Chelsea took a few days of vacation to come home, and to be her friends Domi and Leah (friends from the sixth grade.) Leah lives and works in Milan, and Domi works and lives in Guyana.
We had dinner, which started with melon filled with limoncello, why not.
Chelsea is wearing Leah's glasses, because she is silly like that.
A few stories about them here:
http://willows95988.typepad.com/tongue_cheek/2012/12/the-lasting-thing-called-friendship.html
and here
http://willows95988.typepad.com/tongue_cheek/2014/07/chelseas-french-friends-conversation-mishaps-.html
and Sacha's first kiss (Domi's sister)
http://willows95988.typepad.com/tongue_cheek/2006/03/french_kissing.html
As a parent I see now that my children will always be my children, and that no matter the age or distance between us they are and will be my darling little ones in my heart. After dinner, the girls went into Chelsea's old room, that looks more like a storage unit and tried on Chelsea's old clothes. You see Chelsea is the same height and size as she was when she was thirteen, plus she rarely and I mean rarely gives anything away. She has clothes from when they all first met. Teasing is order.
Today Chelsea went through her closet and gave bags of belonging to salvation army called Emmaus in France. It was odd to see her going through her things and bagging them up for a new life. Do not get me wrong Chelsea is not a hoarder, nor is she a spendthrift, she takes such good care of her things. She had pens and pencils from grammar school, she just never saw the need to buy new or give up what she loved. But the day came for things to move on.
Do you friends from childhood?
Do you keep things or give them away?
Do you wear the same size as you did ten years ago, twenty years ago… yesterday?
Hug those you love
xxx
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