Questioning Almost Everything

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When Chelsea was three these are some of the questions she asked me,

Where is heaven? What does it mean to die? When I yawn why do my eyes water? How does water come to our house? How does our body make urine? What does God look like? Who was born first? Why can't we make grapes in the kitchen with a recipe? Why do we have two nostrils? Where do words come from? When fish die do their fins turn into wings?

Does God feel scared?

No, I don't believe God feels scared.

Does God feel happy?

Some questions just need to been asked, with each question the answer goes deeper and deeper. Like a child who says, "why?" after every answer.

My mother reminded me to answer my children's questions as honestly as I could. "That is how they learn, and after they have asked you a hundred times the same question, and they go to ask you yet again, simply ask, "Why," back to them. Then you will hear that they will have the answer."

If only my questions could have answers. 

If only we could ask why over and over until the question no longer existed.

Until the truth rang.

Until doubts vanished.

Until we knew that everything was going to be… okay. 

 

"O ye of little faith." Mathew 6

 

The heart doesn't question, it responds.

 

 



Comments

6 responses to “Questioning Almost Everything”

  1. Your posts always touch my heart.
    I love everything you share
    Love Jeanne

  2. Sometimes we just need to be held and reassured that we will be okay, even if we don’t believe that and no explanation can convince us.

  3. So beautiful! Thank you!

  4. this has more threads of truth ….. and longing than I could ever explain….

  5. Chico Sue

    How intelligent your young Chelsea was to have asked such brilliant questions. And how wise your mother is! When my first grandson was a bout four years old, he asked if I knew what God looks like. I felt I needed to be very careful with my answer because his other grandmother was a very committed Evangelical Christian with extremely strict views of the Bible, and I have a much more liberal idea of a deity. Our grandson loves both grandmothers very much, so I didn’t want to say anything that might make him take one side or another. After some thought, I told him that I thought God looks like him, and God looks like his parents, and like their parents. I told him that I think God looks like the Ocean, and the trees and all the animals and all the living things in the world. After listening politely to me go on and on for several minutes, I concluded, “And that’s what I think God looks like”. Then he said to me in that wide-eyed innocent way, “No, I KNOW what God looks like because my other grandmother has a picture of him in her house.” I laughed and hugged him and cherish that memory of the time we had together when he was little.

  6. I laughed out loud….. children …. so funny!

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