All is Good Now, Even if for a Brief Time it Wasn’t

Aim-at-the-angel

 

We are in Lacoste, in the heartland of Provence. The birdsong in the morning, twilight and late evening is enchanting. I have recorded it, and it is on FB. I do not hear such birdsong where we live… I blame the neighborhood cats, and the thirty six old plane trees that have been cut down.

The French Muse has been incredibly fun. The four "musettes" are easy going and a kick in the pants. It is such a delight, like I said yesterday, to meet people I have known through blogging, is a real treat. Today we went to Cassis, and well who could not love Cassis? 

The only misfortune is that when Ruth pulled the van around for us to get inside, a very cocky young security guard wanted us to move along faster than humanly possible. As I waited for everyone to safely get inside, the guard started to yell for me to hurry up, before I was in the van the policeman yelled at Ruth to go. Ruth obeying the police officer started to roll, I yelled to stop as I was dragging, the security guard pushed me in the van, then slammed the door where my hand happened to be. Yes it hurt. But luckily nothing was broken or cut, just sore and shaking. When it happened, I swore a fine litany of swear words. Ruth, poor thing, stopped the van, as she was shocked at what had happened. At that point my being turned into a lioness. I jumped out of the van and stormed over to the security guard. Nothing short of anger came pouring out of me. He profusely said he was sorry, but I was too mad to hear his apology. How dare he be so rude as to push me in, yell at Ruth to go, and then slam the door on my hand. He wasn't thinking, he wasn't living in the moment, he was into his role of power which was moving the traffic along at our expense. I suppose I wanted him to know I was hurt, mad and extremely offended by his actions, his apology was not my need. 

I am fine now. Though I feel bad that I yelled at the town's security guard, I will go talk to him, accept his apology and hopefully encourage him to be mindful.

The French Muse continued and my hand was fine enough to look through boxes at an antique shop and cook dinner. Thankfully, nothing too serious happened.

 

 

 



Comments

27 responses to “All is Good Now, Even if for a Brief Time it Wasn’t”

  1. Jacklynn Lantry

    You go girl!

  2. Diogenes

    Yikes. No bueno. Glad u are okay.

  3. LauraInSeattle

    Oh, now I’m mad on your behalf! Put some ice on that hand! I believe that champagne is also good for pain. ;o)

  4. Good grief? Why the rush? Was there a traffic jam? Even so, no excuse for his behavior.
    Police and security people sometimes go overboard. I remember driving up to some place in m hometown with my parents. we had a big van with an electric ramp because my dad was in a wheelchair. The officer could see my dad in the wheelchair next to me, and my 90-year-old mom, with her walker, in the back seat. He refused to let me get them out and made me park far away and push my dad in (and made my mom shuffle in with her walker). Because maybe they were terrorists.

  5. Francesca

    You are a better person than I am. I would go back to identify him and denounce him to his superiors. He cannot be excused. His behaviour cannot be accepted.

  6. Cynthia Thompson

    So glad that you are all okay!! What a terrible experience for you.

  7. Jennifer Phillipps

    Golly – I think you did show great restraint not to bop him on the head for being such a bully!! I am glad that you are ok enough to go antique hunting, which is the most important thing, but I certainly think his behaviour was reprehensible….you could have been badly injured. I do hope you will enjoy the rest of your week without further dramas. Stay well

  8. Omg!
    If that happened here , it would be on t 6pm news and he would be out of a job!
    Thankfully you are OK.

  9. So sorry this happened to you! I cry when I’m really mad- which can really ruin my indignation!!! You were able to rise above it all even if you think you didn’t… take care & enjoy

  10. Yikes. At least it wasn’t worse. Hopefully your words, when you are calm, will make an impact on the guard’s behavior.

  11. Glad you had no lasting injuries from the events…and going back to confront him for his behavior was a strong woman, stellar thing to do, Corey..Way to be resilient and your wonderful, beautiful woman self!
    Kristin

  12. Yes, Corey, I agree we the the others that this is a teachable moment for that security guard. I’m sure he will accept your apology and listen to your words of wisdom. Most of all I’m glad you are okay!

  13. RebeccaNYC

    I hope you are not feeling guilty for giving the guard a piece of your mind. What he did was very wrong. I am sure you were firm, but just. Very French of you! Brava.

  14. Marilyn M

    Oh so sorry. How painful!!! Is the hateful and inflammatory political speech of one of your national politicial candidates encouraging bad behavior there as our hateful presidential candidate (and now alas in power) has done here?

  15. jend’isère

    I was just thinking of you when I learnt that Victor Lanoux died. He played Louis le Brocante. Sorry I know that does not make you feel better.

  16. Good Grief…what was the big rush? So glad you were not seriously hurt…I bet it still smarts a bit though..

  17. becky up a hill

    I was in a disagreement with the local small town constabulary one time. Held my ground. I knew the Veh code. The down side, my husband who worked for the state police was dressed down by his sergeant, after she complained. Felt terrible. I was going to apologize for not respecting her authority. After a week went by not seeing her, I figured the statute of limitations was up :)….. I am so sorry Corey. You were a mad little bumble bee and he never saw you coming! He had it coming. I hope you are okay.

  18. Ann of Avondale

    Corey, glad you are fine. Those in authority cannot shove people around like that. OMG this was so abusive he needs a good lesson as it sounds like a power play. Unbelievable. If I ever go to France, I will have to take some tape for my mouth I don’t think anything diplomatic would come out if I experienced anything like that. I’m sure you will do the right thing. Take care and enjoy your guests.

  19. Was that man insane? What unbelievable behavior! Nothing could warrant shoving someone into a van and slamming the door shut. Glad nothing too serious happened to your hand.

  20. Arnelle Louise

    Corey…Brava for number one.. speaking your mind and number two saying that you will seek him out and extend your hand and apologize….that takes a good and true heart.
    We have the opportunity to learn so much after the storm!
    I know how you and Ruth work so hard at making everything as perfect as possible for your Musettes….but rudeness unfortunately is universal…enjoy this week dear friend!

  21. lanmangina@me.com

    Oh my Corey! I am so sorry to hear this he deserved a good scolding! When back in St. Remy I am going to give the guy in the Italian restaurant a good cold stare! I wish I could properly get the French words out of my mouth!!! On a happier note~ I listened to Ruth singing in the church which gave me chills! Be careful out there it’s dangerous lol!

  22. Kathie B

    I don’t think Corey’s going to apologize to the guy. He should be the one to apologize to HER.
    P.S. VOTEZ!

  23. Oh dear! How awful but happy to hear nothing is broken!

  24. Judi Ryba

    Geez it sounds like an airline story of late. Glad you are ok!

  25. And you are going to apologize, why? For what? He deserved your anger and outrage. I’m very glad your hand was not broken in this crazy fracas.

  26. Leslie in Oregon

    I am so glad that your injury wasn’t worse and horrified by this security guard’s conduct. Those who have been vested with the power of a security guard have a special duty of care in how they exercise that power. The guard whose offensive actions ended up injuring you abused that power and feel far short of his duty of care. He should receive a written reprimand (or its equivalent in France) from his superior so that, he understands that he must never engage in such behavior again (and that, if he does, he can and will be terminated from this employment). Best wishes with the rest of this French Muse Experience, Leslie

  27. Rebecca from the pacific northwest

    Why does your rant not surprise me?

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