just so love giving pressies! But we have now a few children in our family circle and they get something – of course!
    I personally try to write many, many, many and always very personal Christmas cards. I help throughout the year people, but I note that towards Christmas there is more help needed which puts my efforts of writing on the back burner. EVERY year I hope to be more up to date and I’m never – and it’s one ‘tradition’ I don’t want to scrap.
    We have a real, lovely smelling tree and my house is decorated, every year differently – we sing in various choirs and give concerts all along in December – but a cruise was never on the cards! Enjoy your time off and get fresh, restored, strengthened and come back with your lovely head full of new thoughts and hopes!
    Have a very merry Christmas, love – it’s good to have come across your blog – I bless that day.
    Kiki
    bisous pour toi et ton Mari Français…. et tes enfants… et Annie et tous ceux que tu aimes!

  21. 🙂
    you’re not irreverent but funny!!!!

  22. The wheat tradition is one I have not heard before. I do like growing wheat grass at Easter. It is pretty on your plate. I have a plate very similar, I think I will grow some wheat grass. Lovely tradition of taking Annie shopping. She is a special treasure. And where might you be cruising? I have only been on one cruise, but I loved it. Enjoy, enjoy, enjoy! I think I would have a difficult time not having a tiny gift for each one to surprise them.

  23. Rebecca from the pacific northwest

    I love your long descriptions, Kiki! Thanks for writing it all.

  24. Rebecca from the pacific northwest

    The most pressing question I have out of this post is:
    WHAT color is the “it” color of this season, that Annie commented on? Can’t wait to hear!
    I love the Annie stories — I want to be like her when I’m her age. Agree with another commenter that young photo(s) of her would be fun to see.

  25. Rebecca from the pacific northwest

    I haven’t had a tree for decades, but make an extensive nativity with hills and valleys, bridges, desert wastes and crocodiles and hippos and danger for the wisemen caravan to have to brave their way through; lots of sheep, shepherds, and a few santon townspeople (from Provence); Mary, Joseph and Jesus are lovely clay figures from Cairo. It’s a joy each year to make this and remember our childhood nativities (smaller and no zebras or silly creatures in those).
    And LOTS of vivid color twinkle lights, on timers to chase away the pacific northwest darkness!!

  26. I so love your Annie posts. And I love love love the photos with this one today!

  27. ellen cassilly

    We had our annual tree lighting party. I’ll send some pics. It was lovely. We will be spending the holidays in Belize. More on this later, Love and cheer, E

  28. Love these pictures – especially the birdcage-y cupola thing over the clock in the first picture!
    What a wonderful way to spend a day with an old friend!

  29. Shelley Noble

    Beautiful. I was thinking of Anne yesterday as my vegetable delivery box included cabbage. I thought of her teaching you to make her special stuffed cabbage leaves and the rose petal jam. I thought how nice it was to have a woman such as Anne in the world to teach you these things. And how nice of you to share her with all of us.
    Peace of the season to you both.

  30. The lights are beautiful!!!
    We put up our tree and drink eggnogg. 🙂
    A tradition we do at my grandma’s on Christmas
    eve is to track Santa.
    There is a site, and me and my cousins
    check and see where he is every few
    minutes. It is very fun! The site is called noradsanta.com

  31. Cheryl ~ Casual Cottage Chic

    Wonderful idea! No children or grandchildren in our house, and we buy during the year as needed, and don’t really say, “oh, let’s wait and get that for Christmas.” We do enjoy putting some boxes together for some very needing local families, and including little gifts for the children. Also, if you don’t mind “working” on Christmas, help out at a local “food kitchen” for Christmas dinner. Give back rathr than give to each other 😉

  32. Cheryl ~ Casual Cottage Chic

    Don’t feel badly…I thought Corey had finally gotten a kitten and was growing grass for it to chew on…..lol!

  33. Since we are going away to visit my father in NY, We did not put up the tree or decorate really… However, I did already buy and have shipped to NY Christmas Crackers! It’s an English tradition that I absolutely love! We do it every year much to my hubby’s dismay. Also, making a mince pie is something I will try to do this year too!

  34. A friend of our family from the Madeira Islands used to grow wheat in December to place in his very elaborate Christmas creche.
    You are very fortunate to have Annie in your life, but I can tell from your blogs that you know that already. Joyeux Noel!

