The Fire That Happened While I Was Gone

rooftops French Village by Corey Amaro

 

 

A few weeks ago, when I first arrived back home in California, French Husband called, my mom answered the phone. By the sound of her voice I knew something wasn't right.

 

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She said, "Hi Yann. Oh no. Really? No. What? How? Oh my God. Oh no… let me pass the phone to Corey."

I wondered: What else could happen! It had been a to-the-edge-of-the-cliff-type-of-year. Which included our friend Thierry's battle with bi-polar ism, the apartment in Paris leaks and near fire, Annie's illness, My mother in law's stroke, an avalanche, Yann's car accident…

 

Postcards from a French Village by Corey Amaro

 

My mother casually passed the phone to me saying, "Your house had a fire and you lost everthing." Then she simply turned around and walked away.

 

 

Postcards on the way to Paris

 

 

I starred at her blankly as she went into the kitchen, was she is shock or just teasing me, "You're joking right?" I questioned her given her calm regard towards the matter. Truly who says, "Your house had a fire and you lost everything," and walks away? 

My mom turned around and said, "No, its true." 

I put the phone to my ear and asked, "Yann?"

 

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French Husband told me that our chimney had caught on fire, a flue fire.

By law chimneys in France must be swept yearly. We had our paperwork in order, plus the purchase slips of the wood we have bought. Our house is documented four hundred years old, and is on three levels… the stone chimney had tar glazed creosote that was nearly as strong as the stone itself.

Luckily, a neighbor smelled the fire and called the fire department. 

 

 

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Photo via Wallpaper for your computer.

 

I listened patiently to every word French Husband uttered. He spoke as calmly as my mother did. I began to wonder if I was dreaming. French Husband is a drama king. Maybe the drama in our lives had finally made him indifferent to real drama? Whatever it was it was too strange.

 

 

1911 Chimneys on rooftops oil on canvas 46 x 55 cm

Photo of painting by Fernand Leger via Poul Webb.

 

Our house is okay… though our chimney is not, nor the stone mantle. The floor boards are ruined by the water used to put out the fire, and the walls are smoke stained. The house has a hint of smoke, which Chanel will never recreate as house perfume. 

As it is winter, and as the insurance company has yet to make a report our house is a tad bit cold. Think coat and scarf while dining.

Our fireplace had an insert which kept our entire house warm.

Spot heaters do not heat stone walls.

 

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Photo and painting by Mayke, via Living Art and Sea in Provence.

 

To the edge of the cliff, but not over. Our home is safe. Hint of smoke yes, but that is minor.

I guess Santa and the Big Bad Wolf will have to wait.

Now to pick paint colors and a new mantle.

 



Comments

70 responses to “The Fire That Happened While I Was Gone”

  1. Oh Corey, I am so sorry but I’m thankful that no one was hurt.

  2. Oh, Corey, that is so sad!
    Words are failing me, big big hug,
    much love,
    Merisi

  3. Oh my word, that is frightening to think about the possibilities. I’m thankful that it was not worse. Here’s hoping for better things in 2014!!
    Glad you are home, safe and sound

  4. Oh, no, Cory! What a beginning of a year! Such terrible news. Luckyly no one was hurt! So you have to go painting again, just when everything was ready!
    So sorry for you!
    Ursel

  5. Gecmis olsun Corey..
    Let thls be past and last.
    Misfortunes never come single IWish you patience.. and force to resist and unravel them ..
    Much love from Istanbul..
    Pinar

  6. Oh my goodness – to the edge of the cliff but not totally over is exactly right – what a year. I’m sorry for your loss and thankful that through everything (thinking avalanche & fire), everyone came through safely. Your guardian angels are working overtime – that’s good.

  7. Marie-Noëlle

    When we’ve lived difficult situations and events through the year, we always look to the new one coming by with another eye… full of hope… (as a light at the end of the tunnel).
    Pleased your home is safe !!!
    Pleased Yann is ok.
    Thinking of you !!!

  8. You’ve absorbed blow after blow for many months. Remember to take it easy on yourself as you get through this latest challenge.

  9. Corey – I am so sorry for you but thankful no one was hurt. And how did I miss Mother-in-laws stroke?? I will have to go back and re-read. Best of luck on the repairs. I hope French insurance companies are easy to deal with.

