Rose and the Love Letter

 

 

Old Letters in a Parchment Notebook

 

 

In a box at a French flea market,
Dusty and forgotten.
Memories slept close to one another-
Silently dreaming in another place and time.

 

 

Old Letters in a Parchment Notebook

 

Once cherished.

Placed carefully.

Peeked at when the heart ached, or feelings surged.

Those secrets, those cherished bits of papers, the letters from someone she held close.

 

 

 

Old Letters in a Parchment Notebook

 

Years ago, when I was around nineteen years old, I took care of an elderly woman who was housebound.

A beautiful woman who had a house stuffed with beautiful old things. Nevertheless, her curtains were closed and her stacks of fine dishes stored in the basement.

The summer I took care of her, her housekeeper/guardian went away for a three month holiday. As soon as I walked in Rose told me, "I have my meals served on a TV tray right here in front of the TV. Here is my checkbook and car keys you can buy whatever you want to make me for my meals and charge it to my account."

I looked around at her lovely old home and thought out loud, "Why?"

She said, "Why, What?"

"Why take your meals in front of the TV?" I asked, "Your home is beautiful!"

She shrugged, "It is easier."

I frowned, "For you or for me?"

She sadly replied, "For you since I do not move very well."

As I was nineteen and full of vinegar and honey I said, "We will have lunch on the terrace today. So you can use that walker… come on, I'll help you get up, let's give it a try."

Rose grump-ed, "Oh no! It is okay right here in front of the TV. I don't want to bother you."

"If you want lunch you will have to meet me on the terrace." With that I turned and walked towards the kitchen to prepare the meal.

 

The kitchen! Had floor to ceiling cupboards, a breakfast nook, and a basement FULL OF LOVELY THINGS!!! I ran out to the living room and nearly hyperventilated with excitement saying to Rose, "Oh my God, we will have breakfast tomorrow in the breakfast nook, lunch everyday outside or on the porch, and dinner in the dining room! Can I use any of the dishes you have? And the linens can I use them? And the teacups!!!! Can we have tea too? And, and, and why do you have the curtains closed?"

I am afraid Rose didn't know what to do with a girl like me.

She laughed and said, "Use whatever you like. The curtains are closed because the windows are dirty, and I don't want to move to eat my lunch."

"I'll wash the windows," I threw the curtains opened, "And we are NOT eating in front of the TV even if I have to drag you to the dining room to prevent it, or throw the TV out."

Rose's eyes opened wide. Then she laughed out loud.

 

 

 

Old Letters in a Parchment Notebook

 

 

I drove her car.

Went to the grocery store everyday.

Bought delicious treats, and made meals for Queen Rose.

We became fast friends.

She wrote poetry.

Her cupboards were a treasure chest.

Tea was served in sweet teacups.

Meals on different china plates each day.

I stuffed the sugar bowls with sugar cubes, and the cookie jars with my mother's cookies, and her silver trays with cakes.

Rose sparkled, so did the windows… and her garden provided flowers galore for every inch of her home.

I loved every day with Rose. Her home was a wonderland.

 

 

Old Letters in a Parchment Notebook

 

Rose was a storyteller. She had lived a beautiful life and was left crippled by an infected mosquito that left her tongue hanging out and made it difficult for her to talk… though once she got to know you she never let your ear grow cold.

One day she told me she had secret love letters from a boyfriend who had died.

"I never could throw them away." She said, then continued, "If you go to bedroom, in the closet, there is a trunk, in the trunk there is a box… can you bring it to me?"

In the box there was a letter.

Love poured out as she held it in her hands, "I haven't held it in years…" she cried.



Comments

61 responses to “Rose and the Love Letter”

  1. Such beautiful handwriting!
    Do you know when the letters were written?
    Greeting from feels-like-spring-Vienna,
    Merisi

  2. Wow!
    so very captivating. great bedtime story. goodnight dear lady.
    *

  3. jend’isère

    If you did not add years to Rose’s life, you enriched them, as well as my afternoon. Could you continue with a little from that love letter or others of her life?

