Becoming French

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I did it!

 

Nearly, eighteen months ago I applied for my French citizenship.

Yesterday, in Nice, I had an interview with the immigration authorities. I was anxious that I might not answer something correctly and be told I wasn't accepted. To be safe I read everything I could online and went over hundreds of questions that they could ask me. Questions such as: "Why I wanted French citizenship? Name five French philosophers? What is laïcité? What happened in Verdun? Name the last five Prime Ministers? What are some of the latest laws that have taken place in France?" The questions that they could have asked have to do with an applicants personal life, French culture, history, and government, and of course, the questions are asked in French and need to be answered in French. 

 The hardest part was thinking I might have to sing the French national anthem the Marseillaise. I could barely sing the Star Spangled Banner, barely keep a tune, let alone in French. I memorized the first line, and the first line of the chorus and could hum it. WhooHoo! And I could explain what the song is about. But sing it by heart, unfortunately, no.

Back in October when Yann went to India I had an unexpected visit by two National Gendarmerie. They came by early in the morning my friend Mo's husband was there because he had brought me some eggs. Though the two National Gendarmes didn't see it that way. They thought because it was early in the morning that Mo's husband was Yann. When I explained that Mo's husband was just a friend and that Yann was in India on a motorcycle trip they did not believe me, leading them to question whether he was my lover. After forty-five minutes of being questioned to prove that I was who I said I was, that Yann was my husband, that we live together and were part of our community they knew I was telling the truth. I am sure you have heard stories where they ask you what color is your partner's toothbrush… well I prayed they didn't ask me that because I did not know. It was intense questioning and luckily honesty was simply all I had to offer. Even if it was confusing, 

"What hobbies do you enjoy?" 

"Brocanting, cooking…"

"Why are you not in India with your husband?"

"Because he is on a ride where being two would be too difficult due to the type rough terrain ride he is on."

"Do you have children?"

"Yes, two."

"What sports do you and your husband do together?"

"Not many! He is crazy and I like safe sports like walking."

"Crazy?"

"Well no not crazy but crazy."

"Where does your daughter live?"

"In Paris."

"Do you like to fly with your husband?"

"Oh you know he flies? No, I don't like to fly with him."

"Why no?"

"Because it scares me."

It was at this point I began to worry that they would think that Yann and I were not a couple.

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It has been an interesting journey seeking dual citizenship. But at last, I can say I did it!

After more than half my life lived in France I can say when a French person asks me,

"Where are you from?" I can answer proudly,

"I am Franco-American with an enormous accent."

The next step is waiting to receive my citizenship which could be ten months or more.

 

 

 

 



Comments

46 responses to “Becoming French”

  1. Congratulations! Félicitations!

  2. Oh man. I am constantly amazed at just how difficult and -stressful- it must be to be *any* nationalized immigrant! My sister’s husband just went through the process to become an English citizen, and a friend of mine has shared her story of how she immigrated and became a citizen – it took her over 16 years to become “official”! The American system kept changing at certain points and she would have to start again or begin an added requirement, it was grueling! Since then she has sponsored her brother, sister, and mother – all of whom had to have residency and legal work set in place before they even got off a plane!
    Congratulations on your journey! I am so happy for you! I love reading about your experiences and your wonderful family, your faith, your friends, and of course France! Just a wonderful post!

  3. Just as long as you’re still registered for US elections, because we need your vote!

  4. Wow!!! That’s fantastic! Congratulations!

  5. Congratulations! This sounds like an anxiety-producing process, but you passed with flying colors.

  6. gina lanman

    Congrats Corey this is wonderful news my French friend! xo

  7. They don’t make it easy do they?

  8. Any thing worth having is never easy…or so they say-Congratulations!

  9. Congratulations! Your hard work paid off!

  10. Well done! Very proud of you Corey.

  11. Jacklynn Lantry

    CONGRATULATIONS!

  12. So this is what the baguettes reference was about! I’m very happy for you. Congratulations. So I guess marriage doesn’t automatically make you a French citizen? Probably if you had told them Mo’s husband was your lover they would have thought you were French 100%, lol.
    What is laïcité anyway? Any questions about baguettes?
    I went through this interview process in Montreal. Long time ago.

  13. That sounds scary! So happy you will have dual citizenship.

  14. Bravo!! Good for you for doing it all in French!! I know you had to, but still. I think the French have the right idea.

