An Act of Faith, What Does That Mean?

 

Notre Dame was fully packed and mass had started. We were fortunate enough to have seats a few rows from the altar, when a couple of middle-eastern-looking men with backpacks walked up to the front, (where obviously there were no seats available) and slipped discreetly to the side of one of the columns. A church usher went up to them, she whispered that since there were no seats where they stood, that they would have to move back, she continued by saying she could escort them to the nearest seats.Rather than obliging, they calmly shook their heads no. The usher gently persisted but to no avail as the middle-eastern men stayed focus on the altar, simply ignoring her suggestion.

Nervously, I thought what if they are terrorists? They are standing by one of the central columns, they could have bombs in their back packs? Why would they walk up the entire length of Notre Dame to the front when mass had already started? My fearful thoughts raced as the priest prayed, "Lord have mercy, Christ have mercy, Lord have mercy…".

My choices were basic: One walk out, or two stay. To walk out I would have to explain to Sacha my thoughts, then we would have to squeeze pass everyone in the aisle, and then walk the entire length of Notre Dame to the exit. I imagined that if there was a bomb in their backpack they weren't going to wait much longer to ignite it. If I stayed: I was in Notre Dame, I was with Sacha (who was unaware of what I saw), those around me were praying, listening as the first reading was been read. I thought to myself, "I could be wrong about what I saw, but if I am right, well this is a sacred place, a beautiful place, and if a bomb is going to go off I want to be at peace, not running in fear for my life." So I closed my eyes while praying in thanksgiving for those I loved and cared for, I felt at peace.

During Eucharist the two men went up to receive communion. The held out their hands, they bowed their heads, they walked back to the column where they had stood earlier, knelt and cried. 

I felt horrible that I had succumbed to a prejudice reaction instead of seeing their desire to be upclose to worship in a place such as Notre Dame.

Fear had lead me to consider something that wasn't true about who they were.

Ashamed that my thoughts added to a collective consciousness that has been brewing.

And then worse, that on this feast day, a day that speaks of love over death, that my thoughts were exactly opposite. I felt like I had added a nail to the energy of mistrust and doubt. 

I know that we could say it is a sign of these fearful times we live in, that it is out of caution that we look over our shoulders, that with all that has happened it isn't unusual to become doubtful even in church. But still! Such regret I have for feeling that way.

An act of faith what does that mean.

 

 

 

 

 

 



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43 responses to “An Act of Faith, What Does That Mean?”

  1. wow – first, let me say that your reaction is completely normal. In your fear and suspicion and then in your anguish.
    Completely normal. That you remembered the commandment given at the last supper at that moment is commendable, I think.
    Terrorism tried to take hold of your heart, but love prevailed.
    Happy Easter Corey!

  2. What a beautiful and thoughtful post. It takes courage to admit our fears and prejudices, especially in these times. You did so with such grace and simplicity – a lesson for all of us. Thank you and have a blessed Easter
    Barb in Minnesota

  3. Beautifully written, Corey. I read it aloud to my husband with tears in my eyes. You have expressed what so many must feel. Easter joy to you and yours.

  4. Sorry, but I would’ve marched right out of there immediately, dragging Sacha along and saying it was an emergency. Then, once at a safe distance, I’d have explained to him what I saw — adding that I sincerely hoped to be proven wrong ultimately.
    I suspect my abundance of caution is due to the difference between my having been raised in a semi-rough urban environment where all the kids were “street-smart,” and you in a small town where you knew everyone.

  5. Jacklynn Lantry

    I don’t blame you one bit for feeling what you felt. Sadly, those feelings and suspicions are a natural reaction to the world around us these days. For me, the part of your writing that I take away is the connection to something that gives you inner peace and calm. A gift of your faith. I wish I had what you have.

  6. I agree, due the circumstances these days it is normal to feel those thoughts. You were right to be vigilant, but learned from it a truly beautiful lesson.

  7. We are human; we are affected by a lifetime of experiences. Perhaps the rush to Paris to be with your ailing Sasha and the inability to return quickly were meant to bring you into this very circumstance.
    I fear that in your place, I might have exited. Thank you for pouring out your thoughts here so we might all share in the lesson learned.

  8. God bless you, Corey. Thank you for sharing this experience with us.Our common humanity remains greater than our differences.

  9. Bless your heart, I believe your initial reaction was normal, but the conviction immediately after, to close your eyes and join in the thanksgiving prayer shows your heart, your faith.
    When our weaker moments surface, it’s a reminder of how we need His grace, and thankfully it is there in abundance 🙂

  10. jend’isère

    Since you have yet to share such an emotion here, your sincerity is appreciated. Imagination can run wild into every emotion!

  11. A very beautiful post, Corey.

  12. Thoughtful post corey. It’s sad when you have to worry about such things at Mass.
    I’m surprised there weren’t security checks. I don’t think you can bring backpacks to the marathon any more.