  4. Lovely story, Corey. You were lucky to find each other.

  5. I know you made that woman happy, and bless you for enriching her life. I can relate to her story of the love letters…sometimes there is a special person from out past we simply cannot let go of, nor should we. Our past and those who occupied it help shape who we are today. A wonderful story!

  6. I love your story , so captivating . I love this name Rose .Your post echoes to mine . Have you seen the mail box I bought

  7. That is by far the most touching post I have ever read. Doubtless, Rose was instrumental in your future path towards all things beautiful and the brocante bug.
    I have never understood how people (Rose is excused from this) who had wonderful china, glassware, etc., could just let them languish and not use them. I cannot abide the expression, ‘I don’t want to fuss’. Fuss, I say. Enjoy life and all its beautify. Dust off those tea cups, shake out that tablecloth and LIVE.
    My best, Lisa, La Dolce Villa http://ladolcevilla.net

  8. You, too, are a wonderful storyteller, Corey. What a sweet life you gave you “old dear” and I bet she truly missed you as caregiver when her other helper came back. I was glad you kept friends with her after you weren’t caring for her anymore. A clear example of bringing joy into a life.

  9. Such a beautiful story!
    It makes me want to go and open windows everywhere. The only problem is it is so cold outside.
    At least for few minutes.

  10. Catherine

    Reading this, you remind me of your friend Annie.

  11. don’t leave us hanging…we want more…please continue the Rose story…

  12. Beautiful.

  13. I feel like I’m reading a book that will become a Lifetime movie!
    Sometimes I think I’ve lead quite a boring life.
    You meet the most fascinating people.
    I cannot wait to read more.

  14. Ok. You are on to something here. Totally a book in the making. Seriously Corey … This is your big one. The way you are telling this is so wonderful. . I see best seller and a movie deal!

  15. What a lovely story!

  16. christine

    Wow this made me cry it was so beautiful….thank you for this lovely story. It’s a grey day and snowing here and made it just a bit brighter!
    Christine

  17. So many blessings – to have wonderful people in our lives, to choose to see beauty and to encourage others to do the same. j

  18. I too have those EX-VOTO!The hand and the man.
    That was a truly gorgeous story!Thanks for sharing it!

  19. Kimberly

    Magical! Blessings, Kimberly

  20. Blaahh! Waaahhhhhhh! I’m crying already. Corey, what a beautiful story. Write it up in short story / memoir form and publish it. Wouldn’t a publication like Victoria love something like this?

  21. deanna davis

    Oh Corey
    More Rose, more prose, more YOU!
    I want to read this in a book, watch a movie.
    What do you do in front of a camera?
    Oh Oprah! You’d better come look at this bloggess! Here is a great new project!

  22. A story straight from “Anne of Green Gables”! 🙂

  23. Brother Mathew

    That was a summer to remember. Corey had us all over for fun meals with Rose. She was a very nice lady. Many good memories for sure w/ Rose. Thanks Corey.

  24. I loved this story. It really made my day. Thank you so much!

  25. Great pics:) I really like your blog..so much nice inspiration.
    I wish you a lovely weekend:)
    LOVE Maria at inredningsvis.se
    (Sweden)

  26. Brenda L. from TN.

    OH JOY!
    What a blessing …for you both…you to her and she to you! I can only imagine the FUN you had in that house!
    Everyone is right! Corey, YOU MUST WRITE A BOOK!…It would make a wonderful movie as well….
    Anyone here with “connections”? MAKE THAT CALL!!

  27. This was a truly beautiful recollection. It speaks volumes of your fun loving character – even as a young person.
    Sadly,the knowledge and wisdom of older and disabled people is often overlooked. They are the true treasures.
    Thank you for your continued inspiration.
    P.S. The good china is coming out of that cabinet!!!
    CARPE DIEM!

  28. You will, of course, tell us more; about Rose, her house, your meals, the china, the letter . . .

  29. Corey, I think of rose often, since I live across the street from her home. I’m often invite to have a glass of wine with the owners. We have alot of memories of Rose. She’d be happy to hear your stories.

  30. Annie v.

    Rose was a lucky soul to have you around, usually young people are not interested in the old.
    Annie v.

