Learning How to Cook and Being Thankful

French Lessons, cooking and being

 

 

 

 

How do I cook, since a few of you asked for the gnocchi recipe, well I wing it, that is how I cook. I open the fridge and figure it out as I go. If I do not have an ingredient I improvise. Imagine that the day before the French Muse I went to the grocery store that was said to be opened, and found that it was closed. And all the grocery stores I could think of were closed as well, as that day was a holiday. Even though when I checked on the internet the day before, they said they would be open. Panic set in at record speed. After going to several teeny tiny mom and pop shops between Lacoste and my town (an hour and a half a part in between) I found some of the things I needed and reinvented meals while walking around those shops. I guess you could say winging it is how I fly.

 

 

“There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.”

— Albert Einstein

 

 

 

Gnocchi recipe:

Gnocchi

Peas

Cream

Shaved truffle

Parmesan 

Salt.

 

 

 

Mail bos

 

 

While at the Muse one of the guests asked me where I learned how to cook. I had to think about that…

In the end I learned how to cook while at the monastery. There were forty or thirty or fifty of us in community, I don't remember exactly, each of us were assigned to a job within the monastery, I was assigned to the kitchen. When one has to cook breakfast, lunch and dinner, between the liturgy of the hours, one learns how to cook real fast. Of course others helped, and that is where a variety of recipes came to be. I loved every minute of working in the monastery's kitchen and do not have one recipe written down from it.

 

 

“Gratitude can transform common days into thanksgivings, turn routine jobs into joy, and change ordinary opportunities into blessings.”

— William Arthur Ward

 

 

 

colorful

 

Colorful. Spice. Garlic. Fresh. A splash of white wine or whisky to the pot. Taste. Texture. Local. Seasonal. 

 

 

 

Dishes in France

 

 

 

What I learn from my mom about cooking:

Serve it faithfully with love.

Serve it plentiful and well prepared.

Set the table with care and respect.

Be thankful and do not waste.

 

 

 

basket of goodness 

 

 

 

“You say grace before meals. All right. But I say grace before the concert and the opera, and grace before the play and pantomime, and grace before I open a book, and grace before sketching, painting, swimming, fencing, boxing, walking, playing, dancing and grace before I dip the pen in the ink.”

— G. K. Chesterton

 

 

 

Fresh eggs

 

 

Growing up in a rural community, surrounded by a large family played a big part in my education about food and hearth. It taught me that it takes many hands to bring food to the table. It starts with a seed.

 

A seed.

Dirt.

Water.

Toil.

Air.

Light.

Love.

and many hands from earth to mouth.

Farmers deserve more attention than they receive.

 

 

 

“We often take for granted the very things that most deserve our gratitude.”

— Cynthia Ozick

 

 

 

pottery

 

 

 

Where did you learn to cook?

 

“Take full account of the excellencies which you possess, and in gratitude remember how you would hanker after them, if you had them not.”

— Marcus Aurelius



Comments

17 responses to “Learning How to Cook and Being Thankful”

  1. I think I need to go to the monastery and learn to cook. I learned to bake from my mom and aunts, but am not a good cook.

  2. Kathie B

    My first cooking teacher was my mother, whose style could most charitably be described as punctual in terms of getting reasonably nutritious meals on the table on schedule — but bland, overcooked, unimaginative and worse.
    My real education began when as a teenager I checked a copy of the Fannie Farmer Cookbook out of the public library, and liked it so well that I bought my own paperback copy.
    After marriage — Farmboy Husband was at the time a better cook than I was, having lived independently for a few years — I tried to expand my repertoire, first with recipes from basic magazines like “Woman’s Day” and “Family Circle,” and later from “Bon Appétit” and the since-defunct “Gourmet,” as well as watching the great Julia Child on public TV.
    Over the decades I’ve added more cookbooks to our bookshelves, gone vegetarian, tried foods we never had at home — and struggle with my weight 🙂

  3. Kathie B

    Having had our own organic vegetable garden for over 40 years also has helped!

  4. Ann of Avondale

    I learned to cook after I got married. My new husband was a much better cook than me and he inspired me to get better. We both watched many cook shows on PBS including Julia Childs and Jacque Pepin. Over 22 yrs. of marriage we have some wonderful meals. We have every kitchen gadget, cookware, knives, wok, you name it we have it and many sets of dishes, our panty is fully stocked and ready to go. You can say cooking and eating is a big part of our day. Bon Appetit.