  10. I am so sorry Corey. Hoping you possessions, from all your years of collecting, were not damaged. What a nightmare! I guess you will have to select all new floors?

  11. Brother Mathew

    Can you still use the chimney or does it need to be repaired?

  12. Ed in Willows

    Yann had a car wreck and your mother in law had a stroke ?? How did I miss that ?

  13. Carolyn from Pittsburgh

    What a scare. I’m glad no one was hurt and it is fixable. I did not know mother in law had a stroke. How did I miss this? She is so beautiful and strong.
    Take care of yourself and Yann first and then your house.

  14. Jeez Louise.
    You’ll be very busy come springtime!

  15. Sending best wishes for a calmer new year.<3

  16. We are so sorry for the mess and inconvenience. Wish we could be there to help.

  17. Corey – I just finished chuckling over the post abut flying and the earlier stories – the m&m, the farts the young man on the train – then read the next post unbelievingly abut the fire! I am so so sorry …and then the reference to yr mother in laws stroke which apparently I missed completely. I hope she is recovering, and that your poor home will be a warm sanctuary for you and your family again soon. Hang in there! debbie

  18. I’m so glad everyone is safe! Praying that you will get the heating situation resolved soon.
    And there are a couple of things in your list that were new to me (car accident?)

  19. Corey,
    Oh my God, we are all thinking about you and your family.
    If this is an upside to any of this, it’s that everyone is ok.

  20. Dear Corey, sorry to hear about the trouble, but happy to hear that the house is still standing, everyone is fine……and you will be able to redecorate (a bit of a sliver lining).

  21. Please be careful on ladders while repairing and redecorating. Was your furniture salvageable? What about other possessions?

  22. Oh gosh, so sorry to hear this, but glad to hear things are mostly ok. Yep, last year was a rough one for both of us . . . I am banking on a comment you made a few weeks, maybe months ago, that has been helping me get through it all. You mentioned a friend or reader saying that last year’s events had to be cuz it was 2013! So . . here’s to 2014!

  23. So sorry to hear about this Corey. Thankful no one was hurt.

  24. Sorry for what happened but the news could have been much worse and perhaps something you could not make right again. Get things straightened then hop that train to Paris to warm up.

  25. That is so scary! Glad you didn’t lose everything and it can be repaired. More importantly everyone is OK.

  26. oh my, yes indeed, “it is always something” out here, we all relate….and insurance companies, another subject, I am happy this is all that happened, thank goodness for this neighbor…..wow, well a way to look at it, colors of paint…..golly golly, I used to give needle point tiny pillows to my friends saying: it’s always something….called coping in life…..xo

  27. Jennifer in SF

    My heart goes out to you, especially as you are stateside when this happened. How admirable – the grace in your outlook, the silver lining through the smoke. Thankful that your family was not hurt; sending you prayers.

  28. Corey, sending lots of love.

  29. Thankful everyone is fine. The fireplace will get fixed, walls painted and if anything needs replacing….well brocante, brocante, brocante here comes Corey.
    Hugs and one day at a time. Maybe it’s time to retire in Paris or Willows.

  30. Glad that it wasn’t more damage than what you had. Remember, as much as we all love our stuff, in the end it’s just stuff and can be replaced in some way. I’m really glad that no one was hurt.

  31. Glad no one was hurt…fire, avalanches, kids in planes (LOL) are more than any of us want to deal with. Take it one day at a time and glad you are home safe & sound. Peace to you, D & T

  32. Oh Corey how distressing! I’m so glad it wasn’t worse and you didn’t lose everything! Blessings as you clean up and repaint and I hope you soon have heat again!

  33. 2013 was definitely a year of near misses for you and your family. For your sake, I’m glad it is in the rearview mirror. Thank goodness no one was hurt in the fire or the avalanche! SO sorry for your loss of heat in the winter time. I hope you all find a way to stay warm and keep finding the silver lining in every cloud.

  34. Dear Corey, I am so sorry! What a terrible thing. It seems life is one adjustment after another, no? I am glad it was not any worse and that eveyone is okay. So glad you have the ability to see what was good about this. Here’s to better days ahead!