  31. Thanks to you..
    I opened my windows,
    washed my floors,
    opened a cookbook,
    bought some flowers,
    and wore heels today.

  32. Rebecca from the pacific northwest

    What a wonderful story! Rose must have been so sad when your summer with her came to an end. And her erstwhile caretaker must have been apoplectic and bust a gut to discover her easy, shiftless, slipshod life with Rose had been disrupted.
    No wonder you love old things — you were around them then and were drawn to them even then. Including, and especially, Rose herself.
    PS. DID you keep up with her after that summer? Ah, callousness of youth, I had a fascinating, eccentric old lady friend for one summer, and I never went back to visit her once I went back to college in the fall…

  33. Rebecca from the pacific northwest

    I love hearing that other friends/family of Corey’s also knew Rose, Julie. How old was she when she died?

  34. C, wonderful memory put to words, but it doesn’t surprise me that you had such an experience. You are a giver, and have been giving your whole life. I can’t imagine how you must have made Rose feel. I know how I feel reading your blog – it’s such a gift of friendship each day, and I give you nothing in return. So thank you.
    On another note: I am finally getting to Paris in October, and I would give anything to meet you & give you a great big hug.
    xoxo

  35. Hi. I would love to hear more about Rose. What happened when her old caretaker came back? You certainly brightened her life. I agree that this would make a wonderful book.
    I used to visit a very old woman as part of an organization called LITA (Love is the Answer). When I’d come into the nursing home and see her from a distance she looked like a tiny pale sunken woman in a wheelchair. When I’d greet her, she would spark right up and sit up and she was very animated and full of stories. …A caring visitor can make a huge difference in an elderly person’s quality of life.

  36. More proof that you are an exceptional woman. So moving a story.

  37. beautiful story … and the rest of it…..please!

  38. denisesolsrud@hotmail.com

    oh, that was wonderful,just like a fairy tale and it had much attention. i hope you continue. Bestest,Denise

  39. Oh Corey, this made me sob big crocodile tears. My Gram was Rose. She was engaged to a man who died in WW1. She married my Grandfather on the rebound. When she was bed ridden from cancer, I would stay with her. I would weed her gardens. She would tap on the window and point to ones I missed. 😉 We had tea in my Great Gram’s tea cups. I took her to town. To see the bakery were she worked, to visit the variety store where she sold her berries and veggies. We bought yarn for a hat for my brother. (I finished it 10 years after she died.) Your story took me back to the sunny porch where we watched the geese and pheasant hunt for grain. Thank you. I feel so touched and happy to have traveled back in time because of you. Please, tell us more about your Rose.

  40. pam in oregon

    What a lovely story, and how well you tell it. I think you have many gifts, but the story about Rose and your friend Annie are told with such love and appreciation for past generations and life as it was then. You live a very blessed life and are such a blessing to countless others. You inspire me to live a more beautiful life and to find others who could use some cheering as well. Thank you!

  41. Corey – What a lovely reminder that life is to be lived in the present, not stored away in boxes or preserved for “someday.” Blessings!

  42. oh, mon amie — such a story. more, s’il vous plait.

  43. Wonderful…. More please….

  44. A very touching story of Rose…I love your storytelling Corey, exceptional!

  45. Linda G.

    Thank you for your story of Rose. It’s a good reminder that everyone — absolutely everyone — has an interesting story to tell. I have a friend who is 82 and has the spirit and enthusiasm of a young woman. When I go to her home I am mesmerized by her flair for color, her primitive art, and her exquisite placement of all her treasures. She stands beautifully tall, with her long silver hair always in a graceful up-do. The first time I met her she was wearing black leather pants, and though that might sound all wrong for a woman her age, she carried it off with great elan’. If I am making her sound too cooly sophisticated, I am sorry. She is the epitome of warmth and kindness, and I can only hope to be half as alive and involved with life when I am her age!

  46. We have so much to learn from the elderly. Hey wait! That includes me. Oh the stories I could tell. I am so glad I still remember the wild loves of my youth.

