Simple Necessities

 
 
 
 
My Grandmother Frances, Va, came to America from the Azores. Her trunk was filled with simple necessities:
 
Linen towels,
 
Some chemises,
 
A hair brush,
 
Some dresses, a few in cotton, maybe one in wool,
 
 
Probably an apron, certainly a rosary, and a biscuit porcelain angel. 
 
 
As a child, I would quietly go into my Grandparent's bedroom, climb onto their bed that had a heavy handmade quilt that my Va made, while the grown ups talked around the kitchen table drinking coffee in white ironstone mugs and played heart.
 
Carefully I would stand on the bed, without stepping on the starched crocheted pillowcases, while reaching my hand into the small shell, that the angel held, to dip my fingers into the holy water that she carried. I would bless myself, as my Grandparents did every evening before they went to bed.
 
When I left America, to come to live in France, my Grandmother gave me her angel.
 
 


Comments

15 responses to “Simple Necessities”

  1. So very precious!

  2. What a touching story. You brought tears to my eyes with the story of that precious gift.

  3. more precious than gold….

  4. A very meaningful gift.
    My favorite Christmas tree ornament growing up was a similar angel–not sure if my mother still has her.

  5. RebeccaNYC

    This brought tears to my eyes. xoxo

  6. Rebecca from the pacific northwest

    a wonderful story. thanks so very much.

  7. Marilyn

    A treasured gift from the heart. She knew it was special just for you.

  8. Diogenes

    This post makes me think of the rabbi’s speech in “Angels in America” about immigrants to the US in the late 19th and early 20th century:
    “…She was not just a person but a whole kind of person, the ones who crossed the ocean…she carried the old world on her back across the ocean, in a boat, and she put it down on Grand Concourse Avenue, or in Flatbush, and she worked that earth into your bones, and you pass it to your children, this ancient, ancient culture and home.
    You can never make that crossing that she made, for such Great Voyages in this world do not anymore exist. But every day of your lives the miles that voyage between that place and this one you cross. Every day. You understand me? In you that journey is.”

  9. Chico Sue

    WHAT A VERY SWEET, MEMORABLE GIFT FROM YOUR GRANDMOTHER!

  10. Ourfrenchoasis

    It is those little possessions handed down that are so very precious. Have a lovely day 🙂

  11. Corey, Diogenes
    You are making me cry

  12. I am so happy to see this angel! My Grandmother came from the Azores as well, by herself, at age 16. As tough as life was for her, she never wanted to go back and brought each sister and eventually her mother to the US. She spoke Portuguese to us but would only allow us to respond in English. My Nana had a doll she had brought with her. It was always on her coffee table in the living room. When the adults were in the kitchen playing cards and drinking coffee (laced with a little “something” she kept well hidden) I would play with the doll and count her 7 skirts. Even when she caught me playing with it one day, she never told me I couldn’t.

  13. Kristin

    Such a beautiful story to share – I am blessed today by your words. There are small pieces of my grandmother’s coming to America in 1900 that I hold and treasure…we are connected to all of our family and friends by the simple, small and precious pieces they hold, the stories they tell and always, their love. Thank you Carey for filling my mornings with your words and pictures every day…a blessing to me.

  14. Linda P.

    Such a sweet gift. It must mean so much to you.

  15. Brenda, Walker, LA

    An heirloom to hand down to generations….

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