  35. Jill Sangster

    So thankful that someone saw this and reported it. Even more thankful that no one was hurt. I feel badly you had to hear such news over the phone, especially when so far away. It sounds as though you have a lot of work ahead of you but you seem to manage with the help of your great attitude. Let the work begin but please, without incident this time. Like others, I missed Yann’s accident and his mom’s stroke. I sincerely hope there are no after effects for either. I also hope that Annie and Thierry are doing well. xx

  36. What a terrible shock for you – but very relieved the fire did not spread through the house – and of course, that no one was hurt!! Is it quite common to have chimney fires in old houses in France? With new paint etc and lots of open windows in spring – I am sure the smell will disappear. Take care!

  37. Oy oy oy, I’m sorry, Corey. I hope 2014 will be smooth-sailing from now on…
    Julie M.

  38. I love your final words, Corey. Now to choose new paint colors and a mantle. When the going gets tough the tough go decorating!
    I am very sorry that you have to go through such an upheaval, but so glad all are safe. Your family definitely have guardian angels.
    (And just think of all the brocanting you have ahead of you!)

  39. Thank God no one was hurt Corey. Much love and I pray 2014 will be a much better year for us all.
    Love Jeanne

  40. TEXAS FRANCOPHILE

    Oh my so sorry to hear this. Like the earlier post how did I miss your MIL’s stroke? How is she doing now? So glad only stuff was damaged and not people. Cheers to a drama free year.

  41. What scary news! Glad everyone was safe.
    Here’s to a fresh new year.

  42. How disheartening! I am sure Yann is happy to have you back, though. At least that is a silver lining. I know we’ll all be breathless awaiting the color choice. Take care of yourself as you attack this latest mountain. I’ll keep you in my thoughts.

  43. Oh, Corey — it adds insult to injury, doesn’t it? Well, I’m very grateful no one was hurt and it doesn’t sound as though you lost as much “everything” as it initially sounded. But you HAVE had a year, haven’t you? I remember reading about the avalanche with my heart in my throat but missed Yann’s accident and your mother-in-law’s stroke.
    Well, it looks like the universe is saying that you must have a renovation product in your life, given this is right on top of completing Paris! I love your spirit. I suppose what else can one do, but I love it nonetheless!

  44. Oh, Corey! What a year and what a scare getting the news of the avalanche and then the fire over the phone while so far from home. Here’s hoping 2014 is less eventful for you!

  45. Corey, I am so sorry. So glad that no one was hurt and you didn’t lose your home. I’ve been through that and it isn’t a fun journey! hugs..

  46. Oh non c’est pas vrai ?????
    j’espère que vous n’avez pas eu de gros dégâts grâce à l’appel de votre voisin !!!!
    mais ouf, bye bye 2013, n’est ce pas, Corey ??
    bizous

  47. Everyone wishes you well and we all hope that 2014 is a quiet, non-event year for you…….

  48. So sorry to hear of the fire on top of everything else in 2013. All of us will be sending prayers for all of you and very grateful it was not more serious. When it feels too much, think of all of us holding you up. Maybe that will help. One step at a time Corey. That is all we can ever do and it is all that we need do. Thinking of you.

  49. AND THE WALLPAPER you did…………………..??
    I canNOT believe this!Even more you kept it to yourself this whole time!
    JUST THINK OF IT AS SPRING CLEANING!!!!
    THANK GOD FH and SACHA weren’t hurt!BY the way have you SLUGGED THAT SON YET?!

  50. Marjorie Sue

    Quote from a book “Anyway” by Kent M. Keith:
    “What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight. Build anyway!”
    Here’s to building, which seems to be what your life is about! Losses are to be mourned, then keep going, which is what you are best at from what you’ve learned in 2013!
    We are never stronger than when we face loss.
    Peace.

  51. Teddee Grace

    Why in the world did your mother tell you everything was lost! Did she misunderstand?

  52. Oh Corey,
    I am thinking of you. So much news that is beyond your help or involvement with when you are away. So glad everyone is fine and that you had a home to go back to.

  53. 🙂
    you’re so right – I’m just reading the article and comments and I wholeheartedly agree with you Tami…. It’s just stuff!!!