  13. “The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.”
    ― Edmund Burke
    And that is what terrorists are counting on, people too afraid to raise a stink because they might be wrong, embarrassed or hurt someone’s feelings.
    The quote in the USA is now “If you see something, say something”. I believe that is the only way to stop these bombings. And shame on the church for their lack of security.

  14. It is understandable why you would fear, Corey.
    I pray that Easter helps all of us not to fear but to put our faith and hope in the One who has conquered death and ultimate fear.

  15. Psalms 46:10 “Be still and know that I am God.”
    While my heart, too, would have been in my throat, Corey, and fear overtake me, I can’t help but think that these men were a gift to you, a reminder to lean on the faith that sustains you and the love that embraces you.
    Happy Easter. He is risen.

  16. Marilyn M

    I would have the same suspicions and fears. And no wonder. It is ok to be vigilant, it is very wise in fact. It does not mean you hate anyone. It means we now must live more aware. You are already aware that most people are not violent and cruel. But there are deranged young men who do want to kill. I’m surprised there was no security to check bags. So glad it turned out to be a beautiful moment but please still be vigilant, not fearful.

  17. What worried me was hearing that a female church usher was completely ignored by these two…Neither polite nor kind. And wearing backpacks to church. Sorry, I would have left, son in tow.

  18. Tongue in Cheek

    Unfortunately security doesn’t always count as security. Our bags were checked. But as we know things can pass through anyway.
    “If you see something say something” is a stance here too. Though maybe I should have said something… certainly if it had been something in their backpack my not reacting, or even reacting would not have changed much. If I had grabbed Sacha and run out, I honestly do not believe it would have changed anything, the church is huge. Plus a chaos would not have rendered a good result. I thought of many things in that moment.
    I agree with you but in this situation it did not seem if I said something it would have changed much. Delicate issue.

  19. Tongue in Cheek

    There was a security check.

  20. Tongue in Cheek

    I do not think it was because she was a woman. In retrospect they were foreigners/tourists like many who attend mass at Notre Dame. Carrying a backpack is often the case when people are tourists. I believe that they wanted to be in front, and did not heed her nor would have listened to anyone’s suggestion to find a seat. Rude yes, but something in me understands what it is like to be a tourist with only one chance be it to be in front… I do not mean to disagree with you, but to say that it was wrong but understandable?

  21. Yes, with all the global events, we have to work hard at being peaceful and loving. Other cultures and religions challenge us but to be honest, there are some people at work that scare me everyday with their views. The innocent days of past seem to be gone with warped views on values of honesty and respect, kindness and love.
    Alleluia, Alleluia, Christ is Risen, Alleluia. Easter Joy to you and your family.

  22. Diogenes

    Beautifully written. Happy Easter Corey.

  23. Teddee Grace

    Err on the side of caution. I am so glad you were mistaken. But were you? Were you skiing in avalanche country? Perhaps this was just a dry run. It was apparent that the usher, even though he or she saw something out of order, had no effect. I think the church needs to be notified of this. Just because these two men with backpacks knew how to take communion doesn’t mean they weren’t terrorists or that they didn’t just get cold feet. Part of me admires European people for going about their business and not allowing terrorism to interfere with their freedoms. Another part would be more realistic about the dangers. Can you think of a more high profile place to detonate a bomb? I think your faith protected you both.

  24. Corey, This post brought me to that place of deep trust in my faith. That fear and seeing terror possibilities pulls me away from where my faith over seven decades has led me… and how easily the events of today can pull at those threads of deep faith that have led me thus far. Much, much appreciation for your writing about your process in finding your faith center and resting there, giving you the opportunity to fully embrace the words and spirit of the mass. True, yes, there is much distress in the world today. My choice continues to be to find peace and live with a heart and soul of deep trust and care for all.
    May the blessings of this season of Easter continue to fill your heart and soul.

  25. I love your heart and your willingness to be honest with us. Thank God you waited. I only hope I would have done the same thing if I had been in your place. Peace to you and yours Corey.

  26. Gloria Nickels

    I am a Christian too, but I still have a strong desire to protect other people… Christian or not, children and the old….and especially the people of France, a country I love so much. If I felt as strongly as you did, I don’t know how I could have stayed still and quiet.
    We are called to love others…but also to protect and serve others. Jesus hated evil and fought it actively. I don’t think we are required to passively accept the slaughter of innocents. Do not be ashamed of caring for being fearful. You, as we all, are human…and we want to live.

  27. Terri N Texas

    God was with you all in that Church, even with the middle easterners. Who knows, they could have been terrorists, but in that moment, in that Church, God may have come to them! Peace be with you and yours.
    Terri

  28. Bonnie Schulte

    I too would have felt the same as you did. And I also, would have been undecided on what to do, if anything at all. When you said you were at peace in church, with your son, it brought tears to my eyes, as that was so special and what I “again” would have thought to myself. Thank you so very much for sharing this on this day “Easter Sunday”. I pray that God watches over all of us.

