Guest Post: Kathy Benusa

Kathy in France

Write a guest post for Corey’s blog? 

My inner critic was quick to respond,

“No way, it told me, that’s too scary. It’s out of your comfort zone.”

Totally true, I thought.

 

Kathy and Randy in Cornwall

 

Then, I casually mentioned the idea to my other half, Randy, the best person I know and my high school sweetheart. He thought it was a fabulous idea.  I kicked the idea around for a few more days starting to warm to it.  When I shared it with my life coach friend, Sherri, she was “beyond, beyond” that this amazing opportunity had presented itself to me. 

Next, the quote by Shannon L. Alder came across my path.

“Life always begins with one step outside of your comfort zone.”

At this point, the Universe was dropping hints and encouragement right and left. 

So, friends, here I am.

 

Kathy's garden

 

My name is Katherine (Kathy) Benusa.  I live in Everett, Washington, in the US, in a town of nearly 114,000 people. I was born and raised here.  My parents and brother live nearby.

We have chosen to live in the historic part of town because of our love for all that has history and a story. It is a lovely neighborhood of tree-lined streets and beautiful gardens. Perfect for walking. It borders on an inlet of Puget Sound.  Our home was built in 1916. Even though we have remodeled, it still retains its beauty and character.  It is my sanctuary of peace and calm.  It’s filled with treasures we have collected, along with pieces that make me happy and speak to my heart.  It is a one-of-kind.

 

Kathy's beautiful garden

 

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Our gardens I designed and further add to the tranquility and calm. 

 

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This is my home.

 

After teaching for 38 years, it finally felt right to move into retirement.  It was a difficult decision to make.  I was great at my job, loved being a part of something bigger than myself – a respected teacher, colleague, and good friend to those around me.  At the time, I thought it might be difficult transitioning into retirement. Being an educator was such an important part of my life for so many years. I shouldn’t have spent a minute on that worry. I haven’t regretted my decision for one moment. The rewards have continued to follow me even though I’ve left the classroom.  It was an amazing career, one that I hold near and dear to my heart.  I would choose it again if I had it to do over.

 

Chelan

 

chelan mountain view

 

We have had the good fortune to build a vacation home in eastern Washington in the town of Chelan.  Much smaller than Everett, with a population of around 3,500, it has that small-town feel.  It sits at the end of a 55-mile lake that is fed from the Stehekin River at the base of the Cascade Mountains. Once primarily an apple and cherry growing region, it Is now dotted with wineries where some of those orchards once stood.

The climate is opposite of home, hot in summer, cold in winter vs. the mild year-round temperatures of western Washington. 

 

Blenheim Palace

 

 

In England

 

 

 

It is a blessed getaway that sits atop a hill, a bit out of town, with a spectacular view. We designed the inside of our home with memorable snippets from our travels.  A lovely floor to ceiling mural painted by the artist, Andy Eccleshall, ushers one up the stairs.  It is a collection of places we have visited and love, creatively meshed into one scene.  Our bedroom has a mural of Blenheim Palace in England. Andy painted it from a picture we took whilst on vacation.  Our entry floor is a point on point black and white marble tile as a nod to a 400- year-old bed and breakfast we stayed in years ago in the town of Winchcombe Oxfordshire, England. Our gardens in Chelan also offer peace and tranquility and compliment the breath-taking, ever-changing view of the lake, hills, and farmland. I have loved planning every detail of a trip, finding special, out of the ordinary things to do and unique places to stay.

 

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english garden

 

In the fall of 2019, we planned a trip to London and the southern part of England in Cornwall to visit Poldark Country.

 

 

 

Provence

 

In addition, after being a long-time reader (and fan) of Corey and her blog, I decided it was time for Randy and me to take a trip to France to have a stay in the “house next door” in Provence and end our trip at Corey and Yann’s Paris apartment-perfection! It was one of the best decisions we ever made-totally amazing and unforgettable! 

 

Having Corey and Yann introduce us to the heart and soul of Provence was pure magic.  We couldn’t have imagined the adventures we would have and were unaware of the delights that waited around each and every corner. We treasured time with their gracious, talented artisan friends who welcomed us into their homes with open arms. We explored the elegant and the rustic of Provence, from a beautiful hotel to a crumbling chateau, to a hike high above the sea. We visited an extraordinary museum and stumbled upon a heavenly choir singing in a church. We experienced markets and unique shops.

We learned about French history and culture and listened to stories that entertained and made us laugh. Corey and Yann patiently answered our questions. Together, we explored the countryside and villages-all a photographer’s dream.