  47. Blimey that’s fabulous! I’m dying to hear more. What a special and enchanted lady she seems to me. And what a blessing you must have been to her *heart swelling* Vanna

  48. What a wonderful touching story, like always when a heart meets another heart!

  49. Rosemary

    Corey, what a truly hearwarming post, although I am Rosemary I am also Rose to many of my firends and family, so feel the connection. We have to know more of course, I was there with you thru the post walking hand in hand and we have to know more. Absolutely beautiful, beautiful, yes she was lucky to have you, and you her. You have a very beautiful soul.

  50. How absolutely lovely 🙂

  51. How enchanting indeed.
    Love is the strongest force in the universe.
    Kindness the highest form of wisdom.
    Too many when they are ill or old or quickly forgotten
    and in need of so much care and love.
    Thanks for all you did for Rose…………
    She probably had the best time of her life while in your care.
    God’s most richest blessings for those that love us well♥
    Love Jeanne♥
    How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant of the weak and the strong — because someday you will have been all of these.
    George Washington Carver
    US horticulturist (1864 – 1943)

  52. I so hope this is a “more later” story! What did the letters say? What happened to the boyfriend? What happened to rose? I hope you have her old love letters-I can’t think of a more fitting “keeper” than you…

  53. Catherine

    What a beautiful story. Please, tell more.

  54. How lovely. You’ve touched my heart once again, Corey, with your recollections of Rose. Bless her heart, I think all of us like-minded souls can identify with her in some way. All of us have surely tucked away some memento that holds both joy and pain—and even have something dear to us that we can’t seem to use anymore because of heartache now connected to it. I’m reminded too that handwritten letters are truly an extension of the writer and thus are precious indeed. They emit emotion that lingers on them throughout years and gently touch the reader—a printout of an email message cannot compare. Bless your heart also, Corey, for sharing your thoughts and wonderful photos with us daily.

  55. Marie-Noëlle

    Sweet.
    Moving.
    Exciting.
    Refreshing.
    Blissful.
    Roseful.
    Rose.
    Full.
    Thank you.
    While I was reading your story, I felt I was watching the beginning of a film script.
    Thank you again.

  56. Dear Corey,
    I didn’t comment yesterday, but I sent a link to your post off post haste to my sweet cousin. She is 22 and is taking care of my wonderful 98 year old grandma (who mostly stays in bed) five days a week, 24 hours a day right now. She is having a ball serving Grandma with her lovely dishes and linens. My Grandma’s place reminds me of Rose’s. I spent a lot of time there as a child. My sister and I used to play house and dress up with the real thing!
    Have a fun and safe trip,
    Sara

  57. Corey, You have a million stories all wrapped up in one life! It’s like you’ve lived a million lives in one. You are really special. I love the way you think about such things. This particular story reminds me of the movie “The Holiday” and you would be Kate Winslet here, the old Hollywood filmmaker Rose. Cheesy perhaps, but old Hollywood and lovely. Have you seen it?

  58. Angela Vular

    Oh my this is wonderful! Please tell us more. I feel like I am reading a wonderful book and I can see the house, the china, Rose, and the young caregiver. My imagination is soaring…what mysteries do the letters hold…what was Rose’s life like as a young woman???

  59. Corey; the previous 58 people probably said all the same things I am feeling reading your post now….
    So touching that I coulnd’t even reply! You’re such an accomplished story teller and you’ve got such a wonderful, great and open heart. And ROSE; one has to love her! It’s hard to believe but I know people like Rose too; they don’t value themselves enough to treat themselves the way they should! It’s sad really but it’s also extremely wonderful and beautiful.
    I don’t know how many times I’ve given similar advice to friends with this ‘can’t be bothered’ attitude. How can you be good for the others if you don’t allow yourself to be good for your own body/soul/heart. It’s heart-breaking and a great lesson for us all how you have handled transformed Rose

  60. sorry, it seems that the comments are NOT allowing codes, I meant to ‘stroke through’ the word ‘handled’ and bring out in strong writing ‘transformed’….
    Love you Corey 🙂
    Kiki
    http://www.flickr.com/photos/vol-au-vent/

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