  15. Wow! Proud of you!!!!

  16. SMILES! Congratulations. tough questions,, I would not have believed you either, smiles,,,
    except I follow your blog,,, and the questions were not simple yes or no’s
    but complicated needing explanations and even then… it would be like your dog story(s) a complicated history.

  17. Oh and a good choice of youtube movies,,, I love Edith Piaf ( she did sing like a little sparrow) and her life story.

  18. Congratulations! Lots of hard work!

  19. Julia Thelen

    Wow,I had no idea about the questions! I’m pIanning on doing the same, and just assumed that after 40 years it would be pretty much automatic. So they knew Yann flies, but asked if you had children. Do you think they were trying to catch you out?
    I guess I should take care of my driver’s licence too. Lol

  20. Congratulations.
    I am so very proud of you ……………It’s amazing the questions.
    Love Jeanne

  21. Leonie BUCHANAN

    Congratulations Corey 🇫🇷🇺🇸 when my husband and I were attempting to learn French we would sit up in bed singing along with youtube the Marseillaise, that’s what you do in bed when you have been married 53yrs 🤣🤣
    When we were in Paris we waited for over 2hrs at the Arc de Triumphe for them to have the evening service so I could hear the Marseillaise, love it.
    Our Australian National Anthem is not as good. I love God Bless America too!

  22. Feliciations, Corey! France is fortunate to have a wonderful new citoyenne.

  23. Christine

    Yes, I have just been through exactly the same process in Dijon. We were both interviewed separately and then I was interviewed alone. When it was finished we had a lot of fun comparing our answers to see if our thirty years together have left us both with the same memories !!! I was told “on average” 12 months. So could be more, could be less. And I’m panicking because I’m a Brit and we have the Br****t mess to contend with. Will keep you posted – maybe we cold meet in Lyon for a celebratory meal once it’s done !!!!

  24. Christine

    Oops *could, not cold !!!

  25. Rachel Schindler

    OMG…this is too funny.

  26. Andrea Hames

    Congratulations Corey! Sounds like quite the process. Glad you can stil vote in the US! 🇺🇸 🇫🇷

  27. Congratulations, Corey. You are now une dame francaise.

  28. Sharon Crigger-Stokan

    Congratulations on reaching this personal goal! Félicitations!

  29. Congratulations, Corey! This is a big deal indeed!

  30. Oh, congratulations Corey! I am so proud of you. I have always yearned for dual citizenship especially these last 2 yrs. But of all people that should have it, it would by YOU. BTW, I think your answers to the gendarmes made you sound EXACTLY like an old married couple!

  31. Laïcité = secularism.

  32. Miss Bunny

    Wow! Congratulations on a wonderful ending to a long process, Madame Citoyenne.

  33. Congratulations, Corey! That is wonderful!

  34. Jennifer Phillipps

    MAGNIFICENT NEWS – CONGRATULATIONS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR!

  35. aportmanteau

    Nothing easily obtained is appreciated near as much as something you have to work for. Congratulations, Corey! I would imagine you have had a good work ethic for a long time. Children need to learn this early on. If they learn early to work hard for what they want, their efforts will pay off in many ways for the rest of their lives.

  36. Laurie SF

    I’d like to propose a sister city proclamation between Willows and St Zach! Here’s to you, Corey Amaro for connecting us all. Congratulations on the celebratory dual citizenship…x

  37. I whole heartedly second that. It has been a ride and education reading about your daily life and weaving in history of France and beyond. Thank you and a big congratulations.

  38. Exactly. It is not easy, for anyone in any country I imagine.

  39. Dual means both! I have the right to vote in both countries.

  40. lol!! That is a good one!

  41. Hi Julia, If you are married to a French person for over five years it is a easier; But if you are not, it doesn’t matter how long you have lived here. Though when you apply the police will make an unannounced visit to be sure you are who you say you are, that you are married , etc etc. Oh and they knew I did not drive.

  42. Oh YES!!! Let’s do that!!!

  43. xoxo Thank you dear friend xxx

  44. Thank you too, I am happy you both are here, I feel your friendship deeply xx

  45. woow!!! toute mon admiration chère Corey! tu est très courageuse!!!!!
    tu vas l´obtenir , j´en suis sur et certaine!
    …et tu le mérites , ça c’est evident.
    Félicitations de tout coeur *y*
    chaudement
    Tina

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