  5. I like to cook because it’s creative. Like you Corey, I like to wing it….open the fridge and get inspired. Start with an onion and garlic and the magic starts. I don’t bake, my husband enjoys that.
    Ali

  6. Leslie in Oregon

    Your question assumes that we learned to cook. I have not. I learned about baking in 4-H as a pre-teen, but promptly forgot that from having no opportunity to practice. I learned about cooking from scratch in first class galleys in training and work for Pan Am. Little of that translated to preparing food on the ground because I could not afford the ingredients…. When my husband and I had our first child, we split our weekdays in half (the 1st half of a day at employment and the 2nd half with the baby for one of us, and the reverse for the other), and he got the half of the day that included ccoking dinner. He learned to cook for our family, and I learned to clean up afterward. Now that it is just the two of us, and two dogs, at home, and he still prepares the food and I clean up. I have long collected cookbooks, which he uses well. I hope to someday become more interested in learning how to prepare our meals, but it’s nice to have the option not to!

  7. I heard a great interview with cookbook author Julia Turshen, whose latest is called “Small Victories.” It was on the podcast “Fresh Air” with Terry Gross (world’s best interviewer). She said that most cooking doesn’t need to be precise, and that recipes are merely guidelines and are open to changes and substitutions. Baking is special–it’s chemistry, where you take a liquid and turn it into a solid and if you don’t get the proportions right it won’t work. But most dishes are far more flexible.
    I learned to cook with my grandmother, who came from the old country and grew up poor. Always was poor, technically, although her life was rich and she had all the necessities. She made everything from scratch. Even soap. Nothing would be wasted; there was little to lick in the bowl after she had scraped it.
    But I really learned from her after I came home from two years in Africa, where I taught at a rural school and had no electricity or running water. I had to make everything from scratch, too, but with ingredients that didn’t need refrigeration (I did have milk, a small bottle delivered each morning, still warm from the cow, but I had to use it up the same day). I had no oven but jury-rigged one with a gigantic pot and rocks over a fire, and used it to make pizza and brownies when I got homesick. Anyway, after that experience, cooking with grandma really took off because I had a clue.

  8. LeighNZ

    Thanks so much for the ingredients list Corey, but where are the directions/ measurements and actual recipe for us cooking dummies?
    My mother is a wonderful cook as where her mother and aunts, great grandmother etc. I don’t enjoy cooking and find it difficult to get excited about it unfortunately. I’m a bit spoilt in that I live on my mothers property so home cooked meals are not far away. At present we are quite enarmoured with Gino D’Acampo’s Italian cooking programme and recipe books. If I have to cook I actually do enjoy Italian cooking; simple and fast.
    Wish I had the skill of improvising with the basics if some ingredients are missing. I find myself holding my breath when watching Masterchef on TV. It has to be the most frightening experience coming up with new dishes in the moment while being filmed and judged.

  9. Learned to cook from my beautiful Mother. Nobody could dice the celery as fine as she could. She gave me my first cookbook “BETTY Crocker cookbook for Boys & girls”

  10. Jacklynn Lantry

    Some happy food memories:
    I was shocked when I saw the Victory Garden on PBS as a kid and saw Roger Swain plant seeds…he tilled the soil, dropped in a seed, carefully pushing the soil to cover the seed and watered it. “That’s it?” I thought to myself…Utter shock!
    My friend Roberta had a camp sight called the windmill, it was-literally-a windmill used to built at the side of a pond, used to circulate the water. We took sleeping bags and slept out one night. Her mom showed up early the next morning. She built a campfire and, using a battered old cast-iron frying pan, made bacon and used the popping, spattering bacon fat to fry eggs. It was like something out of a movie…and tasted heavenly.
    Louis Armstrong, a famous “foodie,” used to sign his letters “Red beans and ricely yours! Louis”
    There were 10 people, 2 parents and 8 kids, in my family. My mom’s recipe for potato salad:
    1 Five pound bag of potatoes, peeled and cut into chunks
    1 Quart of Hellman’s Mayo
    1 Dozen hard-boiled eggs
    Garlic powder, Onion powder, S & P to taste.

