Shared Stories: Jan Desmarais-Morse

After many years of penning this blog, I have come to know many of you and if you have been following me and reading the comments you probably know each other too.
During Christmas, many of you shared your home’s Christmas decor which gave us another glimpse of you. I enjoyed that so much that I want to continue putting forth ways for us to connect. If you have a personal story that you would want to share please send it to me at

coreyamaro@aol.com

Shared Stories number 7

 

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Four days a week, I spend 30 minutes with seven 14-year-old boys in an alternate ed classroom. I love these boys, even when they are testing my patience. They are always testing my patience. None has lived a fairy tale life and to know their stories would break your heart.

This morning we were engaged in a game to practice a few social skills. I called #1 up to take his turn at the board and had to redirect him from a distraction.

“Sorry,” he said, ‘just got a text from my dad.”

Just as I’m about to speak, I’m interrupted by a wistful voice from across the room softly stating, “Wish I got texts from my dad.”

A silent pause descended, all eyes turned slowly in his direction, while his widened eyes gave evidence of surprise that he’d said it out loud.

“Me, too,” said a third, giving a wry smile and a shrug. The room stayed quiet. Another silent pause as the teacher and I exchange glances, knowing we are witnessing an unusually tender moment for this classroom in these very few seconds that pass.

#1 pulls a hoodie over his ears, shakes his head, then says with a laugh and a “tsk.” “Aw, that’s just sad, Man.” The boys all laughed, the moment broken, and we returned to the game.

 

 

 



Comments

16 responses to “Shared Stories: Jan Desmarais-Morse”

  1. This is real life… thank you for sharing.

  2. God bless you for being there for those young men.

  3. RebeccaNYC

    Thank you Jan.

  4. TOUCHING THE FUTURE IN A VERY REAL WAY! Small victories….i will take them any day of the week.

  5. My heart breaks for these kids.
    I remember in high school wanting to go to the father-daughter dance. No father and not allowed to dance was my sadness. It’s a hard thing, but some of us become strong anyway.

  6. Thanks for sharing this. I hope they all benefit from your positive influence.
    Blessings for them all and for you and
    thanks again Corey for all your postings and those you share.

  7. Susan in Zurich

    Thanks for sharing this with us, Jan.

  8. So it seems that the students socialized even before the game began 🙂
    Here’s hope for our future thanks to volunteers like you, merci!

  9. Beautiful and thoughtful story —-thank you, Jan! You surely are a blessing to the boys.

  10. oh, my. thank you for sharing this touching moment in time.

  11. Thank you for the work you are doing with these boys. This story was heartbreaking. The contribution you
    are making in their lives will make a difference.

  12. The importance of your place in the lives of the boys is immeasurable.Thank you.

  13. Katherine

    Thanks for all you do. As a teacher for 38 years, I understand and totally appreciate you.

  14. Jan…thanks for sharing & for caring. Kindness & connection are such powerful tools. Also…I adore that picture of you! Keep your wings aflutter

  15. Shelley Noble

    Beautiful work!

  16. Thanks for being a healing presence in these boys lives. They will remember.

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