 

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We learned about honey-from the hive to the local shop. We ate in quaint restaurants, had lunches with the perfect glass of Rose’ and in the evening, dining on beautiful meals prepared by Corey, while listening to music, all in the glow of candlelight. Randy and Yann walked to the patisserie each morning for croissants. The house next door and the charming bells of Saint-Zacharie welcomed us home each night.  We loved “living” next door. Corey and Yann shared so much more of Provence than I can say.  They are genuine, lovely people with enthusiasm and heart. We were spoiled and happy.

 

kathy at the brocante

Exploring the French brocantes filled my heart with joy and renewed the love I have for aging fancies. I am smiling right now at the very thought.  There are treasures I left behind. They are calling to me to bring them home and I will.  So many memories to cherish and hold dear. 

Here’s to friends!

Thank you, dear Corey, for the honor and privilege of writing a piece for your blog.

With love,

Kathy

 

I leave you with a quote by St. Therese.

“May today there be peace within.  May you trust that you are exactly where you are meant to be.  May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith in yourself and others.  May you use the gifts that you have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you.  May you be content with yourself just the way you are.  Let this knowledge settle into your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise, and love.  It is there for each and every one of us.”



Comments

15 responses to “Guest Post: Kathy Benusa”

  1. Another fabulous guest post…………….I just love reading every single one.
    Each one a new life, a new perspective and it leaves me smiling and happy.
    Thanks Corey for your beautiful blog and your enchanting guest bloggers.
    Blessings

  2. Your home and its setting are stunning. Thanks for sharing with us.

  3. Juuuust mercy. As a little kid I learned about the Pacific Northwest, I always wanted to go there because it sounded magical -and green! Your home is gloriously situated! I love that you incorporated your travels into both your homes, what a fabulous way to relive all those memories! Thank you for this lovely share!

  4. Beautiful gardens and view from your house. Your tranquil garden is inspiring. Wonderful travels. Thanks for the post.

  5. Just lovely. Ok, so after I stay at Corey’s Mom’s B and B, I’m staying at Kathys 🙂

  6. Love the quote at the end. Your garden and home are gorgeous in Washington.
    How wonderful to have stayed in Provence and met Yann and Corey too.
    I loved the table of goodies you were checking out at the brocante too.

  7. Becky Peterson

    Your step out of your comfort zone was beautifully written. Thanks for taking us on your journeys, sharing your beautiful home and garden. That view! I enjoyed every bit.

  8. Kathy, I hear you…. My heart nearly stood still when I saw your heavenly home, that placement within absolute beauty and serenity – and you having been a teacher. You also have that way with words I so appreciate.
    Kathy, you are beautiful, outside and far more importantly INSIDE. Thanks for overcoming your hesitation and sharing with Corey’s readers. That was a great gift on this rainy Monday morning.

  9. Lovely to meet you! Almost neighbours, just a bit of water between.
    Your garden is a dream and the views sublime.
    Thank you for stepping out of your comfort zone.
    Ali

  10. Jennifer Phillipps

    Nice to meet you Kathy…and your lovely home and part of the world…love the quote from St Therese…sums things up very well. Cheers from NZ

  11. Sarah Lammey Webb

    Wow*** can I move into the beautiful she shed in the 5th pic?? Pictures are GORGEOUS!! No need for reservations on posting as it was a fantastic peek into your homes!! 🙂

  12. I love your photos, your corner of the world!
    Thanks for guest posting!

  13. Your home is gorgeous and those gardens!!! My daughter lives in the PNW and I always enjoy visiting. We lived 10 minutes from
    Blenheim Palace for a year so spent a lot of time there. Such a gorgeous place.
    My girls were into horses so we went to some lovely horse shows on the grounds. All very British…
    I’d love to see your mural!

  14. FABULOUS POST!
    I have to tell you I WAS THE FIRST TO STAY WITH MY TWO SONS AT THE PARIS APARTMENTO seven years ago I think it was NOW!
    THE KITCHEN CHANDELIER WAS HUNG ON MY STAY!
    IT IS A CHARMING APARTMENT……….BEYOND!
    Corey I met too and SHE IS WHO YOU THINK SHE IS!A TRUE SINCERE PERSON!LOADS of FUN.
    KATHY do you know about Juliet MAKE MINE A SPRITZER?SHE lived up NORTH in WASHINGTON TOO but now is back in CALIFORNIA but has a NEW BLOG you may enjoy.WHAT A BEAUTIFUL LIFE YOU LIVE!

  15. PS. I Met the LADY of BLENHEIM PALACE and her daughter in San Francisco at an ANTIQUE SHOW………….LOVELY PEOPLE!

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