  29. Another possibility is that the young men were casing the church and testing its security levels for a future attack. As Teddee pointed out below, their taking communion doesn’t prove innocence. It’s not too late to notify authorities of what you saw, as the young men may have been caught on security video that hasn’t been recorded-over yet.
    The Boston Marathon bombers (in)famously carried their pressure-cooker bombs in backpacks, and I’m surprised that backpacks are allowed in such a prominent attraction as Notre Dame, at least not without being opened for inspection.

  30. Ardis Bucy

    Thank you, Corey, for sharing your thoughts and feelings. You have caused us to think. You share your faith with us and we we learn. I so very much appreciate this exchange. Blessings.
    Ardis in Oregon

  31. We were at Notre Dame Easter 2008: you are correct: it is a packed service, and hard to move around all the people. I am surprised the usher didn’t bring security to escort them away.
    I would have left…….

  32. Peace.
    Thank you for sharing this, Corey. For me, this comes as an Easter message and of how your faith carried you through the moments. You chose peace.

  33. Scarey and sad to have to be afraid and unable to trust. Our world is a hard place to be…

  34. Christ was born in the Middle East. He didn’t have blond hair and blue eyes like in the picture on my childhood bedroom wall. More good people than bad are middle eastern or look like they were born in the middle east.

  35. Such a powerful story Corey. My thoughts keep going back to it, and what your mind questioned in such a short time frame. I can’t help but wonder if any of your bloggers were in Notre Dame Cathedral this very day, as you and your son were? Most likely there were others whom saw what you did. I also think about the church usher who appeared to ask them to move to different seating. What were her thoughts before and after?
    Peace to all.

  36. Our heads and our hearts will always war with each other. In our hearts we know that most people are good people but in our fearful times our head just rings warning bells. Thankfully, you were in a sacred place with prayer surrounding you. Even if it had been your time, you would have been at peace in prayer of thanksgiving for the amazing people in your life. I hope you’re Easter was wonderful after this encounter.

  37. Toni Mason

    Corey, Happy Easter! I too would have zeroed in on those two as well, I would have had the same fear, I truly believe the faith in that Church on this Easter Day saved all. Amen! Alleluia!

  38. Beautiful, thoughtful, understandable, and then there’s faith.

  39. Beautiful and thought provoking post. I loved that you closed your eyes and stayed.

  40. Madame in Bangkok

    Beautiful post . But I know what you felt . We are all afraid , it happened almost the same to me in a movie theater .
    What an horrible feeling but so good you wrote this post . And you had the strenght to stay thanks to your faith ..

  41. Chris Wittmann

    Hi Corey, Hope you had a blessed Easter. I agree with some of the above writers as I believe in these times we must use all caution available and I am sure I would have slowly and calmly taken my child and left. And yes, given the situation particularly in Europe it is of the utmost importance that tight security be used, especially where large crowds gather. Your first reaction was normal and completely understandable. Ok,nothing happened and that’s great.But if it had, and you had not left with Sacha, we wouldn’t be reading your blog today. You should have no bad feelings about what went through your mind. I’m truly tired of the political correctness that has ruined our great country and Europe as well. I have a cousin in Germany who cannot tell me what’s really going on there because emails are monitored. What kind of way is this to live? you need eyes up your back side today and we are all walking on eggs shells because of the terror that might be in our very midst. When that survival instinct kicks in it’s for a good reason. Follow your intuition and stay ever vigilant! By the way…great article about you in Victoria magazine 🙂

  42. I think it’s understandable what quickly ran through your mind..our world has turned upside down with terrorist attacks, disgruntled employees in the workplace and disturbed young people in schools..all targeted on innocent, random people in public places. We have been forced to be cautious & aware of anything suspicious looking or unusual behavior because we want peace & harmony & to protect the innocents so our natural instincts alert us to possible danger..the ingrained fight/flight instinct. Things have to change from the more innocent past, like the metal detectors, backpacks should be searched in such places, even churches. But, when our fears & questioning the universe overwhelms our thoughts, turning to the loving God, Creator of All people & All things & focusing & trusting His promises for good we can feel His peace in our soul & equilibrium in our mind. Prayers for peace, love, harmony and understanding to this planet.

  43. Rebecca from the pacific northwest

    What a very interesting, challenging experience. So vivid there, worshiping at Easter too.
    I’m intrigued by the wide gamut of opinions/responses offered by your readers. All valid, all true to who they are, all worth considering as one wonders “what would I do.”
    A difficult exposure to violence in my 20’s led me to realize that fear is not a bad emotion, that it cautions us to be aware of our surroundings and to be as wise as possible. However, I also learned, one cannot be paralyzed by fear: that is no life at all. So: caution, not paralyzed.
    In 2009, I was doing humanitarian aid in Kosovo a month after the war there was over. Mostly it was safe but there were signs all over showing various sizes/shapes of land mines with warnings to beware. A couple of times, doing what we were doing, I realized that I could encounter a land mine. I was careful as I could be, and then let it go, because (akin to you in your final analysis Saturday) I wasn’t promised safety but I was joyful in what I was doing and, if blown up, I would go out doing something I loved and felt called to do.
    Both my husband and I were very glad, though, that I wasn’t blown up. Ditto for you.

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