  54. Corey; I’m in unison with all the commentators – thanks God you’re always had a positive outlook. Sometimes it really seems to come down on us in buckets.
    I’m just NOW back from abroad, coming to a cold(ish) house and realise that I only have to turn the thermostate upwards and shall be warm by tonight – you’re not having so much luck. I’m sending you and your family WARM thoughts and HOT prayers.
    You never seem to have told us the other ‘catastrophes’ in your house, the wrecked car and the mum-in-law who had a stroke…. Dear me; you can write the same as me: 2013 wasn’t the best year – (and hopefully you could also add, as I did:) But it could have been much worse…. To a peaceful, serene and wonderful New Year. Love to all your family and especially to Annie….

  55. Irene Thomas

    My thoughts are with you, Corey, and echo everyone here!

  56. OMG thank goodness no one was hurt + you still have your house. xxpeggybraswelldesign.com

  57. Dawn Fleming

    Dear Corey,
    I am so glad you are all okay and the damage is minimal. Peace and best to you and your family in 2014.

  58. What a shock for you both. So glad that you didn’t lose everything. Fire is a scary thing – we had a bush fire on Christmas Day that thankfully was put out before it reached our houses, but it was a close thing. That smoke aroma ain’t great to live with. Hope you get some warmth back in to your house very soon.xx

  59. So sorry about your home, but glad no one was hurt and that your neighbor was home! Lots of clean up, I know, but you will have a freshly painted house with no smoke smell. Good luck with all of this ……. big hugs to you!

  60. Chico Sue

    Dear Corey, it is cold comfort to repeat the adage that “when one door closes, another opens”, especially when one is in the midst of another slammed door, but I know you will embrace the blessing that no one was hurt. I am also sure that, after awhile, you will sieze the opportunity to put some more of your heart and soul into the restoration effort. Hugs from California.

  61. Oh my Gawh!! I want to know why you MIL told you that all was lost? I almost had a heart attack reading that…and it’s not my stuff! But I know from experience that those moments that totally change your life happen just like that..with terrible understatement. I am so thankful that your family wasn’t there! And your neighbors are “neighborly”and jumped to attention. I think you’re becoming Saint Corey to me, after your calm in dealing with that creepy guy groping you in the train and now this? I do believe those brocanting angels will be out with you in force…You deserve it after all you’ve been through! Ying/yang can be so bittersweet *sighs* Vanna

  62. All will be well. Don’t worry.
    I think your mom may have been so neutral about the news because she seems so focused on the bigger picture of life that even normally alarm worthy things like the fire seem relatively immaterial to her.
    As if observed from on high.

  63. What can I say? Along with the rest of the comments, I am so sorry to hear this news. What amazes me is that every photo posted during your visit to Willows showed only joy on your face – every single one. So, in spite of all the scary news you received from Yann and home with the avalanche and the fire, you have remained strong and optimistic. Is there any other way? I think there are only a few people I know who were not happy to leave 2013 behind us. It isn’t a year I want to do over either. Here’s to a healthy, joyful and love-filled 2014.

  64. Jennifer Phillipps

    Gosh – I also missed the bit about a car accident and your mother-in-law being unwell. Hope that she is doing well and that the car will recover too.
    As for the house, a blessed relief that more was not lost….I can only trust that life will be less stressful in 2014 and you will have all things repaired soon so you can keep warm and then look forward to the prospect of spring!
    Cheers

  65. Iowa Julie

    I am so sorry for the rough year, Corey. I hope 2014 is gentle.

  66. Me too. So very sorry to hear of the avalanche of bad news ;((
    Though you are wonderful at picking paint colors and if it is just the mantle and not all your gorgeous things…but it’s no fun living with burnt aromas either.
    May everyone in your life keep well and happy Corey.
    xxCarolg

  67. Dear dear Corey, I echo those who say for you to take some time for yourself. After all these scares, even as you grace us with cheery thoughts of remodeling, you may be more upset than you will admit to yourself. Find a way to stay warm so no cold catching on top of everything. May 2014 turn out to be less mean.

  68. Sending my warmest thoughts and prayers to you all with lovexx andrea

  69. an absolutely terrifying ordeal.

  70. Sue Young

    Oh Corey,I am just catching up with your blog and was so shocked to read this! So so so very sorry,but also so very glad that noone got hurt. That is the most important thing. Wow,you and your family have certainly have had some challenges as of late!
    Big hugs.

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