  11. I was never taught to cook and sorely wish I had. My mom was too busy raising six children and getting breakfast/lunch/dinner on the table that it was easier to just do it herself. I get it, BUT. My best friend in high school was already an amazing cook and she would tease me about my lack of knowledge and skill. Forty years later, she still does.
    As an extrovert, I don’t like cooking because it is such an “alone” activity. I LOVE to cook when I cook with others…and a glass of wine. 🙂 I love the companionship and the community of cooking with others.
    While I may not like to cook, I LOVE feeding people. Nothing makes me happier than having a group of people in my home eating what I have prepared. There is just something about feeding people, even if I’ve just ordered a pizza from down the street.
    I love this post, Corey, and really love the Chesterton quote. I think you have just solved the problem I have of what to do with a large, blank wall in my dining/living room area. It’s been blank for quite a while (two years) because I couldn’t decide what I want there. As always, you bring me joy.

  12. Teddee Grace

    Enjoyed your own story and the wonderful quotes. I think you need someone with patience and a good sense of humor to teach you to cook. When I was five and hadn’t started school yet, my mother and I ate scrambled eggs and Jello, my limited menu, for lunch it seemed for a year. This was before Jello was pre-sweetened and one day, only knowing my letters, I made the Jello with a white granular substance in a sack labeled with a word that started with “S.” My mother took one bite, ran outside, spit it out and came back laughing. I had used pickling salt instead of sugar! Then there was that chocolate cream pie I made as a teenager for my Dad. I ran out of cocoa in the process and the pie turned out gray! He ate it with gusto.

  13. Wonderful photos, quotes and thoughts from you today.
    My cooking began as a very young girl, about age three, with lessons from my Norwegian Bestemor. She never used a measuring cup or spoon…so I just had to watch how much she poured into a bowl or pinched with her hands….she taught me to improvise, to imaging what would be the final result, and always to search the gardens around her home in Portland for vegetables and fruits to add to make something really special. We took the bus to the outskirts of town and picked buckets of berries to make pies, cakes and jams. What a fortunate child I was to stand beside her apron and learn the love of creating beautiful, healthy food for the table. Today in my seventies I still cook her way and do not measure and gather from my gardens fresh, lovely food most months of the year. Family blessings to pass on to my grandchildren.
    Kristin

  14. Barbara

    Like you I began early. My mother loved to bake and I think the first lesson was creaming the butter and sugar for a sponge cake. By age eight I could help prepare the typical English roast Sunday lunch! I learned classic French cuisine at hotel school in London but like you I usually just wing it these days according to ingredients hiding in the ‘fridge. I love to have small dinner parties for six or eight when the table is set with thought. Centrepiece of herbs and flowers (even a whole cauliflower will do!), glasses and silverware but I also love spur of the moment gatherings when expectations from drop by guests are low but the resulting dinner is fresh and tasty. Of course good wine helps both with and in the food. That’s not learned at school!
    Here on Vancouver Island we enjoy a variety of fresh fish and shellfish, much of which I buy at the dock when the boats come in. No farmed fish for me.
    Enjoyed all your wonderful cooking at the Muse just a year ago now. Your mother and the monastery set you on a great path.

  15. Kathie B

    According to history (or at least folklore, LOL!), at least two famous recipes came about due to a chef needing to improvise with limited ingredients available.
    Caesar Salad:
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Caesar_salad#History
    Chicken Marengo:
    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chicken_Marengo#History

  16. lanmangina@me.com

    I love all of those quotes so much I need to share them further. After a hard day I so needed to have another focus. Gratitude over-flowing. Thank you for being my friend and adding richness to my life! xoxoxo

  17. This post brought back the memory of when you stayed with Carol and I while my parents went to Israel. You made us a frittata – so yummy! I still have on my list to learn to make a frittata!
    I started with learning to bake. Love my mom but she neither liked or was very good at baking so I took over at 10. Always loved it. I didn’t do much cooking until college and beyond. Knew a fair amount from helping and watching at home. I remember before moving out I copied a bunch of recipes from my mom.
    I cook from recipes – I love recipes! I have tons of cookbooks and Pinterest pages of recipes. I also still have all those photocopied recipes. In many ways the fact that I love recipes reflects an important part of who I am – which is I love a series of steps that if you follow will make something amazing (hopefully!)
    Thanks for bringing back a great memory!

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