Growing in Each Other’s Garden

Spirit garden

Over twenty years we have known one another, and yet at times I feel I don't know him at all. He will say something, or do something that I have never heard or seen him do before. As if he turned over a stone and a sprout shoots up.

I see a moist fertile ground underneath,

aching for a seed and

one is planted with a whisper,

"I never knew that before…"

 

 

 

The air in the garden

Have you ever felt the air change, though there isn't a breeze.

Something new takes root.

 

 

Rich soil tender blossoms

Relationships are like a garden. We hold seeds waiting for the right season to plant them. Waiting can be hard, but if we plant them too soon they might not take root… When the sun warms and the rain softens the ground, a seed drops, we gently cover it wondering if can take the entirety of our soul and grow…

Waiting carefully not to pull at it, or stomp out the little green things that might appear, believing in it we water it, shelter it, give it room to grow without weeding it to death.

 

 

With a gentle hand

 

 

…With a gentle hand.

Tender and true through the seasons it becomes, changes colors, grows anew, endures pruning and stagnation, blooms…

She sees for the first time

She sees for the first time.

Love exchange.

As he went on with his day I thought to myself isn't life incredible, challenging, fearless… It is easy to become caught up in the day forgetting to see the tender new growth, the underline hope, the smell of rain, the sun warming our back, more so it is easy not to notice the person right in front of us… the inner song of their soul, their spirit, the beating of their heart, the source that passes between us.



Comments

11 responses to “Growing in Each Other’s Garden”

  1. Jacklynn Lantry

    Ok, I want to know what he said or did…;) lol

  2. Such pretty poetry! It is wonderful to go through life with your best friend!

  3. I told my boss today that a mans brain is a total mystery to women. He said that was very insightful. My fella thinks a woman’s brain is a mystery. I like to keep him guessing!

  4. peaceful and beautiful this post is-the analogy with the garden-love it-how wonderful you both are still growing and learning together!

  5. So lovely and beautiful!

  6. I think the woman’s brain is a mystery to men….and vice versa! Fascinating is what a great relationship is! Continuing surprises! After 40 years….at least once a week….a surprise!
    Lovely, actually!!

  7. What a charming way to put it. I think the same, including abiut my kid.

  8. Thank you, once again, Corey, for providing nourishing, beautifully written words to begin my day. How very important is the message to nourish, allow, hold tenderly the stirrings of change in those with whom we share the journey of our life.

  9. Corey!
    Incredibly insightful, beautiful, thoughtful…you are just “full” of wonderful stories!
    How many people have said you should write a book??? 🙂

  10. Tomorrow, Jim and I will celebrate our 34th anniversary. We went to a movie this afternoon and sat with the seat arm between us up out of the way. As I leaned against him, he put his hand on my thigh, and there was such comfort in the unconscious move of his hand. In our early years, we would fight with great passion, but the years of struggle slowly melded into a sweetness that only time can offer. I still notice new things about him and am frequently surprised by how well he knows me. Thanks for sharing this, Corey!

  11. Thank you. I needed to reminded this today.

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