  35. These pictures are beautiful, Corey. We put up a tree, I always try to knit someone at least one gift, we read The Night Before Christmas, put the Nativity out, and I always make divinity for my neighbor and for my father. I also try to read A Christmas Memory by Truman Capote – my favorite Christmas book.Oh! I almost forgot, my kids and I always scream our version of Michael Jackson’s Santa Claus is Coming to Town. Not our favorite, but it makes us laugh so. We also drive to my parents for Christmas morning every year.
    Tradition lost, making a magnolia garland for the front door. Can’t do it all!
    Enjoy your cruise. I know it will be wonderful.
    carol

  36. I love the Christmas tree. The lights how they glow in the house and give it a warm feel. We just decorated it last night without the aid of alcohol and there was no bickering.

  37. A cruise uhu? I’d like a Christmas tradition like this! And I like so much the decorations of your village….. and Annie’s spirit!

  38. Blessings and much love to you and Annie and all your family. Have fun on your cruise.
    Love Jeanne

  39. I would love to have been able to “run into” you and Annie as you walked and shopped arm-in-arm!

  40. There is an interesting twist to this tradition. I have heard it represents the following story: On the flight to Egypt Joseph, Mary and Jesus were being pursued by Herod’s soldiers. The Holy Family passed a wheat field where the farmer was sowing his seeds. Joseph told the farmer that when Herod’s troops arrived and the farmer was asked if he had seen the family – the farmer was to say “Yes, they passed here on the day I planted this wheat”. Three days later, Herod’s soldiers stopped the farmer and asked if he had seen the family. He replied as Joseph had instructed him. The soldiers were very disappointed and turned back – the wheat was fully grown and there was no way the troops could catch up to the family. The wheat tradition is to celebrate this miracle that allowed the Holy Family to escape. Has Annie ever heard this story? Cool, huh?

  41. Wished I was Christmas shopping with you both. Big hug to Annie. Nine pictures, Corey, is this in Aix?

  42. Lisa DeNunzio

    Hi Corey. We are not actually breaking a Christmas tradition, but making a change this year. Heresy, some might say (or is that only my sister-in-law). For the 35 years that I have lived in Coral Gables we have celebrated with my husband’s family at their home. This year, as my father-in-law is approaching 90 we decided to more the venue to our home. The tradition that no one wants to change is that the men cook the entire dinner. Merry Christmas to you and your family. I’m sure you will find the cruise fun and relaxing.
    Best, Lisa

  43. Amy Kortuem

    My traditional hectic December of harp playing got crammed into the first two weeks of the month this year. I’m not playing at anything now until Christmas Eve.
    I feel lost. Restless. Performing Christmas carols on the harp for the cats in the living room isn’t the same as being part of a party or church service or special event…
    I asked Mom what I should do for the next 10 days. She suggested: “Wrap presents and bake cookies like normal people do.”
    Normal people. Thanks Mom.

  44. everton terrace

    We are also going away for Christmas and it’s our first time. I didn’t even send out Christmas cards – a first for me – and I’m kind of in heaven. I keep feeling like I should be rushing around crossing things off my list but I realize, I don’t realize have a list and it makes me smile. The best part will be no dishes!

  45. Victoria Ramos

    I remember my Portuguese grandmother Luisa did something similar around her statues of baby jesus under glass domes – a little shrine – at christmas.

  46. Rebecca from the pacific northwest

    Our break with tradition this year is that we aren’t going to the airport on Christmas day, flying to see my husband’s family as we’ve done for many, many years. We just saw them at Thanksgiving, and husband will fly to see his aging dad in January.
    I am ecstatic at just staying home this year!

  47. My only regret from my recent trip is that I didn’t get to meet Annie.

  48. Marie-Noëlle

    Corey, have you seen all the “Santa’s helpers” on the wires while you were shopping ???
    Hope you’ve behaved so that you can enjoy your cruise thoroughlly !!! 😉
    xo

  49. Nancy from Mass

    I always put up my Creche before my tree. I also have a piece of cloth acting as a blanket for baby Jesus. (My brother started that years ago when he stuffed a dish towel in the creche to cover baby Jesus because he thought the baby might be cold.) I have a little piece of quilters cotton with stars on it for my Jesus. Also, my mother handed down her collection of Personnes de Santonne to me so I have decorated my mantle with the little people.

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